Old guys marrying younger gurls....

Date: 22-04-2009 4:18 pm (16 years ago) | Author: MIRABELA
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- at 22-04-2009 04:18 PM (16 years ago)
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My bestfriend sista 19yrs, whom we al grew up in d same hood back in d days, got pregnant by a guy of 37yrs and d guy dcided to engage d gurl. Afta she had put to bed,living with d guy. She dont have a say in d house, she is nt even put to do anytin dat wil get doe into her purse. She is just sitted in d house working nd taking care of d baby. She is not free,cant lev the house 2 visit friends though the guy takes care of her and the baby.
Can this marriage work out btw them? Can she ever be able to talk one day? Do she have to keep mute and adapt 2 this lifestyle all her lyf cos she is married 2 an older man?
I rily pity this gurl. 


Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:18 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- bim4u at 22-04-2009 04:21 PM (16 years ago)
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dats too bad,although some old men are not like dat,sm care n respect their wives
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:21 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- mazi at 22-04-2009 04:23 PM (16 years ago)
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datz marriage of convinience....
it's not powered by love.....
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:23 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 04:30 PM (16 years ago)
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Yeah i know, i rily felt 4 her... How can i mari a man nd i wont b able 2 talk 2 hm,luk at his face. I av 2 take permission b4 i can put on d generator when i feel lyk usin it... What can she do nw? She is nt gud there? Fyn some marid men are respectful bt do u tink they cn respect a lady they r 15 2 20yrs older than?

Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:30 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dinho4lyf at 22-04-2009 04:31 PM (16 years ago)
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Dis dayz, some gals dont want to reach d stream b4 they fetch water. She suld jst dance to d tune.
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:31 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lovemar at 22-04-2009 04:40 PM (16 years ago)
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I think ur friend did not take time to knw dis guy, undstd him, bcos it looks like she is traped. Only God knw if it will work bcos she is just too young 4 dat kind of treatment.
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:40 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- patienceudosen at 22-04-2009 04:48 PM (16 years ago)
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why did she open her legs in the first place?
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:48 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 04:53 PM (16 years ago)
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Hey ya. So dat gurl is finished.... Chei
Wel we al knw she has made d worst mistake in her life but is there is a remedy?

Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:53 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dinho4lyf at 22-04-2009 04:56 PM (16 years ago)
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Bcos she wanted some fresh air Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:56 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 22-04-2009 04:57 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 22-04-2009 04:30 PM
Yeah i know, i rily felt 4 her... How can i mari a man nd i wont b able 2 talk 2 hm,luk at his face. I av 2 take permission b4 i can put on d generator when i feel lyk usin it... What can she do nw? She is nt gud there? Fyn some marid men are respectful bt do u tink they cn respect a lady they r 15 2 20yrs older than?
she was not properly guided....
nd she go begin swallow dat king big snake....wot was she thinking
Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:57 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 04:58 PM (16 years ago)
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Hehehehe na wa 4 u oh,wch 1 be d air wey no fresh

Posted: at 22-04-2009 04:58 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 05:00 PM (16 years ago)
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Wel i dnt blame her though, u knw al ds smal unoriented gurls of 2dy wey bcos of money go dy spread legs, she go feel say,as she tel d guy,he go tel am make she comot am,bt guy con acept respon o. Put am 4 house con dy ride d bus ow e lyk.

Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:00 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 05:01 PM (16 years ago)
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Mazi,Wel i dnt blame her though, u knw al ds smal unoriented gurls of 2dy wey bcos of money go dy spread legs, she go feel say,as she tel d guy,he go tel am make she comot am,bt guy con acept respon o. Put am 4 house con dy ride d bus ow e lyk.

Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 22-04-2009 05:04 PM (16 years ago)
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was she in school wen dis happened?
na vex d bobo vex o....maybe he was forced to marry her cos of d circumstances
nd believe u me...na so d guy koko dey go
Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:04 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 05:10 PM (16 years ago)
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Yes she just finished her sch cert tryin 2 luk 4 admission...

Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:10 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- idyyoung at 22-04-2009 05:12 PM (16 years ago)
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At 19 with 37,wat will happen when she 30....
Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:12 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 22-04-2009 05:13 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 22-04-2009 04:18 PM
My bestfriend sista 19yrs, whom we al grew up in d same hood back in d days, got pregnant by a guy of 37yrs and d guy dcided to engage d gurl. Afta she had put to bed,living with d guy. She dont have a say in d house, she is nt even put to do anytin dat wil get doe into her purse. She is just sitted in d house working nd taking care of d baby. She is not free,cant lev the house 2 visit friends though the guy takes care of her and the baby.
Can this marriage work out btw them? Can she ever be able to talk one day? Do she have to keep mute and adapt 2 this lifestyle all her lyf cos she is married 2 an older man?
I rily pity this gurl. 

Chic, commot Ur eye from Ur friend marriage. is she complaining? una levels don change. Unless Ur married Urself, U remain unsuited to understand her new life or "help her out of it"
Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:13 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 22-04-2009 05:14 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 22-04-2009 05:10 PM
Yes she just finished her sch cert tryin 2 luk 4 admission...
ewelewe......dat means datz her last bus-stop
Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:14 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 22-04-2009 05:16 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: idyyoung on 22-04-2009 05:12 PM
At 19 with 37,wat will happen when she 30....
forget dat one o....d guy fit still look young nd fit...
afteral i'm 87 yrs old...i'm sure i look younger dan u... Tongue
Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:16 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- blackbeauty005 at 22-04-2009 05:22 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 22-04-2009 05:13 PM
Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 22-04-2009 04:18 PM
My bestfriend sista 19yrs, whom we al grew up in d same hood back in d days, got pregnant by a guy of 37yrs and d guy dcided to engage d gurl. Afta she had put to bed,living with d guy. She dont have a say in d house, she is nt even put to do anytin dat wil get doe into her purse. She is just sitted in d house working nd taking care of d baby. She is not free,cant lev the house 2 visit friends though the guy takes care of her and the baby.
Can this marriage work out btw them? Can she ever be able to talk one day? Do she have to keep mute and adapt 2 this lifestyle all her lyf cos she is married 2 an older man?
I rily pity this gurl. 

Chic, commot Ur eye from Ur friend marriage. is she complaining? una levels don change. Unless Ur married Urself, U remain unsuited to understand her new life or "help her out of it"

Posted: at 22-04-2009 05:22 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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