Am I Too Young To Get Married? (Page 11)

Date: 13-04-2009 2:00 pm (15 years ago) | Author: MIRABELA
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- patienceudosen at 16-04-2009 04:19 PM (15 years ago)
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GBAM! ASK AM.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 04:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- godunia at 16-04-2009 04:30 PM (15 years ago)
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under the civil marriage,u can get married to anyone at 21yrs even witout the consent of yr parents,thats the law.At 23yrs,u are hormonally steady to make  a serious decision such as who to love and whom to spend yr life wt.the bible for instance recommend passing the bloom of youth(1 cor 7),that i m sure u have passed at 23.the summary of wat i m trying to say is that u are already too old to get married.if u delay,i m sure yr parents wont marry u.ask our sistas that are already 30.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 04:30 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- damover at 16-04-2009 04:41 PM (15 years ago)
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My dear u r pweety but thats not what real love that leads to marriage is based on. Marriage is a contract till death( though divorce maybe there 4 a release of the burden). You said ur parents did want u to get married? thats hwat marriage is all about. Ask urself if u r ready to listen to ur children at all time and try to find reason in whatever they have to say without considering their age. What u r abt to go into is not bf n gf stuff. This is 4 real, that u get to sit down and think abt the negative things u hv heard abt marriage and the positive ones also. But more especially the negative ones, and ask urself if they come to u would u be able to handle them in a matured way without assistance? All u have to do is go to ur parents and let them know that u really want to get marreid and that u r ready for all that follows. Dont think of getting pregnant to make them have no choice than to allow u cos they may dissapoint u, and u will go ahead to marry ur man. Along the line if u hv a problem with ur man, then he will remind u that he married u without ur parents concent. JUST BE WISE IN ALL
Posted: at 16-04-2009 04:41 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tawoakeeb at 16-04-2009 05:08 PM (15 years ago)
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blackbeauty,u are 23 and u want to get marriage. let me ask you a question do u get wot u can embark on when u get married,wait let me advice u,pls finish ur education first to d stage dat u ve been working.so dat wn u get marriage u would not depend on your husband.   
Posted: at 16-04-2009 05:08 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- giftyinka at 16-04-2009 05:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In
fact, it was a completely spontaneous
experience. You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love - because
it's happening TO YOU. But are u sure of it
Posted: at 16-04-2009 05:59 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- xposure at 16-04-2009 06:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Happy mother you want to be, but have you put into considerations the challenges in marriage? Have you really found out if your fiance or your boyfriend is indeed ready as you are. it takes two to go into marriage life, you can't just put  the guy in a tight corner all because you wish to become a mother and a wife. Life is easy that you don't need to rush for anything. You have a whole lot of years ahead why not take your time, find that special man  who is truly ready for a lasting marriage life. All dreams are not necessarily accomplished not because they are not good enough as it fit us but because we have a calling, when the time is right you would  settle down. I would advice you seek counseling from your pastor/ mentor. 23 is way too young to be in a marriage life. Though age is all but a number but maturity counts. Don't mean any offense so wouldn't expect you pick one out of my friendly advice. Peace.....stay blessed ....TO THE RED DEVILS WE ARE MOVING TO THE FINAL ROUND OF THE CHAMPIONS LEAGUE NOT EVEN ARSENAL CAN STOP US. PEACE BROTHERS/SISTERS
Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:15 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- ezeobama at 16-04-2009 06:20 PM (15 years ago)
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hi
Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:20 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Samymail at 16-04-2009 06:32 PM (15 years ago)
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23yr of age is not wrong,even 20,if there is resourses for it.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:32 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- LisaAng at 16-04-2009 06:44 PM (15 years ago)
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no you are not, as long as you are committed to the sanctity of marriage, it is fine.  at 23, and any age, you should be with a person you have love for, common likes and who is committed to one person too.  you should be with a person who loves you for who you are and will allow you to grow into your own woman and who will nurture that growth.   and you should give all that to him too.  be blessed, and keep God in it
Posted: at 16-04-2009 06:44 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dedoyin-64 at 16-04-2009 07:02 PM (15 years ago)
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You are certainly not too young to get married, if u check out the community where i schooled in the north, infact, u a too old to get married, girls of age 14 to 16. dont even think about getting pregnant, u'll get urself into a messy situation n emotional trauma that can ruin ur 2moro.
be prepared urself.

I have seen ladies of about 27yrs not yet ready 4 marriage, its all about u yourself, BE PREPARED
Posted: at 16-04-2009 07:02 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- seyicrown79 at 16-04-2009 07:26 PM (15 years ago)
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you are not too young or old to get married. i think that age is the perfect age for women to get married. i got married to my wife when she was 22 years of age and we have been married for 3years now with a bouncing baby boy about to clock 3yrs as well. All you need to do is take things in a gentle manner and try to do some nice talking to ur parents. let them understand you know what you are doing. pls let me know their reply. wish you all d best.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 07:26 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- hopewood at 16-04-2009 09:17 PM (15 years ago)
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There more to marriage than I LOVE MY GUY. It challenging and sometime frustrating, are ready for life time commitment and lond suffering? if not then wait another 3yrs to prepare ur self mentaly and emotionally.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 09:17 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- mushabc at 16-04-2009 09:59 PM (15 years ago)
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see dis woman
Posted: at 16-04-2009 09:59 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jerry4arsenal at 16-04-2009 11:06 PM (15 years ago)
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It all depends on how matured you are mentally, your age doesn't really matter.
Posted: at 16-04-2009 11:06 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- gibsrinse at 17-04-2009 12:01 AM (15 years ago)
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thats lovely i like that, you are not too young but i will like you to listen to your parent am sure they are not going to mislead you since they are not going to marry you or keep you for some one somewhere.
Posted: at 17-04-2009 12:01 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- steamingt at 17-04-2009 12:06 AM (15 years ago)
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That's my field. I councel. I''ll love to talk to you but I don't know how cos I live far from where you are but if you really think It matters pls mail me. steamingt
Posted: at 17-04-2009 12:06 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Nwamgbowo at 17-04-2009 12:47 AM (15 years ago)
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See pal getting married is not going to the market and see a shoe bcos u like it, put ur money for it and after some time u will dislike d shoe. In marrage u learn how to tolorate, to be patiant, love and care, overlook somethings. Be able to accomodate somethings no gosiping. If you can do this i wish u all the best.
Posted: at 17-04-2009 12:47 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- COOLREG at 17-04-2009 06:16 AM (15 years ago)
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First, you are not too young my dear, However i say that marriage is a beautiful thing and brings fulfilment, but i want to advice that no one should ever feel desperate to get into marriage becuase it could turn out to be the most regretable thing u do in ur life if you marry the wrong person. So as much as i agree that you are ripe for marriage i hope you are sure that you found ur real love and life partner and also hoping that ur mind and you is ready to settle into marriage, for better for worse. Goodluck
Posted: at 17-04-2009 06:16 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- rawlings at 17-04-2009 07:39 AM (15 years ago)
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Well i sypathized with u over your cause. No that no man is ready to married a lady over 27-30 so consider urself luck to have someone trying to shoulder the responsibilities of marriage. Many ladies are roaming the street looking for mr right to hook. If you are ready and the guy also let ur parent see reason with u. I wish u the best of purpose and decision.
 agbor
Posted: at 17-04-2009 07:39 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- mazi at 17-04-2009 07:49 AM (15 years ago)
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marriage! marriage!!marriage!!!
Posted: at 17-04-2009 07:49 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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