i do appreciate all of your concern here, i truly do, and i am not happy about bringing my family matters here to this forum, but i must speak my mind as well.
i asked my children to come to naijapals, because i wanted to share my family here. my children know how much i enjoy naijapals, and they are not so pleased that i spend so much time here. they think just as many other americans, that africa, and espeically nigeria are no good!!!
i have been trying for almost 4 years now, to make my children to understand that they should not feel this way about your beautiful continent of africa.
my black children are very americanized and i am not always proud of them. i raised them to be much better than this.
my children mean well, but they are old enough now, and they need to let me have my own life. my children are 32, 29, and 27.
far too old now to be behaving this way. my children live very nearby, and i see them daily. my grandchildren are in my house so often, that they think they live with me.
please try to understand, this is my joy, and i am old enough to know what i want and live my life the way i choose to.
my blackbeauty is not feeling very well today. i would appreciate if her pals could show her some love please.
@big dog, i understand you dear, and after our very long chat, i know where you are coming from.
i also know that family will always be, i know that men come and go.
i am happy now, and i want to remain that way.
someday, years from now, all of you will know just how strong of a woman i really am.
please show some love to my mirabela soon. she is really not feeling well at all. she has not been able to spend time here lately on naijapals, and i am missing her here terribly. i miss her daily love, and i really wish she could spend more time here now.
i talk to mirabela online several times a week, that is how we remain close, and i am very concerned about her right now.
she is not in good spirits at all. please pray for my babygirl. i cherish her with all of my heart.
thank you
Posted: at 29-05-2009 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie |
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