ok on the fone to ma man asked if he wanted to come to the health clinic with me for ma regular test and check up, he said yh den i suggested, dat he might aswel take an H.I.V test while we dare he just switched , he was shouting and swearing so as usual i hunged up he called bak and i igorned the calll so he txt to say sori and ask if he can call me bak i txt him bak to ask if he had H.I.V he said no i dont belive and this caused trouble coz i anit talkin to him or having SEX with him untill he takes the test AND show me the results i dont knw wat to do with coz i knw him very can trust him wen it come to stuff like dis
Posted: at 28-03-2009 03:48 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Well, it depends on how U present the issue to him. Bc, if not ganished wiv re~espect & making Ur words look harmonious... definitely, every complete Man must react to that.
That's by the way... If anyone is 100% sure that he/she is Vinereal-disease-free. . . then should agree to go for the test. But if spinning nagative to that, then should be allowed to remain... (no sex).
Posted: at 28-04-2009 01:01 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
childsupport at 26-07-2009 02:52 PM (15 years ago) (m)
even if he takes the test , remember , it takes about three months for the virus to appear in the blood stream .. so ,after the test , still do it with a CD...
never leave out the third party in sex -----
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Posted: at 26-07-2009 02:52 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
HIV is very real so anybody who refuses to do the test before marrying you does not love you and does not trust himself hence cannot wholly trust you. Though we know of the window period but he should do it b4 marriage. tell him you will do it together and if he still refused please leave him he is not yours. Prevention is better than cure.
Posted: at 28-07-2009 10:13 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
inegbenijie at 28-07-2009 12:38 PM (15 years ago) (m)
presentation and approach matters in how we address issues, this is what u discuss wit him face to face than on the fone, talk to him (face 2 face) and make him understand how important it means to both of u to trust eachoda, not that im advocatin sex espeacially sex b4 marriage, sex is worth waitin for. take charge
Posted: at 28-07-2009 12:38 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
elijahdavis at 28-07-2009 01:50 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Well hv u done ur own test? are both of u christians and u belong to a church? if yes then start counseling from he will told on how to go abt the test.
but skip sex before marriage so u can earn ur respect b/4 God and that man ok---God bless u
Posted: at 28-07-2009 01:50 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie