Who takes the blame?

Date: 09-07-2009 7:03 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Stephen Ibrahim
- at 9-07-2009 07:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Who is to be blamed for a failed relationship, the man or the lady? Please tell me…

My Recent Experience:
I dated her for 5 years and those times? God was it good? It was Waow!!! The romance was filled with great expectations because we had it on the cloud nine level. While we were the admiration of many of our family members and friends, on the other side were been jealous at by the ones who never wished it well.
I proposed her marriage a year ago, but that proposal seemed to have been a wrong step that I took. Within six months of my proposal, her behavior/attitude changed to no good. She became cold towards me, very accusing, coming up with stories of unfaithfulness by me said by this friend or that friend. I talked to her severally on this her attitude but she slammed it back on me that I was the cause. Sometimes I want to reason with her, but at most times it proved a hard nut to crack..
I got tired of her attitude and decided to call off the whole relationship, but I loved her. She also claimed that she can love other man but me.
To cut the story short, I called off the relationship abruptly when she least expected it, how?
How you asked?
She visited me sometimes earlier this year; while I went to work she’d just sit down and concentrate on watching Nigeria home videos from morning till night. Whenever I got back from work, I never received a warm welcome, on many occasions I had to go to the kitchen myself to either cook or serve myself while she’ll be jisting with friends or watching movies. I had to come back from work sometimes to do my dirty clothings. When ever I talked to her she would ask me if she was suppose to do it for me. Her demands nko? Guy I would hate to mention it here…
I suddenly realized that it is not working anymore; I called it off in front of all her friend. Now they call me all sorts of names: wicked and evil man, heart breaker, son-of-a-bitch and all what not.
Now who is to be blamed Huh?

Posted: at 9-07-2009 07:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- rbest at 9-07-2009 08:19 PM (14 years ago)
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if u hav said the truth, u did no wrong, we women hav one kind of attitude which is over familiarization which has costed some alot. she is not a wife, if she is, she would hav consided ur stomach wit outmost importance, among odas instead of watching film and gossiping wit the so called friends. never mind, God will give u a gud wif and just put a deaf hear to all names they call u, that is if u are saying the truth
Posted: at 9-07-2009 08:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 10-07-2009 08:19 AM (14 years ago)
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well......maybe u both are to be blamed....maybe u din't talk to her the right way..and maybe she took things for granted.....

Posted: at 10-07-2009 08:19 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 10-07-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago)
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Blame none.......... havent heard from her, so I cant take sides.........but then one thing you did wrong was to end it publicly, that was embarrassing....

Posted: at 10-07-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 10-07-2009 11:52 AM (14 years ago)
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No comment!!

Posted: at 10-07-2009 11:52 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 10-07-2009 12:19 PM (14 years ago)
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why?

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 10-07-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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I miss you

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 10-07-2009 12:31 PM (14 years ago)
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lol............u arent serious........

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- waco at 10-07-2009 12:33 PM (14 years ago)
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too long lol

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 10-07-2009 12:34 PM (14 years ago)
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True

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 10-07-2009 12:39 PM (14 years ago)
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wat is true?

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 10-07-2009 12:41 PM (14 years ago)
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I really miss you.........lol

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 10-07-2009 12:57 PM (14 years ago)
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O.Y.O........not me abeg.........

Posted: at 10-07-2009 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Savelife4real at 10-07-2009 02:01 PM (14 years ago)
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THE gods ARE NOT TO BLAME

Posted: at 10-07-2009 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 10-07-2009 03:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Anyone blamed the gods?

Posted: at 10-07-2009 03:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 10-07-2009 03:53 PM (14 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 10-07-2009 03:53 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ngfineface at 2-09-2015 09:00 AM (8 years ago)
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Both of them as each partly contributed to it
Posted: at 2-09-2015 09:00 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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