I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Married Man - Please Advise

Date: 14-05-2013 3:56 pm (9 years ago) | Author: OIL PRINCE
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- at 14-05-2013 03:56 PM (9 years ago)
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Hello house,

I have been a consistent guest on this site and decided to hop on to the next level by becoming a member.. yayy!!!

Okay so, as regards the subject, let me start by giving a brief description of myself or the sort of person I used to be. I used to think of myself as really disciplined, principled and one who would never compromise her values or standards. Also, I used to be so quick to pass judgement. I never could understand why girls dated married men and deluded themselves into thinking they were in love! Not only did I find such circumstances disgustingly annoying but also judged the ladies as silly, silly, gullible, irresponsible, thoughtless, selfish and cruel!

I also had zero tolerance for people who cheat on their partners. I saw them as discontented and highly undisciplined individuals.

However, I have had reason to change my perspectives as a result of some recent happenings in my life!

I cheated on my partner with a married man!  I am totally shocked at myself! The crazy part of this is that I think I fell in love with this married man! My boo and I are tight and have been together for well over 4years and I always thought I could never be attracted to any other man. I have tried to put an end to this craziness because it just ain't worth it but its so hard.

The purpose of this post is to:
1) Let you all who think so highly of yourself to be careful lest you fall. Never say never! Never think you are too disciplined or smart or principled to fall for certain temptations. Those who know me will never believe me if I tell them I fell for ádultery (I can't even believe myself)


2)Seek counsel from people who have gone through this kind of stuff. You had an affair you knew you had to get out of but just couldn't, how did you deal with it.

What I have been doing lately is praying and deliberately not contacting this married dude. (I still find myself thinking about him)I also told my boo I needed a break!

Please let's discuss maturely as I believe there are so many people going through this kinda stuff but cant share with anyone because of the fear of condemnation and peoples hypocritical and self righteous attitude!

SOURCE; www.oilprincee.blogspot.com


Posted: at 14-05-2013 03:56 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
- nzewyte at 14-05-2013 04:16 PM (9 years ago)
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Just passing....

Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:16 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Idbabe at 14-05-2013 04:25 PM (9 years ago)
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Cheat on jooor.  Cheating is a game.
Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:25 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 14-05-2013 04:27 PM (9 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:27 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- kennynaija at 14-05-2013 04:48 PM (9 years ago)
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Since u've realized that u're doing the wrong thing, just get the f*ck of that silly relationship b4 ur Boo detect because then, u'll bite ur finger voraciously, take my word, Kenny.

Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:48 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 14-05-2013 04:49 PM (9 years ago)
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Hiss

Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:49 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ezchusa at 14-05-2013 04:52 PM (9 years ago)
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mtcheeew, useless girl

Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:52 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tanglefree at 14-05-2013 04:59 PM (9 years ago)
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Thank you for being honest.

Posted: at 14-05-2013 04:59 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- etibaba at 14-05-2013 05:15 PM (9 years ago)
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Mtchwwww,crap.

Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:15 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- malvin2525 at 14-05-2013 05:31 PM (9 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:31 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lanudja at 14-05-2013 05:42 PM (9 years ago)
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What kind of advice re u seeking 4 what u knw what u re doing is wrong?
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:42 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Wysetots at 14-05-2013 05:43 PM (9 years ago)
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Thank you for being honest.

I only have one word for you..........

DO NOT MORTGAGE PERMANENT BLISS FOR TEMPORARY PLEASURE.

You probably think of the married man due to your escapades with him, the rush of hiding and not being caught.
But Hey, in the end......He's going home to his wife.......and you lay fantasizing foolishly.
Don't lose your boyfriend.......your "Man friend" cannot leave his wife for you......even if he does, be sure he'd leave you for someone else.
Don't think you'll be his 1st, only or Last cheating partner.

Make peace with God and yourself.....set your boundaries......Build your future with your man.
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:43 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- lanudja at 14-05-2013 05:46 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: lanudja on 14-05-2013 05:42 PM
What kind of advice re u seeking 4 when u knw what u re doing is wrong?
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:46 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- kenny_kenny at 14-05-2013 05:54 PM (9 years ago)
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i pray i dont find myself in d mess and i pray God will forgive you and give u d grace to sin no more...
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:54 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- morgrawl231 at 14-05-2013 05:56 PM (9 years ago)
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THAT'S UR CUP OF TEA,,
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:56 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 14-05-2013 05:57 PM (9 years ago)
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good girl..make una clap for her..
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:57 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- beneno at 14-05-2013 06:07 PM (9 years ago)
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i dont waste my advice  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:07 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- allenspike at 14-05-2013 06:18 PM (9 years ago)
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Lost of the flesh!!!
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:18 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Senegal at 14-05-2013 06:20 PM (9 years ago)
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See b00by Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:20 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- pchinedu20 at 14-05-2013 06:59 PM (9 years ago)
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sorry
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:59 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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