THIS WOMAN NEEDS HELP: I’m Pregnant But He Can’t Afford A Church Wedding (Page 3)

Wedding is Wedding we should just stop this copy copy of a thing pleas go 4 traditional wedding jo and make sure say the guy pay all nessarey dues like ur pride price and that is all who told u that there is place in the Bible that say some one did church wedding all is traditional wedding So why must it be Church wedding? abi people wa do Church wedding are they the best of couples in the world? Abegi make we no dey deceive our self's jo with copy copy b4 nw is there anything like church wedding in the old  days are they not the best of lovers even talk more of the lies we are calling love 2day. Abeg born jo save ur cash for better investment ooooo does wa say make u do church wedding if u need help financially na them no go even help u self even some of this pastors no go even help u So both of U should pray 2 God and do the necessary thing Jo.

Posted: at 20-06-2012 10:58 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

i think we or most of us are Africans and as such we should love the traditional thing more.
pls just pray for some peace of mind and happiness in your union.

Posted: at 20-06-2012 11:43 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

when you open your legs and make love did you tell us only now you are pregnant, are you telling us here to do what..who gives a flying f@#$!!!!does anybody even see my coments, cause ive never seen a reply,mabey nobody cares bout what i say when ie had a few dranks mabey nobody feels like i do

Posted: at 20-06-2012 12:23 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

As long as you have love and understanding between the two of you guys. Just get the guy pay your dowry after the formal introduction. We are Africans. Traditionally you are legally married. Go for the white wedding when you are ready.

Be happy you have your guy by your side. That's most improtant.

Posted: at 20-06-2012 01:04 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

I will feel terrible moving around with a big tummy and no sign of wedlock; at work, church, anywhere I go... I don’t like the idea and so does my fiancé. We can’t afford a church wedding now as it will be too costly considering the time frame.
 lol..luk dey crusify our lord Jesus Christ on d cross of calvary..so, 4get about wat human beings we say about ur pregnacy n forged ahead in life..ma dear u dnt no wt God has done 4 u, by allowing u t get pregnant..luk everything has a purpose in dis lif we are ok..my advice 4 u is dat u shld relax ur self talk to ur fiance..n if u both come to a batr conlution dat w yield bater divident nt d issue of abortin d baby plss..i rest ma case..success is all urs ok..

Posted: at 20-06-2012 01:11 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

I will feel terrible moving around with a big tummy and no sign of wedlock; at work, church, anywhere I go... I don’t like the idea and so does my fiancé. We can’t afford a church wedding now as it will be too costly considering the time frame.
lol..luk our lord Jesus christ was crucified on d cross of calvary..so, wat about u an ordinary mortal being lik u..so. pls forged ahead in lif n let no body 2 decide wat u re going to bi in lif..moreso, tankful to God almight dat gvs u n ur fiance a job, cos pple out der re lukin 4 one, instead but of u were blessed with double blessings..so, ma advice 4 u nw is dat u shld forged ahead in lif mak sure dat all necessary agreement were bi reached wit u n ur fiance nt ur mum..success to both..

Posted: at 20-06-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

The time wey you open your choco milo give am,him dey hammer you and una dey enjoy,you no remember say church wedding dey,you no come tell us for NP. Now u don carry belle that thing wey una do for secret don reach NP. Our fore fathers married without church wedding and they still live together!!! Woman,your problem be say,you wan hang ur bag wey ur hand no reach.You want ur wedding to be like Stephine okereke own, or Eni Edo or Queen of England own,when your name no be Stephine okereke,or Eni Edo etc. Cut ur cloth according to your cloth.

Posted: at 20-06-2012 01:41 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 20-06-2012 02:03 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Go and do what is called ''MORNING MASS'' wedding. It will cost less than 2,000 naira.

Posted: at 20-06-2012 02:13 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I will like to advice you to go for Court marriage which is very simple and easy considering your present state of health. More so, it will be necessary to inform you that, the law recognizes court marriage than any other form of marriage, which ends you a legitimate stay and claims, assuming what morrow beholds. It is your legitimate C of O as the case may be. People look down it because it is cheap and does not assume much time. Open your eyes and be wise 

Posted: at 20-06-2012 02:35 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie