I hate it when men demeaning women (Page 11)

Date: 30-10-2012 1:30 pm (11 years ago) | Author: INDEPENDENT WOMAN
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:18 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:09 PM
It wont be bad if i write a book about this topic ...y'all should please contribute Jare..make I see more view

its better i drop my hand here..(not my pen) more views from the men pls  Grin so as to help her write the book

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:18 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:21 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:13 PM
u wey don call me ashawo so many times on naijapals, i talk? cos u called me ashawo here doesnt mean am one.. i didnt get upset with the word cos i am not one.. its just a name tho.. but what u must know is.. when u r bin called a slut, or ashawo, dont feel terrible, cos u arent one, xcept u r one.. den u have every right to be  angry..its same as calling me tif when am not..u no u dont see who soever is behind his/her lappy/fone or whatever typing here on NP, thats why they abuse anyhow they like.. as for the respect thing.. u shud know is reciprocal.  
from my view now....I think u did took an offense about it.....when I called u that, I was just playing with you..base on how we both commenting to each other....I didn't know it hurt you tho...nor vex...next time I will know how to play with you...meanwhile, that same way you will ignore it online same way you will do in real life because you think you are not ashawo...do you know what your ex call you?

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:21 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:18 PM
its better i drop my hand here..(not my pen) more views from the men pls  Grin so as to help her write the book
u have to keep commenting ...I needs more women view..on how they think about each other !!

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:25 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:21 PM
from my view now....I think u did took an offense about it.....when I called u that, I was just playing with you..base on how we both commenting to each other....I didn't know it hurt you tho...nor vex...next time I will know how to play with you...meanwhile, that same way you will ignore it online same way you will do in real life because you think you are not ashawo...do you know what your ex call you?

i knew u were joking all those while.. am only reminding you about it as regards what u said.. av nvr bin called an ashawo or a slut by any man or woman in life..and i dont think my ex does.. cos he doesnt see me as such..if we cud accord some respect to ourselves first.. i blv the men will do same.

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:25 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:23 PM
u have to keep commenting ...I needs more women view..on how they think about each other !!

na by force? come force me make i see u na

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:26 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:28 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:25 PM
i knew u were joking all those while.. am only reminding you about it as regards what u said.. av nvr bin called an ashawo or a slut by any man or woman in life..and i dont think my ex does.. cos he doesnt see me as such..if we cud accord some respect to ourselves first.. i blv the men will do same.
i knew it hurt you to be stereotype wrongly is not ...keep it real with me....

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:28 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:30 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:26 PM
na by force? come force me make i see u na
if to sa I know where you base at and the distance is not far from each other...I for come your place come force you...

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:30 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:28 PM
i knew it hurt you to be stereotype wrongly is not ...keep it real with me....

Not at all.. u r far from it.. that kain tin nor fit make me vex for real , not to talk of online.. never

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:31 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:30 PM
if to sa I know where you base at and the distance is not far from each other...I for come your place come force you...

thank God sey u no no na

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:31 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- verah at 31-10-2012 01:35 PM (11 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:35 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- verah at 31-10-2012 01:39 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: nametalkam on 30-10-2012 06:31 PM
did you know your father also uses Naijapals? how disrespectful
it obvious u hav finally neglected ur medications  Cheesy  hw wouldnt u knw after all these while that ur father is d one of d dundees am talkin about. dnt u knw only dundees breed dundees nd u r a gud example...  Tongue Tongue Tongue dundee ooh dundee...   Grin

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:39 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:42 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:31 PM
Not at all.. u r far from it.. that kain tin nor fit make me vex for real , not to talk of online.. never
im not talking about online real life......
Anyway, back to the main issues.....to my conclusion....women are judged wrongly because of the way women dress and carried themselves .....and it should not be so...most men are degrading women so bad.....I'm talk ing about real life now not just online ....with the ways women dress,,,they should not be judge so...a woman who is confident about her body can dress sexy with the way she feels like and carried herself high..and be proud of herself...enough is enough to be hiding who you are because you are scared for not to be  judge..women now have their right ..use it.

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:42 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:42 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:31 PM
thank God sey u no no na
like I will not find

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- verah at 31-10-2012 01:43 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dlimelite on 30-10-2012 05:31 PM
Add badguy badgua  Grin
hhahaah badguy for np? i pray oo  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes most np guys na fake ass people now always forming to feel among..  d real ones among them r few..  dats if u get my own definition of bad oo   Wink Wink Wink Wink

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:43 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 01:46 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: verah on 31-10-2012 01:43 PM
hhahaah badguy for np? i pray oo  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes most np guys na fake ass people now always forming to feel among..  d real ones among them r few..  dats if u get my own definition of bad oo   Wink Wink Wink Wink
lol..you are right..so many fake people here...that is why I always abuse them sometime....I know the real ones and I will not in my staying here on naijapals insult them...and they know themselves....

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:46 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:51 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:42 PM
im not talking about online real life......
Anyway, back to the main issues.....to my conclusion....women are judged wrongly because of the way women dress and carried themselves .....and it should not be so...most men are degrading women so bad.....I'm talk ing about real life now not just online ....with the ways women dress,,,they should not be judge so...a woman who is confident about her body can dress sexy with the way she feels like and carried herself high..and be proud of herself...enough is enough to be hiding who you are because you are scared for not to be  judge..women now have their right ..use it.

am a good gal, so i dress decent.. not like an ashawo.  Tongue ashawo get dreesing na..lol

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:51 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:52 PM (11 years ago)
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i still repeat..Carry yourself like a Queen and you'll get your King. Carry yourself as a hoe and we'll see how far you go. Ladies! Don't ever lower your standards for anyone. Self respect is everything... Give it to yourself and others will see that you won't settle for anything less...Self-respect should be NO:1 on a woman's list of values.

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:52 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 31-10-2012 01:55 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:42 PM
like I will not find

sure u will

Posted: at 31-10-2012 01:55 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 31-10-2012 02:09 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 31-10-2012 01:51 PM
am a good gal, so i dress decent.. not like an ashawo.  Tongue ashawo get dreesing na..lol
sorry to say this ..don't get what up..you are fake some time....
Today will you post a topic ..,advising women how to hold a man down...sex and all
Next tomorrow you will post about how a woman should dress sexy....but now you acting like a Muslim woman...
Don't be offended sha..

Posted: at 31-10-2012 02:09 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Mobbysmartins at 31-10-2012 02:20 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 31-10-2012 01:42 PM
im not talking about online real life......
Anyway, back to the main issues.....to my conclusion....women are judged wrongly because of the way women dress and carried themselves .....and it should not be so...most men are degrading women so bad.....I'm talk ing about real life now not just online ....with the ways women dress,,,they should not be judge so...a woman who is confident about her body can dress sexy with the way she feels like and carried herself high..and be proud of herself...enough is enough to be hiding who you are because you are scared for not to be  judge..women now have their right ..use it.

Just feel like saying this,can any one really identify the borderline between what is real and what is not???.I mean my time as I am writing this comment is 1.20 PM,this is real for me,the time of my friend who is also online with me in another forum is 8.11 AM,that is also real for him.So I believe reality is a relative term,what is real where you are may not be real where I am,there will be a lot of chaos when you insists on your set of reality and I insist on my own set of realities,because of that human beings made for themselves a set of rules,yardsticks,standards if you like.......to prevail over these dichotomous sets of realities and unrealities....... those rules or yardsticks or standards are the societal norms,morals and values(and they changes over time).....if you go against them,you will judged either way,rightly or wrongly,if you do not go against them,nobody judges you......as a man the society I live in allows me to play football in front of my house wearing only my boxers,this same society,for some reasons does not allow a woman to do the same.Example 2.The society I live in said,I should be the main economic provider of my wife and children,this same society frowns at it when my wife is doing the economic provision for me.It is not about law,it is not about whether or not someone have the right to do a thing,it is not about having the ability to do it,it is about societal values.
Posted: at 31-10-2012 02:20 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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