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Quote from: questa on 12-09-2009 07:43 AM I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue: Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh! lots of ppl go into marriage with little resources......if they work together, the both of them can have something big...u can just go into a marriage and think everything is gonna br peachy and cream. u have to start where u are, use wat u got, and do the best u can Flirtation: Attention without intention.
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 14-09-2009 04:41 PM Quote from: questa on 12-09-2009 07:43 AM I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue: Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh! lots of ppl go into marriage with little resources......if they work together, the both of them can have something big...u can just go into a marriage and think everything is gonna br peachy and cream. u have to start where u are, use wat u got, and do the best u can
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ive been around. Reply![]()
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hey ADC ive had a busy weekend.....but i back o! u missed me? Reply![]() Flirtation: Attention without intention.
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Yep! missed u!! Reply![]()
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 14-09-2009 04:54 PM hey ADC ive had a busy weekend.....but i back o! u missed me? sure i did badlyyyyyyyyyy....but thank God sj was in to gimme a little lite.... anyway thank God u are backk... ![]()
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i missed u too SJ ReplyFlirtation: Attention without intention.
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 14-09-2009 05:00 PM i missed u too SJ Exactly what i wanted to hear. Now im happyyyyyyyyyyyy! ![]() ![]()
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two is better than one with or without,it is not a must that all men must be rich or have enough,maybe the full resource u need may come from your wife, so instead of u to loose the two brother hold one and start looking 4 the order, even life begins @ 60 Reply
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Marriage with little resources! ReplyI have watched in amazement on how families carry on the daily cares of the family without a glimpse of triumph of hope over experience.We all have had a good shear of what harm little resources could do in a family.Marriage is not all about love but a combination of unified processes that makes life worth living. Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are and the timing of one"s dreams.There two ways to this topic.........you can choose to marry with the hope of better tomorow or you can keep challenging your situation until you are capable of going to marraige confidently. All i can say is that it depends on personality and If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down, but the staying down.
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:46 PM Quote from: simele on 14-09-2009 02:43 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:41 PM Quote from: questa on 14-09-2009 10:21 AM I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they? Not me! how sure are u Talking about myself here not someone else, Remember?! Yeah, yu're talkin Financially here, but l suspect yu're demanding in other aspects... It shows WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
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just passing Reply
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Haai you dont need a brain only... Reply
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Quote from: Mbavhalelo on 15-09-2009 07:23 AM Haai you dont need a brain only... What else bud?
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Talking about marriage and resources ..there r many things involved.. not having much cash has levels.. at least, the guy should hav an appartment, know he want to get another responsibility on himself, therefore know the level of his pocket and he knows he has a manageable income stream, if not ..na garri u go drink after wedding xcept God bless u. Reply
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Quote from: Kennee on 14-09-2009 11:28 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:46 PM Quote from: simele on 14-09-2009 02:43 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:41 PM Quote from: questa on 14-09-2009 10:21 AM I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they? Not me! how sure are u Talking about myself here not someone else, Remember?! Yeah, yu're talkin Financially here, but l suspect yu're demanding in other aspects... It shows ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Marrying with a little resource... ReplyLife is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
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as they said, it is good for both(guy & the lady) to start sometin 2geda frm d beginning.but cum 2 tink of it,if ure not able 2 cater 4 ur family ''children'' dey will end up doin wat is not rite.as ibobobelvis said our parent made d same mistake and we d children are payin for it seriously.so my dear fink twice b4 u make ur decision.i believe u knw wat is best for u. Reply
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