![-]( "Ihuoma") Ihuoma at 1-04-2009 10:40 PM (16 years ago)  (f) Well, I have two child from my boyfriend but we are not marriage. I can love each other without it, but we both like to have kids together.
To adop a child is not the same, because it's not your blood. If two people can not have there own child, than they can adop one, but if you can, everybody prefer to become there own child.
Now this I don't understand...having children is also a lifelong commitment. How can you be ready to be a parent but not ready for marriage?? Why would you continue to have babies by this man? Obviously he is not a bad man b/c you keep having his children…would he make a bad husband. I will not just have a man’s baby….if I’m good enough to be your baby’s mama I am good enough to be your wife. Marriage and children go together. You having a babies by this man, to me, is like a man coming to me saying...I want you to be my wife but not the mother of my child.You are going to keep having children by this man until when....
What is the difference if you get married and still continue to have children?? I see a difference but I want to know if you do.
You can't define me; I break the mold
I speak my mind, don't do what I'm told
I don't fake it, I co | Posted: at 1-04-2009 10:40 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Ihuoma") Ihuoma at 1-04-2009 10:42 PM (16 years ago) (f) I mean if he/she is not ready for a life time commitment like marriage, then how is he/she ready for a child?
Having a child is a lifetime commitment........how can one be ready for one lifetime commitment and not the other?
You can't define me; I break the mold
I speak my mind, don't do what I'm told
I don't fake it, I co | Posted: at 1-04-2009 10:42 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 1-04-2009 11:56 PM (16 years ago) (m) I mean if he/she is not ready for a life time commitment like marriage, then how is he/she ready for a child?
Having a child is a lifetime commitment........how can one be ready for one lifetime commitment and not the other? Good Question
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 1-04-2009 11:56 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "d_man") d_man at 2-04-2009 12:14 AM (16 years ago) (m) I mean if he/she is not ready for a life time commitment like marriage, then how is he/she ready for a child?
both commitments comes with completely different kinds of responsibilities(married-single parent) so probably He/She fancies one to the other. as weired and unorthodox that may seem it does happen!
Be yourself | Posted: at 2-04-2009 12:14 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 2-04-2009 12:17 AM (16 years ago) (m) Yeah it Does... l Hope never to meet Such a Woman tho... No time for Rubbish
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 2-04-2009 12:17 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "d_man") d_man at 2-04-2009 12:35 AM (16 years ago) (m) we are on the same boat Gee
Be yourself | Posted: at 2-04-2009 12:35 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 2-04-2009 08:12 AM (16 years ago) (f) SINKING BOAT  . | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:12 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Tomdequola") Tomdequola at 2-04-2009 08:15 AM (16 years ago) (m) eeeeyyaaaaaa. help them na
It pays to be good. | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:15 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 2-04-2009 08:16 AM (16 years ago) (f) even titanic, no get help. na common boat. i beg make dem sink jare.  | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:16 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Recoverd") Recoverd at 2-04-2009 08:21 AM (16 years ago) (f) There r people who dnt want marriage bt want kids. I realy dnt c anytin wrong wit it doe bt anyhow if 4gud make mama n papa dey 2geda. | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:21 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Recoverd") Recoverd at 2-04-2009 08:21 AM (16 years ago) (f) There r people who dnt want marriage bt want kids. I realy dnt c anytin wrong wit it doe bt anyhow if 4gud make mama n papa dey 2geda. | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:21 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "rbest") rbest at 2-04-2009 08:49 AM (16 years ago) (f) everything is wrong wit that dear | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:49 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 2-04-2009 08:51 AM (16 years ago) (f) EVERY THING FROM A -Z IS WRONG . | Posted: at 2-04-2009 08:51 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "t-prinx") t-prinx at 2-04-2009 09:19 AM (16 years ago) (m) it simply bcos he/she like children | Posted: at 2-04-2009 09:19 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 2-04-2009 09:21 AM (16 years ago) (f) mcewwwwwwwwwwwww. | Posted: at 2-04-2009 09:21 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "t-prinx") t-prinx at 2-04-2009 09:29 AM (16 years ago) (m) mcewwwwwwwwwwwww.
which one is this again | Posted: at 2-04-2009 09:29 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 2-04-2009 09:47 AM (16 years ago) (f) mcewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.  . | Posted: at 2-04-2009 09:47 AM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 2-04-2009 04:14 PM (16 years ago) (f) passing.....
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 2-04-2009 04:14 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 2-04-2009 04:31 PM (16 years ago) (m) SINKING BOAT . How does dis relate to what we Said?
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 2-04-2009 04:31 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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<a href=" http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src=" http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it!  A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who | Posted: at 2-04-2009 04:34 PM (16 years ago) | Hero | |
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