12 Reasons why (most) women don’t like dating nice guys (Page 5)

 

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Posted: at 10-01-2013 01:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 10-01-2013 02:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 10-01-2013 02:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Ring?

Posted: at 10-01-2013 03:09 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It is not true at all. The reason people come up with such a ludicrous conclusion is because some "nice guys" fall for the wrong girls. Sometimes, I begin to wonder what girls really want: is it a guy who showers them with so much love and care or a guy who monitors and suspects their every move? So, when girls play a fast one on these nice guys, it is considered as "mumu" right?. I ask you, are all bad guys shrewd people? You see, this completely depends on the angle you are looking at. Do you blame these guys for being nice to ladies or do you blame the ladies for being cheats and fake? This is one thing that bemuses me till date. I mean a guy shows a girl love and what does she do? She turns around, pretends and makes mockery of him before her friends. The big question now is: who would you prefer: a guy who is uber caring, loving, understanding and God-fearing or the one who has none of these qualities? Ever heard of a bad boy who duped a lady of her money after having dated her for 6years? She fell head over heels in love with him on account of his laudable segxwal capabilities. But, is that really all?

Posted: at 10-01-2013 04:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

to certain extent what the article said contains some elements of truth in it. the elements of good surprises is a variety that spices up a relationship, as a man you suppose to be in charge and take control of your relationship in every aspect of it but without being controling, women love. there are times when you need to ask for your woman's opinion and there are times you dont need to. it's okay to seek her inputs about your goals, aspirations and stuff like that. but it's not okay to ask her permission or seek her suggestions before flipping her over while making love with her. nor is it okay for her to educate you or tell you what or how to do it to her in the bedroom for her to burst those 'nuts' lol!, there is nothing as boring and as disappointing to a woman as those bedroom or intimacy lectures that she has to give to her man. sometimes most 'Mr. Nice Guys' are good husbands because, I mean most of them are gentlemen, but they may not be good 'bedmates' to their women. women love bad boys in the bedroom, believe it or not. however you should not take everything the article said and digest it in its entirety because that will only leave you with a teenage mentality. it's not every bad boy in the street that's a bad boy in the bedroom and a man does not have to be a bad boy in the street for him to be a bad boy in the bedroom. it takes a mature and responsible woman to discover him: "a gentlemam in the street but a bad boy in the bedroom" because he does not make noise or sound his trumpet. just the same way we men like it: " a lady in the street but a freak under the blanket" : PEACE Y'ALL!!!

Posted: at 10-01-2013 04:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

No wonder!

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Posted: at 10-01-2013 05:45 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thanks people

Posted: at 10-01-2013 06:26 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Just as beauty is in the eys of the beholder, so is bad o good relative; My good guy can be your bad guy ( depending on your reasoning faculty and perspective). Infact this topic is very broad and complex; 1. Nobody is either good or bad in everything, if you must mention this pertinent to relationships, then you'll need to specify the areas affected ( is he bad in approach, is he bad in bed, is he inexperienced in the bedroom affairs...etc); in fact your write-up is empty and baseless. And 'll advise you to desist from such posts as this can have longterm negative effects on ppl.
But the reality is that 80% of females are naturally confused nd childish on relationship matters, it is true that 80% of gurl will prefer an irresponsible guy ( who fights and womanize) over a studious and gentle guy - reason is that she wants to be seen as a queen, and wants to prove to the other gurls tha she' more classy and seductive.

Posted: at 10-01-2013 10:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

True talk

Posted: at 11-01-2013 10:05 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie