It is always a sad story in a situation like this.
First of all I would assume this post is a fiction. Nevertheless it is a total betrayal on her (wife) part to have had a conjugal or connubial love contact with the Ex. You cannot blame the alcohol or loneliness for this type of act. This is not the whole story posted but based on what we all read she is 100% guilty in my opinion. Bear with me I am not being judgemental. One thing I congratulate her for having a new baby after all these years.
Always there are three sides to a story. The two parties involved and a neutral party. In this case four parties are involved namely; the husband, the wife, the ex-boyfriend and the outsider, media or judge. Who knows she may have been cheating all along and not wanting to keep any pregnancy conceived with her husband… why? …possibly she is still in love with her Ex…I am just speculating.. The fact is she dug herself into a deep-hole. Can you imagine with all these STDs going all around? She could have protected herself.
As a man the marriage is finished… this is a serious issue. The first thing I’ll do is to ensure if that’s my baby via DNA, regardless of the results I would terminate the union and look for a new Dame. I don’t want to be a “Watch Man” (OLODEH) or “Washer Man” (Alagbafo). This is what you call dangerous play (Erekere). I’ll forgive and move on… the trust will never be there.. it is gone… this is a situation I would not like. Love Triangle no Good Ohoooo.
Even if that’s not my baby I would help during the separation process meaning to cater for the baby as we all go our separate ways. Eight years is not a joke however I wish her and the husband the very best.
Shydaimma your point or suggestion is so simplistic and I respect that but I disagree.
….…..just my opinion….
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