Sensitive Situation: Opinion Naijapals, What Would She Do With The Pregnancy? (Page 3)

Sophy, where did you read that the husband cannot impregnate a woman? It is possible that if you try him, he will get you pregnant. It is also possible that, he is missing the target with that adultrous wife.

Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it  . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out,  I pray for her  for God's strenght  in carryin the baby and raising it.  Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex)  can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids.  She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife.  So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.

Babe !   what are you saying?....she cheated for crying out loud...i cant believe you are giving her an OSCAR for that.

Why would she ask her ex to take her to d doctor after 3 months, definitely there is more to this story, don't believe d one night stand cock n bull story. Need advice be plain!

So i wonder wat advice wud be given to a woman whose husband impregnates anoda woman. No wonder marriage has lost its meaning. If u can advice a man to end his marriage bcos his wife was unfaithful n had a child, den u shud also advise d same for a woman whose husband was unfaithful n had a child outside. U all seem to remember dat word 'FORGIVENESS' wen a man cheats bt wen its a woman, u throw it to d wind. And yet u pray to God to forgive u of ur sins? Are u kid ding me? Yet u al go to church n block d ears of God 4 riches and forgiveness. Dis is d hypocrisy among nigerians dat jesus talked abt. For a marriage to stand, both partners must be ready to forgive each oda, not only d woman doin d forgiving. Do u al knw dat? Jesus wasnt talkin to only women. Unless u married for d wrong reasons, ur marriage is bound to fail.  Well back to d story, To me, abortn is out of it. She shud kip d baby, let d hubby knw abt it n beg fervently 4 his forgiveness. If to say she only cheated witout pregnancy, dat cud hav be pardoned. But she got pregnant, so dis wud make D hubby opt 4 seperatn or divorce, but as long she is remorse, she shud continue to beg. Dis is y distance in marriage isnt encouraged at all. Things wil neva be d same in dat marriage sha. If my man only cheated witout impregnating any woman, dat wud be pardoned. But if he repeats it again or went as far as impregnating, i wil have to divorce b4 i kill sombody's Son. Tolerance has limit. So if d man cnt handle it, its his choice to leave if he wants. But he must accept dat he is d one who cnt make a woman pregnant n so he shud tink abt dat carefuly b4 decidin to marry anoda woman. Wil d nxt woman he meets stay wit him 4 yrs knwin fuly well dat he cnt impregnate a woman? Anyways, d choice is his.

Why is everybody buying dis ur Contemporary advice. Dis is Africa Shawlty! If you were the husband, would you take her back? It is high level of INFIDELITY. assuming She was not pregnant, don't you think she'd likely continue to be cheating? There's a clitche that, "once a soldier is always a soldier" dis has a vast interpretation. You Think the man is a wood and probably not getting pressure from his family for grand children? Yet, he remained faithful because of love Most likely. Adoptiion would have been a better option than outcast ( child born out of wed lock ). I'd rather forgive a prostitute who wishes to repent and settle down than an adultrous wife. My advise is for her to give herself the woman dignity and leaves before the man comes back. She could be much better as a single Mum or better still go struggle space in her Ex home than standing the shame of looking into her husband's eyes asking for forgiveness. Ladies and Gentleman, forgiveness is of the Lord!

Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it  . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out,  I pray for her  for God's strenght  in carryin the baby and raising it.  Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex)  can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids.  She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife.  So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.

So i wonder wat advice wud be given to a woman whose husband impregnates anoda woman. No wonder marriage has lost its meaning. If u can advice a man to end his marriage bcos his wife was unfaithful n had a child, den u shud also advise d same for a woman whose husband was unfaithful n had a child outside. U all seem to remember dat word 'FORGIVENESS' wen a man cheats bt wen its a woman, u throw it to d wind. And yet u pray to God to forgive u of ur sins? Are u kid ding me? Yet u al go to church n block d ears of God 4 riches and forgiveness. Dis is d hypocrisy among nigerians dat jesus talked abt. For a marriage to stand, both partners must be ready to forgive each oda, not only d woman doin d forgiving. Do u al knw dat? Jesus wasnt talkin to only women. Unless u married for d wrong reasons, ur marriage is bound to fail.  Well back to d story, To me, abortn is out of it. She shud kip d baby, let d hubby knw abt it n beg fervently 4 his forgiveness. If to say she only cheated witout pregnancy, dat cud hav be pardoned. But she got pregnant, so dis wud make D hubby opt 4 seperatn or divorce, but as long she is remorse, she shud continue to beg. Dis is y distance in marriage isnt encouraged at all. Things wil neva be d same in dat marriage sha. If my man only cheated witout impregnating any woman, dat wud be pardoned. But if he repeats it again or went as far as impregnating, i wil have to divorce b4 i kill sombody's Son. Tolerance has limit. So if d man cnt handle it, its his choice to leave if he wants. But he must accept dat he is d one who cnt make a woman pregnant n so he shud tink abt dat carefuly b4 decidin to marry anoda woman. Wil d nxt woman he meets stay wit him 4 yrs knwin fuly well dat he cnt impregnate a woman? Anyways, d choice is his.