Qualities That Inspires a Man to Stay Devoted (Page 3)

Date: 06-07-2012 12:04 pm (12 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- 50scent at 6-07-2012 06:58 PM (12 years ago)
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- chicco77 at 6-07-2012 07:05 PM (12 years ago)
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- toibeli at 6-07-2012 07:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  6-07-2012 03:52 PM
Hmmmm, can a man be devoted?
Absolutely!
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- Sophyrocks at 6-07-2012 08:05 PM (12 years ago)
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- zoe61 at 6-07-2012 08:10 PM (12 years ago)
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- Neglito at 6-07-2012 10:23 PM (12 years ago)
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- deboalabi262 at 6-07-2012 10:31 PM (12 years ago)
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- ILOVEIT at 7-07-2012 12:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-07-2012 12:04 PM
If you asked 100 men what they look for in a woman, you may get 100 different answers. Some men like blondes. Some like brunettes. Some like tall, willowy women. Others like short ladies. Yet if you ask a man that’s married what he finds important in his wife, an important trend emerges. Being in a marriage with a woman who's beautiful doesn't mean much to a man if his wife is rude, selfish or demanding. Often, women forget that men are attracted to who they are and not just what they look like. Good looks may have caught his attention, but who you are on the inside is what will make or break the relationship in the end.

HONESTY

If there’s one trait your husband will value more than anything else in you, it’s honesty. That may seem awfully boring, but it’s actually huge. Honesty means more to a man than most women realize. Look at it this way: From a guy’s perspective, he knew the day you got married you would ultimately have a tremendous amount of power over him. So likewise, if he’s going to give you that sort of power, he absolutely must be able to trust you. As a man, trust is his most valuable gift he can give you (at least in his mind). If you are dishonest, it makes him question whether he can confide in and depend on you. Telling the truth may sometimes be uncomfortable and, at other times, may be hard, but showing your man that he can trust you to be honest with him at all times will do wonders for your marriage.

PATIENCE
We’ve all heard the proverb, "Patience is a virtue." Patience is key to a lasting relationship. But what exactly does it mean to be patient, anyway? Sometimes, women think of patience in terms of being tolerant. That's not what being patient means. Patience means thinking before you speak or act. For example, if you and your husband/spouse get into a disagreement, stop and ask yourself this question, "Is this worth fighting about?" If it is, then bring it to his attention immediately. If it’s not, be patient with him, hold your tongue, and move on. The little things are worth letting go. There are definite occasions when you should not tolerate his behavior. If he’s unfaithful, abusive, or constantly rude or disrespectful, don’t tolerate it from him. This isn’t the time to be patient and accept it. If it is worth confronting him about, tell him that you want him to change what he’s doing. Give specific examples. If he doesn’t change and the issue is vitally important to you, consider seeking out a professional to help. Patience is wonderful when it comes to small things. Let them fly. Yet when it comes to big, harmful things like infidelity, tolerance does much more harm than good. A good man will respect the woman who knows the difference.

KINDNESS
Men can’t resist a woman who is truly kindhearted. This means so much more than simply being nice to a man. Men measure kindness by how you act when he’s done something wrong and he’s genuinely sorry. For example, say he missed an important event. He forgot it and is genuinely sorry. Do you forgive him and move on or do you hold a grudge and purposefully "miss" an event that is important to him? When your husband/spouse is feeling vulnerable, do you stick it to him or are you gracious? It is possible to accept his apology while conveying how his action hurt you while still forgiving him and moving on. If he’s feeling vulnerable and you don’t take advantage of it, he’ll be incredibly attracted to you. Men want a woman who is genuinely kind and will stick by his side through thin and thick, good and bad. If you can be that woman for him, your marriage will last a lifetime.

BELIEVE IN HIM

There’s nothing sexier to a man than a woman who truly believes in him. In fact, research shows that if you believe in a man’s dreams, he’ll naturally be more attracted to you. What does this mean? You don’t have to show a burning passion for each of his goals and hobbies in life. You don’t have to take up an interest in Fantasy Football or golf tournaments. However, if you tell him that you believe he can accomplish anything his heart desires, you’ll turn him on in magical ways.
For example, say your husband wants to start his own company someday. It may sound a bit crazy to you, but if that’s his passion, encourage him to do it. When you believe in him, the dream feels real to him. It feels attainable. He wants you to believe in him, and if you do he’ll be able to do miraculous things. Sometimes a bit of motivation and encouragement from you is all he needs to get the ball rolling and shoot for the stars. If you truly pay attention to him and listen to his hopes and dreams and then tell him you have faith he can accomplish those goals without telling him how to do it, you’ll create a deep emotional bond and build a strong, lasting marriage.

EXPENSIVE? YOU SET YOUR OWN VALUE

Here's a secret that most women forget --- men like expensive things. What's more, men actually want you to view yourself as a woman of exceptional value. Some women mistakenly believe this means they are to act in a condescending and aloof manner. That's not what men consider valuable. Women who know they are valuable are above all, happy with themselves. Developing this quality can be as simple as learning a new habit. If you feel you're lacking any of these qualities the good news is you can obtain each of them. The secret is to understand a principle that can transform your life and remember that what you do is more important than what you feel. Here's what it means. If you'll begin practicing the trait you want to acquire initially it may feel strange. Yet, if you'll continue practicing these behaviors whether good or bad you'll soon notice a difference in yourself that your husband/spouse will notice as well. Given enough time, these new qualities will become a part of you and your spouse will find himself wanting to be around you more often.

REMEMBER---There’s nothing sexier to a man than a woman who truly believes in him. In fact, research shows that if you believe in a man’s dreams, he’ll naturally be more attracted to you

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- CICICHINMA at 7-07-2012 02:33 AM (12 years ago)
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- ezet2 at 7-07-2012 06:21 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  6-07-2012 03:52 PM
Hmmmm, can a man be devoted?
Why not
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- kebella at 7-07-2012 06:40 AM (12 years ago)
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- dickman2 at 7-07-2012 07:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  6-07-2012 04:00 PM
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- dickman2 at 7-07-2012 07:21 AM (12 years ago)
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- dickman2 at 7-07-2012 07:27 AM (12 years ago)
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- ikwo1 at 7-07-2012 07:46 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-07-2012 04:17 PM
Theres no rapture to wait for...the thing is..we woman have all been taught the complete opposite--and All of us women have taken the wrong road in our attempts to get close to a man -including me. Cool I've taken the wrong road so many times before finally discovering <a class="inlineAdmedialink" href="#">how to[/url] create a truly loving relationship that I broke my own heart many,many times.But-when I start taking the right road,that's when I found him  Smiley As a smart independent woman,you're probably very good at shining during a discussion and engaging a man on an intellectual level. You can easily impress a man and make him enjoy your company,but you may often feel disappointed to learn that he feels no chemistry between you,even if you have a great deal in common. That's because when you try to connect with a man through his mind, he doesn't feel a thing! [<a class="inlineAdmedialink" href="#">color[/url]=red]For a man to fall in love with you,he needs to feel touched by you in a deep,connected,emotional sense.[/color] It so easy to think that a man's interested in being in a relationship with us because he's physically attracted to us Or because sex is "great,  The truth is,and despite what we've all been taught to think,men do not become emotionally attached through sex, even if it's fabulous. Yes ---men demonstrate their deep feelings for you through sex ( it's the way they <a class="inlineAdmedialink" href="#">work[/url] because of their hormonal system ), but that deep connection inside him created hormones only lasts for a few minutes!... there are so so many other ways to .. but since u don't believe a man can be devoted...I have to stop here.. Thanks  Cool
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- dlimelite at 7-07-2012 07:52 AM (12 years ago)
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- dickman2 at 7-07-2012 08:10 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ikwo1 on  7-07-2012 07:46 AM
this woman,is like u missed love in ur former world.
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- dickman2 at 7-07-2012 08:11 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dlimelite on  7-07-2012 07:52 AM
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- ILOVEIT at 7-07-2012 08:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dlimelite on  7-07-2012 07:52 AM
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