Sensitive Situation: Opinion Naijapals, What Would She Do With The Pregnancy? (Page 5)

The passage references you are quoting are: Mt.5:32 & Mt.19:9

Dude lemme give you my own natural inference:
If you murder anybody except a murderer, you have automatically become a murderer.
Now in this case, the murderer that you want to murder happened to have made her first attempt reluctantly and killed the person out of ignorance.
And now, supposing the Bible says whoever murders anybody except a murderer makes him a murderer.
And now knowing the full situation of this matter, will you be 100% at peace to kill that person just like that?
Yes, you might and nothing goes wrong but will it be a sin if you forgive that murderer?
Certainly not.

God wants us to be happy all the time that is why He wrote in Jas.1:25 we should look into the perfect law of liberty which is the gospel and by so doing, we will be happy.
And what is the gospel? Christ died for us and arose again the third day. No greater love can any man show than to lay down his life for his friend even his enemies just like Christ.
It is also called the law of liberty, or freedom because it is a law producing freedom from the servitude of sinful passions and lusts.
As Christian we ought rather to beg of God the grace to bear patiently and quietly the imperfections of wife, than to think of the means of being parted from her.

Just like I said earlier before, it is left for individual to decide whether to divorce her or take her back, but my point I'm kinda deriving at is this, it is not a sin for any husband to still have her as a wife.

Knowing fully well in Jas.2:13 that judgment is without mercy to the one that has shown no mercy.
In Jas.2:12, So therefore, speak and do as those who will be judged by the perfect law of liberty.

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Posted: at 11-05-2013 05:38 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

first and foremost, why didnt she keep her legs closed till her husband comes back, this issue of ex sometimes gets me angry cus its as if this ladies cant forget about their past, married fo 8years without a child isnt good enough reason her to open up her river and let some ex bullshit penetrate... well she has done it, if i were her i either remove it or dissolve the marriage and package, cus this is outrageous and she has brought hell on her self !! but if she wants her home safe then she should do whats best for her !

Posted: at 11-05-2013 08:09 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

EASY OH

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Posted: at 11-05-2013 08:20 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I respect ur opinion especially that last and second to last paragraph. But I don't like the way you assumed things. Why not focuse on the problem. You did talked about wht u gonna do if u were the man which is perfectly okay and right to do. But trying to add stuff like, "the woman might have been cheating on her husband before" is not relevant b'cos we don't know about that. Why would u say she might been cheating before, the husband might also be cheating on her if that is the case. So my dear there is no need adding stuff here to fit in to what u Wanna write.  You don't know if she is in love with her ex....so don't assume she is and don't assume she has been cheating on her husband and never want to conceive for him. The problem to solving an issue is when people assume things just like u did, and after assuming they will pile it up and say that is the problem and then tend to put blames. The problem is there just tell her what to do that's all. You can tell her to pack out immediately, go marry her ex, stay as a single mum, abort the baby or kill herself. That is seeking for solution and the possible best. Don't bring external factors that will bring assumptions....since we don't know that. You made your point right and correct but that assumption u added there isn't right.

P.S.      She was drunk as the story said, how could she possibly use condom?. If she had used condom that means she planed of getting layer that night. Still all the blames go to her sha, she messed up real bad as a married woman. Is her cross to carry....no one is supporting her or anything. We re just trying to find absolution on what next to do that's all (cough).

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Posted: at 11-05-2013 08:49 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

abortion top on ur list

Posted: at 11-05-2013 09:20 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

i felt bittered already, she is married for crying loud, well d hubby have d final saying, wish her goodluck

Posted: at 11-05-2013 10:37 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

buh my advice for u is to wait n tell ur husband, u  should ve avoided going to a closed door wf that ur ex anyways my prayer is for ur husband to accept u back cos no one will want to father someone else's child n if he doesnt take u back, never marry ur ex. A word is enough for the wise.

Posted: at 11-05-2013 11:48 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

this why some  men  refuse to marry..

Posted: at 11-05-2013 12:19 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Oh it's interesting story. My question did the husband had any child with a girl/woman before. The problem of not having the child might be from a man himself. The woman has made it clear.
My advise is. She has to wait for her husband and narrat to him the whole story and wait for his reaction. If it is positive then is okay. If it is negative then she has to leave to her parents and open another page in her life.

Posted: at 11-05-2013 12:36 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

 

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Posted: at 11-05-2013 02:06 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero