Candidly, it is uber wrong - morally and biblically. Well, one may have a personal argument about "testing" before marriage, but that doesn't justify anything. As a matter of fact, some partners tend to respect one another more when certain rules with regards to "sex" are stipulated. Any man who truly loves his woman will definitely respect her wishes and wait until they're both married. Some asininely say "how would you know whether or not she is capable?" Now, even if she turns out to be amateurish in the act of love-making, you as a man will have to teach her. That's the essence you two are 'soul-mates'; you learn from each other. I am pretty sure you were once a novice in it before you met her, right? With time, you got better. Why would you make up excuses that one ought to experiment on his woman to ascertain if she is good or not? This is just some lame excuse by people who have no control of their emotions - nothing more.
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