For all you women who know your worth...and you men who have the brain to unders

Date: 16-09-2009 1:53 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Bidemi Oyefeso
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- at 16-09-2009 01:53 PM (14 years ago)
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In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question:

'What kind of man are you looking for?'

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?'

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.

She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?

I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...
or woman for that matter.

I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded..

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.

She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

Posted: at 16-09-2009 01:53 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- Resi at 16-09-2009 02:30 PM (14 years ago)
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You don talk finish.

Posted: at 16-09-2009 02:30 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 16-09-2009 06:35 PM (14 years ago)
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lol @ Resi
Posted: at 16-09-2009 06:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- coolguys235 at 16-09-2009 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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another brain on leave

Posted: at 16-09-2009 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sandie at 16-09-2009 06:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Resi on 16-09-2009 02:30 PM
You don talk finish.

Hahahaha Grin

Posted: at 16-09-2009 06:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- presciousoluchi at 16-09-2009 07:06 PM (14 years ago)
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let me join and laugh

Hahahaha

Posted: at 16-09-2009 07:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 16-09-2009 07:10 PM (14 years ago)
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sorry

Posted: at 16-09-2009 07:10 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- emmyG at 16-09-2009 07:14 PM (14 years ago)
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hahaahaha laughing too
Posted: at 16-09-2009 07:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 16-09-2009 07:17 PM (14 years ago)
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laffn again just read and comment

Posted: at 16-09-2009 07:17 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- nellygold at 16-09-2009 11:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Funny but real  Cheesy
Posted: at 16-09-2009 11:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Uzzy at 16-09-2009 11:34 PM (14 years ago)
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the best educational non-joke i have heard today.........*frowns* then *smiles* ladiesman_ng u must be a joker!!! I love this anyways!!

Posted: at 16-09-2009 11:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 17-09-2009 12:33 AM (14 years ago)
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abeg i no get time to read the books of first and second chronicles.......hisssssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 17-09-2009 12:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- cleakoms at 17-09-2009 12:41 AM (14 years ago)
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Nice post... brilliant article....

I hope some women can start thinking what exactly makes a real man and not loving blindly
Posted: at 17-09-2009 12:41 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 17-09-2009 01:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Ladiesman_nig on 16-09-2009 01:53 PM
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question:

'What kind of man are you looking for?'

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?'

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.

She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?

I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...
or woman for that matter.

I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded..

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.

She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

na na na ..... summary plz.
Posted: at 17-09-2009 01:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- cleakoms at 17-09-2009 01:05 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on 17-09-2009 01:04 AM
Quote from: Ladiesman_nig on 16-09-2009 01:53 PM
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question:

'What kind of man are you looking for?'

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?'

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.

She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?

I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...
or woman for that matter.

I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded..

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.

She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

na na na ..... summary plz.

take time and read.. it's cool
Posted: at 17-09-2009 01:05 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 17-09-2009 01:16 AM (14 years ago)
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okz...... but brb
Posted: at 17-09-2009 01:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 17-09-2009 01:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Okie...i read it nice

Posted: at 17-09-2009 01:47 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cleakoms at 17-09-2009 02:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 17-09-2009 01:47 AM
Okie...i read it nice

hope u'll start asking the questions
Posted: at 17-09-2009 02:13 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- fireman at 17-09-2009 05:50 AM (14 years ago)
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I need a babe!

Posted: at 17-09-2009 05:50 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ibobobelvis at 17-09-2009 09:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: fireman on 17-09-2009 05:50 AM
I need a babe!

them no dey near u? Grin

Posted: at 17-09-2009 09:09 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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