CAN U BE FRIENDS WIT UR EX? (Page 2)

Date: 02-07-2008 6:38 am (16 years ago) | Author: p
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- indie at 8-07-2008 06:13 PM (16 years ago)
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yes i can Wink. wat do you want enemies for Huh?? u r going to have enough enemies just going about the normal course of day to day living. to now add enemies from relationships that did not work out Roll Eyes? do u no that some people date an average of 30 (set me rite if am wrong) guys/girls before they get married. now add that figure to the enemies u will make while climbing up the corporate ladder, simply having fun, fighting for your right and defending your beliefs, in general, living ur life.

the thing is to limit your meetings just incase he has no intention of being more than a friend, so u dont end up making a merrycoot of urself Cool.
Posted: at 8-07-2008 06:13 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 8-07-2008 06:18 PM (16 years ago)
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It takes maturity to do so. Some will refuse to be friends with their ex just because he/she is dating someone and they're angry about it.
Posted: at 8-07-2008 06:18 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Wan2et at 9-07-2008 12:55 AM (16 years ago)
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Anything could happen if there are still feelings between the two.
Posted: at 9-07-2008 12:55 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Vixenx at 9-07-2008 01:35 AM (16 years ago)
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And thats cool as long as they're both single..
Posted: at 9-07-2008 01:35 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- polygon at 9-07-2008 03:49 PM (16 years ago)
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yes, it fun. u use dat oppurtunity to get to better appreciate urselves, realise ur wrongs and if possible start the relationship again and taking it slowly will be the topmost desire in ur minds.
Posted: at 9-07-2008 03:49 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 9-07-2008 11:54 PM (16 years ago)
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true.
Posted: at 9-07-2008 11:54 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- typicalman84 at 10-07-2008 04:27 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: chikamama on  8-07-2008 07:12 AM
I´m a friend to my ex, we must be friends cause of our Daughter. But even if we will not have an Daughter we will be friends, cause i think the time that we spend into our relationship will be waste if we will not understand our self now. But first we Fight and than we sattle. (He was my first love)

I'm sorry... but i think if you have a child with your ex, and he definitely wants to be in his child's life with you not even wanting him anymore, you have no option. because that dude aint goig no where, you're going to keep seeing him until he decides to stop coming to see his child or until the child is all grown up and independent. Apart from that, i'll say that if you have a child by your ex, just have in mind that you're going to put up with him/her for 18 freaking yrs. deal with it.
Posted: at 10-07-2008 04:27 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lucychizzy at 10-07-2008 11:01 AM (16 years ago)
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yeah
you are right
Posted: at 10-07-2008 11:01 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diran1475 at 10-07-2008 12:16 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  3-07-2008 08:42 PM
for her,she loses control.lol.she can't stay wit him in one room witout thinkin  about kissin him.

u sure it ain't u? kinda detailed u know.
Anyway sure u can be friends with him if he comes back changed; the most constant thing in life is change, Anybody can change. But i think d person needs to get a grip on her emotions  before getting too close ' cos if she doesn't, she could get burnt 2ce. Just you be careful. Smiley
Posted: at 10-07-2008 12:16 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Vixenx at 10-07-2008 02:05 PM (16 years ago)
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kai....... Grin
Posted: at 10-07-2008 02:05 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 10-07-2008 05:37 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: diran1475 on 10-07-2008 12:16 PM
Quote from: onyin on  3-07-2008 08:42 PM
for her,she loses control.lol.she can't stay wit him in one room witout thinkin  about kissin him.

u sure it ain't u? kinda detailed u know.
Anyway sure u can be friends with him if he comes back changed; the most constant thing in life is change, Anybody can change. But i think d person needs to get a grip on her emotions  before getting too close ' cos if she doesn't, she could get burnt 2ce. Just you be careful. Smiley
na ,it ain't me.am friends wit ma ex,and i see no big deal wit been friends wit him.but at the end of the day,our friendship has limit.
Posted: at 10-07-2008 05:37 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Vixenx at 10-07-2008 09:23 PM (16 years ago)
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 Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-07-2008 09:23 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chikamama at 11-07-2008 10:09 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 10-07-2008 04:27 AM
Quote from: chikamama on  8-07-2008 07:12 AM
I´m a friend to my ex, we must be friends cause of our Daughter. But even if we will not have an Daughter we will be friends, cause i think the time that we spend into our relationship will be waste if we will not understand our self now. But first we Fight and than we sattle. (He was my first love)

I'm sorry... but i think if you have a child with your ex, and he definitely wants to be in his child's life with you not even wanting him anymore, you have no option. because that dude aint goig no where, you're going to keep seeing him until he decides to stop coming to see his child or until the child is all grown up and independent. Apart from that, i'll say that if you have a child by your ex, just have in mind that you're going to put up with him/her for 18 freaking yrs. deal with it.




he is a part of my family and he will always be as best friend.
but talk tru to be friend with nigerian man(only friend) is no easy.
Posted: at 11-07-2008 10:09 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 11-07-2008 11:28 AM (16 years ago)
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chika ur baby looks cute.cutiepie!!!!!!!!.lol
Posted: at 11-07-2008 11:28 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- chikamama at 11-07-2008 02:11 PM (16 years ago)
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thank u onyin
Posted: at 11-07-2008 02:11 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- philomena87 at 11-07-2008 02:42 PM (16 years ago)
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as for me i will like to be friend atleast to keep him close as i do love him
Posted: at 11-07-2008 02:42 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 11-07-2008 03:28 PM (16 years ago)
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u'r welcome chika..
Posted: at 11-07-2008 03:28 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- fjoeaug at 17-09-2010 10:58 PM (14 years ago)
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way back topic......
Posted: at 17-09-2010 10:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dantarshi at 18-09-2010 01:18 AM (14 years ago)
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Why not? all my exes are my friendds no matter how bad the relationship went. i still try to establish a good friendship. for every break up i step up to the next level so it doesn't hurt no more;
Posted: at 18-09-2010 01:18 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ksurrina at 18-09-2010 03:29 AM (14 years ago)
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It is called Maturity and Forgiveness. No one can be friends with their EX unless they forgive he/she of what happen, also forgiving themselves for allowing the thing to happen too. Norris my ex we are friends even though he is the person who infected me with HIV before God healed me. Our relationship is over 2yrs now but I still visit him whenever time he comes to my heart to do so. Yes he will say his things and I will teased him too but we know that our friendships is just one of respect and Godly love.

You see I forgive him for telling me lie about his status and I forgive myself,  that the night he told me that he don't have AIDS I should have know he was telling me that he had it. Now our friendship is one that I would like him to turn his life over to Jesus Christ and take his medications properly so that he will not died unsaved. Unforgiveness blocks our blessings and so EX'S should always make sure that they forgive each other. I see nothing wrong in being friends with Ex's because sometimes it is in the friendship that you truly see the person. Then you are thankful that you still have the opportunity to have a good friend.

Posted: at 18-09-2010 03:29 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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