I left my matrimonial home in January after I found out another woman was pregnant for my husband.
I was six months pregnant then and the other lady was five. This woman is my husband's ex who he kept sleeping with until our wedding in September 2012.
He told me he hasn't touched her since we got married but he got her pregnant a month before our wedding. I'm eight months pregnant now and I'm very angry and disappointed in myself for choosing a man who has humiliated me so much.
My family and friends are begging me to go back home, give my marriage a chance and have my baby there, but I don't know what I want to do that.
I'm staying at my parents house at the moment and yes my husband is also begging. So on top of being angry, I'm also confused.
I need your advice, should I go back to my matrimonial home?
"Jennifer"
Posted: at 6-03-2013 01:32 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 6-03-2013 02:07 PM (12 years ago) (f)
What is ur husband planning to do wit d oda lady?
Posted: at 6-03-2013 02:07 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
lecturerdabo at 6-03-2013 03:27 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Who is married here, you or the ex? Well you can as well stay and take over the "EX" status while the ex takes your status as "Wife" No skin pain BUT sorry for your predicament!
Posted: at 6-03-2013 03:27 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
My dear just go back and face your family there is a challenge in every marriage ,it your ability to manage it that makes you a strong woman and not by running away,go back and chase that strange outtttttt
Posted: at 6-03-2013 03:39 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Chericoco at 6-03-2013 06:59 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Go back to your husband. The wh*re your husband slept with want you out and don't give her that chance. Your husband wanted one last one, and it ended the way it is. Or the lady decided to ruin your marriage by intentionally getting pregnant for your husband. That shameless wh*re is happy to see you out of the house, once you go back she will be so pissed off, jealous and hopeless. Chai! Men.
Posted: at 6-03-2013 06:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Woman go back to your husband house you married for better for worst.and this the time to test that.know it your husband will not beg you for long.then he will take the other woman,like you said she is also pregnant for him.but first you both have to sit and talk things out.also about the other woman.also pray hard so God will take control of everything.wish you good luck sister.
Posted: at 6-03-2013 07:06 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
steveoneal at 6-03-2013 07:37 PM (12 years ago) (m)
go back to your man, else , the ex would use that as an avenue and replace you,, but you will have to cope with the fact that you are now in a polygamy,,,, thats just it,,
Posted: at 6-03-2013 07:37 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
go back to your man, else , the ex would use that as an avenue and replace you,, but you will have to cope with the fact that you are now in a polygamy,,,, thats just it,,
Good thinking
Posted: at 6-03-2013 07:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero