i'm a soldier (airforce officer), i ve dated this girl 4 the past 6 to 7 yrs now even as am ever ready to marry her she ll continue to give some flamzy xcuses. the current one is that she went to prayer house and she was told that she shld go to lagos after her exams(final), cos that is where she is goin to meet her huby. but in the real case we really love ourselves.plzzzzzzzzzzz i need ur advices.
Posted: at 5-08-2007 02:05 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
I just want to tell you one thing, the lady in question may have loved you initially,but believe me i dont think she feels the same way anymore,she probably have met someone else and doesnt know how to tell you,maybe she's afraid. You cant date someone for 6-7years yet she keeps giving you flimsy excuses when the issue of marriage comes up,except she doesn't want to marry you anymore. If she had told you she would like to finish school first before marriage that would have been understandable, not giving u stories about the places she visited concerning you and her,why should she go there in the first place if not because she doesnt want to marry you or doesnt think the marriage issue will work out. Secondly, i want you to search yourself very well, are u treating this lady the way you sholud treat someone you want to spend the rest of ur life with? maybe thats why she entertaining doubts about marrying you. Just sit her down and have a heart to heart and open discussion with her on this issue,assure her that you wont do anything to her if she decides to leave. It is always better to know true position of things instead of living in a fool's paradise. I wish you luck, my brother!
Posted: at 6-08-2007 03:15 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 20-08-2007 04:28 AM (17 years ago) (f)
u are a soldier and i am sure u are earning well.....what the hell are u waiting for.....its obvious that she is not interested in this relationship anymore....especially when she said that he profound hubby is in LAGOS....imagine that?!?!?!?!??!?!oh gosh....it might be her sugardaddy there....oh man,u gotta search urself...i know the relationship is very long and i am sure u loved her and i can imagine how this will break ur heart....but life has to go on.......things happen for a reason....i am pretty sure that u will find ur perfect soulmate along the path.....always remember....the girl that u have been for all these years might not be ur future wife...god create our perfect match....its just that we have to look for it...sometimes it naturally come to us....so there is always ups and downs in life...we just gotta be strong to face the challenges....this is just one of it....take ur time man....i wish u good luck!!!
she is scared it cld be that u may have threathened her, thats why she can't openly tell u. and for her to have gone to a prayer house, that shows tht she has been entertaining the thoughts of leaving u! so treat her well i know soldiers can be heartless and wicked and hey wait dont ask me how i got to know.
and if she still insists or rather behaves that way then 4get her and move on.
Peace out.
Posted: at 15-02-2008 07:35 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
i'm a soldier (airforce officer), i ve dated this girl 4 the past 6 to 7 yrs now even as am ever ready to marry her she ll continue to give some flamzy xcuses. the current one is that she went to prayer house and she was told that she shld go to lagos after her exams(final), cos that is where she is goin to meet her huby. but in the real case we really love ourselves.plzzzzzzzzzzz i need ur advices.
She does not wanna marry you or she's just getting cold feet over the whole marriage thing..just talk to her and find out whats really going on.
Posted: at 16-02-2008 12:09 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
myragonza at 16-02-2008 04:30 PM (17 years ago) (f)
this was like posted ages ago and there is no reply from poster....my gut feeling tells me that they are both happily married......to separate persons.....
i'm a soldier (airforce officer), i ve dated this girl 4 the past 6 to 7 yrs now even as am ever ready to marry her she ll continue to give some flamzy xcuses. the current one is that she went to prayer house and she was told that she shld go to lagos after her exams(final), cos that is where she is goin to meet her huby. but in the real case we really love ourselves.plzzzzzzzzzzz i need ur advices.
Vixen said it before:- Drop that penny and find you a dime
SAmyrocko at 16-06-2009 08:38 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: uche2k2 on 5-08-2007 02:05 PM
i'm a soldier (airforce officer), i ve dated this girl 4 the past 6 to 7 yrs now even as am ever ready to marry her she ll continue to give some flamzy xcuses. the current one is that she went to prayer house and she was told that she shld go to lagos after her exams(final), cos that is where she is goin to meet her huby. but in the real case we really love ourselves.plzzzzzzzzzzz i need ur advices.
Hand writing on d wall. She is not interested to marry you.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 16-06-2009 08:38 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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