What do u do when a lady u don't intend marrying get pregnant for u?

Date: 14-07-2009 7:15 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Akinsiku Ademola
- at 14-07-2009 07:15 PM (15 years ago)
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i will want us talk about the impact of an unwanted pregnancy from an unwanted lady. Or having a baby outside wedlock but from your choice of woman.

Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:15 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- vivian07 at 14-07-2009 07:21 PM (15 years ago)
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to prevent unwanted pregnancy, u need to abstain.. if u cant abstain, i guess u guys should  have safe sex..
and peradventure she gets pregnant, u have no choice than to accept her cos if she is good enough for relationship, why isn't she good for marriage ?
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 14-07-2009 07:22 PM (15 years ago)
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@poster, u just had ur self confused.
how can u have an unwanted pregnancy with the right woman?
am just loosing my sanity
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:22 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-07-2009 07:31 PM (15 years ago)
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First of all U'm realise out of Ur predicament one of the reasons why pre/extra marital sex isn't such a casual thing afterall.

Next is U'll be stuck with the responsibility of honourably putting the child and the mother before U in deciding which turns Ur life will have to take in the interest of all parties concerned, Urs the least.

I guess from there on things myt be ruff... If Ur in luck, they myt get better and U'l see there are worse things in life than U had got Urself into. Either that or U'll see how one stupid choice U made in the quest for pleasure changed Ur life.
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 14-07-2009 07:36 PM (15 years ago)
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am sure the poster will be more confused after reading dis ur reply...
lmao...  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:36 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- herdeysohjy at 14-07-2009 07:38 PM (15 years ago)
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what u don't intend eating, should not be smelt either
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 14-07-2009 07:45 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-07-2009 07:31 PM
First of all U'm realise out of Ur predicament one of the reasons why pre/extra marital sex isn't such a casual thing afterall.

Next is U'll be stuck with the responsibility of honourably putting the child and the mother before U in deciding which turns Ur life will have to take in the interest of all parties concerned, Urs the least.

I guess from there on things myt be ruff... If Ur in luck, they myt get better and U'l see there are worse things in life than U had got Urself into. Either that or U'll see how one stupid choice U made in the quest for pleasure changed Ur life.
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:45 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sampamdemmie at 14-07-2009 07:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Blackberrypearl, u missed up issues sorry there are two different issue we are looking at here, an unwanted child from an unwanted lady and a child outside wedlock, the question is what is the impact of all this on the child from both assumptions.
Posted: at 14-07-2009 07:59 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- sampamdemmie at 14-07-2009 08:01 PM (15 years ago)
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sorry may be i didn't elaborate the scenario clearer at the initial posting.
Posted: at 14-07-2009 08:01 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- PreetyInstinct at 14-07-2009 08:50 PM (15 years ago)
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@POster get a time machine..... Cheesy Tongue Lips Sealed
Posted: at 14-07-2009 08:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 14-07-2009 09:03 PM (15 years ago)
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holywood
Posted: at 14-07-2009 09:03 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bigbaby at 14-07-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on 14-07-2009 07:21 PM
to prevent unwanted pregnancy, u need to abstain.. if u cant abstain, i guess u guys should  have safe sex..
and peradventure she gets pregnant, u have no choice than to accept her cos if she is good enough for relationship, why isn't she good for marriage ?

yep u said it all viv
Posted: at 14-07-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 15-07-2009 12:04 AM (15 years ago)
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The impact is simply an unwanted or a shotgun wedding, leading to a long miserable life for the both of u.
Posted: at 15-07-2009 12:04 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 15-07-2009 12:52 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: sampamdemmie on 14-07-2009 07:59 PM
Blackberrypearl, u missed up issues sorry there are two different issue we are looking at here, an unwanted child from an unwanted lady and a child outside wedlock, the question is what is the impact of all this on the child from both assumptions.
hey, ok, i got u. but seriously, an unwanted child from a lady u don't want, may result to a wanted child from the mother. that's why they r called single mothers. a child outside of wedlock, screws up ur marriage. if the lady knows ur married, then she is taking care of that child. but it will take a long time for ur wife to forgive you, if she ever does. well, in either case, ur just screwed Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-07-2009 12:52 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 15-07-2009 04:50 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: sampamdemmie on 14-07-2009 07:15 PM
i will want us talk about the impact of an unwanted pregnancy from an unwanted lady. Or having a baby outside wedlock but from your choice of woman.


why did u make a baby with her at the first place...?
Posted: at 15-07-2009 04:50 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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