Sex doesn't change who you are in essence; it doesn't make you happy on its own; it's not the be-all and end-all that many virgins think it is. Yes, I agree that it changes how you deal with (and think about) a man/woman, and that it gives you more confidence in that area... but it doesn't make you a different, better or happier person. Only you can do that, virgin or not.
Our contemporary society is so sex-obsessed. Look at our culture. Our movies and sitcoms tell us that losing your virginity is the Holy Grail, and that orgasms are the ultimate goal in life. They brainwash us into believing that your life isn't worth living unless you're having sex all the time.
That's why some virgins nowadays often put so much importance on sex, believing that it's some mysterious thing that solves all your problems(just saying). for me, Sex, when you really think about it, isn't really a big deal.
It's great when you lose your virginity 
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but life still goes on as before.On the other hand, in Nigeria today, when a child (boy/girl) looses his or her virginity.. their respect for an adult even their parents...goes off, them no go even remember that aunty or brother wey them they call you.. them go feel sey.. them don taste that thin wey u feel sey na only you fit enjoyam... even wen u send dem message sef.. dem go dey find am difficult to go.. and na that time their leg go dey scratch dem to dey comot..
in conclusion-- i'll sey Nigerian Kids (male/Female) become confident after loosing their "V' Virginity
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-04-2013 01:22 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero |
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