![-]( "simele") simele at 12-09-2009 11:51 AM (15 years ago)  (m) what i mean is this: if you are educated, there is hope that you can make it in life no matter how rough and don't make a mistake of getting married to someone that doesn't come up with ideas... doesn't want to work... dosen't think fast and so on. a person like that will only kill your vision and you'll end end up sweaming in poverty.
you right girl | Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:51 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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anything worth doing is worth doing well | Posted: at 12-09-2009 12:16 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 12-09-2009 02:08 PM (15 years ago) (m) what i mean is this: if you are educated, there is hope that you can make it in life no matter how rough and don't make a mistake of getting married to someone that doesn't come up with ideas... doesn't want to work... dosen't think fast and so on. a person like that will only kill your vision and you'll end end up sweaming in poverty.
Good! No6 ok. So how much little is manageable. This is because little to you may be much to me. Get it? | Posted: at 12-09-2009 02:08 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Dguy") Dguy at 12-09-2009 09:01 PM (15 years ago) (m) I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
Truth is marriage is build on understanding and love, you dont have to be very (very) rich before starting one, at the end of the day with another helper it should help improve things... thats the essence of marriage
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit | Posted: at 12-09-2009 09:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ceejay58") ceejay58 at 13-09-2009 12:28 AM (15 years ago) (m)  | Posted: at 13-09-2009 12:28 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
fingers are not equal and destiny also differs as well | Posted: at 13-09-2009 06:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 13-09-2009 06:30 PM (15 years ago) (m) I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
Different Strokes for Different folks All the Points yu gave, yes, people have been dat and are still saying dat. l guess it's one's choice dat it'll boil down to eventually
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 13-09-2009 06:30 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
Truth is marriage is build on understanding and love, you dont have to be very (very) rich before starting one, at the end of the day with another helper it should help improve things... thats the essence of marriage true talk | Posted: at 13-09-2009 06:44 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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All of u guys hv a good point,but getting married is another life for a man think abt it if u are ready and u feel that u hv a good wife i mean wife material then go ahead but one thing if u want ur marriage to be peaceful and without poverty plz plz and plz do not CHEAT on ur wife if u try and do that wht ever both of u lay ur hands on shall prosper though is hard to do but if u can try well good for u thats a peace of my advice.peace 2 fingers up:D | Posted: at 13-09-2009 11:43 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "cleakoms") cleakoms at 13-09-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) (m) as long as u can provide for your family with the little resources at your disposal.... if not, don't dare it....... bout, you don't have to acquire everythin before you marry as well.. Juts get a permanent job and you can go from there | Posted: at 13-09-2009 11:47 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "elusakin") elusakin at 14-09-2009 03:22 AM (15 years ago) (m) Thank you all for your definitions about finances, capital, money, cash and so on, maybe you should go pragmatic and understand higher percentage of single-mothers are as a result of the men running away from their financial responsibility. What's the hurry? Marriage is an institution where late-comers are not registered, so why the rush? | Posted: at 14-09-2009 03:22 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 14-09-2009 08:24 AM (15 years ago) (m) Huh!? | Posted: at 14-09-2009 08:24 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "simele") simele at 14-09-2009 08:44 AM (15 years ago) (m) Thank you all for your definitions about finances, capital, money, cash and so on, maybe you should go pragmatic and understand higher percentage of single-mothers are as a result of the men running away from their financial responsibility.
What's the hurry? Marriage is an institution where late-comers are not registered, so why the rush?
true talk if only then will understand | Posted: at 14-09-2009 08:44 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 14-09-2009 10:21 AM (15 years ago) (m) I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they? | Posted: at 14-09-2009 10:21 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "RosemaryI") RosemaryI at 14-09-2009 12:58 PM (15 years ago) (f) hell no! if a woman should be too demanding just know she dosn't love and it's your money that she's using to console herself in the relationship. no matter how expensive a lady is, if she's really in love with, she will be ready come down to your level just to make you happy. | Posted: at 14-09-2009 12:58 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "modjodu") modjodu at 14-09-2009 01:41 PM (15 years ago) (m) hell no!
if a woman should be too demanding just know she dosn't love and it's your money that she's using to console herself in the relationship.
no matter how expensive a lady is, if she's really in love with, she will be ready come down to your level just to make you happy.
True talk, Thank you for saying that from a a woman view. | Posted: at 14-09-2009 01:41 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "simele") simele at 14-09-2009 01:42 PM (15 years ago) (m) hell no!
if a woman should be too demanding just know she dosn't love and it's your money that she's using to console herself in the relationship.
no matter how expensive a lady is, if she's really in love with, she will be ready come down to your level just to make you happy.
where can you find such in this present generation there are very few of them | Posted: at 14-09-2009 01:42 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "SexyJuly") SexyJuly at 14-09-2009 02:41 PM (15 years ago) (f) I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they?
Not me! | Posted: at 14-09-2009 02:41 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "simele") simele at 14-09-2009 02:43 PM (15 years ago) (m) I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they?
Not me! how sure are u | Posted: at 14-09-2009 02:43 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "SexyJuly") SexyJuly at 14-09-2009 02:46 PM (15 years ago) (f) I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they?
Not me! how sure are u Talking about myself here not someone else, Remember?! | Posted: at 14-09-2009 02:46 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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