I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
Posted: at 12-09-2009 07:43 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
rosearch at 12-09-2009 08:06 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Poster, nothing spoil - for me oo with or without money - na love matter - everything na bonus! As long as u & your woman to be knows your potential/capabilities/dreams etc. to grow - the sky is your limit. POVERTY NO DEY FEAR?
Posted: at 12-09-2009 08:06 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
ibobobelvis at 12-09-2009 08:20 AM (15 years ago) (m)
ol boy better remain single than go into a marriage with little or no resources in in the name of love,our parents made same mistakes n we the children re paying dearly for it,over here where i live,nothing like marriage till u re financially able to cater for a family,love comes second,resources first!!
anything worth doing is worth doing well
Posted: at 12-09-2009 08:20 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
humble02 at 12-09-2009 08:36 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: questa on 12-09-2009 07:43 AM
I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
brother honestly speaking, financial basic help in some part. what is capital? capital is not the physical cash but your ability to make is physical. in the other hand if don't much but you can take the resposibilty of feeding and shelter that's ok' secondly try to marry a lady who is industriuose just to assist you. with both parties mind agenda you can make up to any lenght, after all the bible have blessed you. from the begining,whom so ever finded a wife . founded a good thing, and which uptain favore from God almighty,
just simple
Posted: at 12-09-2009 08:36 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
humble02 at 12-09-2009 08:43 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: humble02 on 12-09-2009 08:36 AM
Quote from: questa on 12-09-2009 07:43 AM
I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
brother honestly speaking, financial basic help in some part. what is capital? capital is not the physical cash but your ability to make is physical. in the other hand if don't much but you can take the resposibilty of feeding and shelter that's ok' secondly try to marry a lady who is industriuose just to assist you. with both parties mind agenda you can make up to any lenght, after all the bible have blessed you. from the begining,whom so ever finded a wife . founded a good thing, and which uptain favore from God almighty,
just simple
secondly God Almighty listen to a marriade woman more that her husband, look in to your bible very well you see that, but if you made a mistake and marry non industerouse woman. my brother. you never have peace in your matrimonial home,if you don't forward your responsibility to your matrimonial home as a man, woman is an assisting angel or godess to man,
Posted: at 12-09-2009 08:43 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
rosearch at 12-09-2009 08:46 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ibobobelvis on 12-09-2009 08:20 AM
ol boy better remain single than go into a marriage with little or no resources in in the name of love,our parents made same mistakes n we the children re paying dearly for it,over here where i live,nothing like marriage till u re financially able to cater for a family,love comes second,resources first!!
I AGREE BUT WHEN EXACTLY WILL THAT BE?
SOMETIMES IS NOT AS SIMPLE & STRIAGHT FORWARD AS IT SOUND - THEN & THEN ONLY MAYBE -
TWO HEADS IS BETTER THAN ONE.
Posted: at 12-09-2009 08:46 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
ibobobelvis at 12-09-2009 09:02 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: rosearch on 12-09-2009 08:46 AM
Quote from: ibobobelvis on 12-09-2009 08:20 AM
ol boy better remain single than go into a marriage with little or no resources in in the name of love,our parents made same mistakes n we the children re paying dearly for it,over here where i live,nothing like marriage till u re financially able to cater for a family,love comes second,resources first!!
I AGREE BUT WHEN EXACTLY WILL THAT BE?
SOMETIMES IS NOT AS SIMPLE & STRIAGHT FORWARD AS IT SOUND - THEN & THEN ONLY MAYBE -
TWO HEADS IS BETTER THAN ONE.
frankly speaking,one has to be financially balanced,i dont mean being wealthy or sumtin,but being financially able to cater for the immediate family u want to raise!!here guys get married at the age of 35,40 N so on just for one simple fact,they want their immediate family to live in comfort!
anything worth doing is worth doing well
Posted: at 12-09-2009 09:02 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ya all for you have made a good point especially humbleo2 and ibobbobelvis has a good point marriage with little resource for me i will not make that kind of mistake in life, if i cannot carter for a family and have a good job and good house, money i can't say to girl that i love her and at end telling her to start selling something, to keep the family no it is wrong as the head of the family calm by all the men you must provide for them all. so pls we should not start something that we cannot finish pls i beg all guys who have nothing to affer a girl apart from sweet mouth and flattery to stop it.
Posted: at 12-09-2009 09:12 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
As long as U have resources to keep Ur home after the ceremonies are past and u both dont end up as beggars then it's ayt. Money helps keep things smooth though.
Posted: at 12-09-2009 09:54 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
RosemaryI at 12-09-2009 10:40 AM (15 years ago) (f)
so long as you've emptied your purse into where no man can take it away (your head), you can go ahead cos i asure you of a bright future but make sure the lady don't became a liability cos she won't be helping matters.
Posted: at 12-09-2009 10:40 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
ibobobelvis at 12-09-2009 10:46 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: RosemaryI on 12-09-2009 10:40 AM
so long as you've emptied your purse into where no man can take it away (your head), you can go ahead cos i asure you of a bright future but make sure the lady don't became a liability cos she won't be helping matters.
anything worth doing is worth doing well
Posted: at 12-09-2009 10:46 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
so long as you've emptied your purse into where no man can take it away (your head), you can go ahead cos i asure you of a bright future but make sure the lady don't became a liability cos she won't be helping matters.
Please elucidate a bit on tis.
Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:00 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
RosemaryI at 12-09-2009 11:41 AM (15 years ago) (f)
what i mean is this: if you are educated, there is hope that you can make it in life no matter how rough and don't make a mistake of getting married to someone that doesn't come up with ideas... doesn't want to work... dosen't think fast and so on. a person like that will only kill your vision and you'll end end up sweaming in poverty.
Posted: at 12-09-2009 11:41 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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