Before I came to the US in 2003, i had a GF for 4 yrs since JSS3, after we graduated from High School, we started having problem and she started seeing dis guy that lives in same estate. She broke up wit me becos of this dude. I just took a vacation off from the east and went to lagos to do my travel runs. after 5 months she surfaced at my pops house in the east looking for me and my bros told her i've been in lagos for a while. she kept coming until the day i came back to the east after i got my VISA. she came the next day and started apologizing, told me who she had kissed(dude livin in same estate) and y she had went wit him. After a couple of hours that she finished sheddin tears for what she did, I "4gave" her and I disvirgined her in my room. My brothers had left us in my room alone. So it went down. The next day I went back to lagos, didn't tell her. 2 days later, i was already in the US. Still didn't tell her i had planned to leave nigeria. She emailed me to come to her house the next day and i had to reply her and told her i was in the USA. I told her i dont want to have anything to do with her anymore. Till today, she still blows my phone up.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
Posted: at 4-07-2008 02:49 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
You didn't have to do it like that. I can't wrong u for breaking up with her for kissing someone else..but i think u were wrong for taking her virginity knowing you didn't want to be with her though...and i she didn't deserve that none at all..you could've still forgiven her and not sleep with her...doing so made her believe everything was o.k between you too and that you'll be back with her. I feel so bad for her n u know thats why she's blowin up your phone cuz she has given up the most precious thing to you and now you're gone leaving her behind... :'( :'( :'( :'(
Posted: at 4-07-2008 03:42 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Before I came to the US in 2003, i had a GF for 4 yrs since JSS3, after we graduated from High School, we started having problem and she started seeing dis guy that lives in same estate. She broke up wit me becos of this dude. I just took a vacation off from the east and went to lagos to do my travel runs. after 5 months she surfaced at my pops house in the east looking for me and my bros told her i've been in lagos for a while. she kept coming until the day i came back to the east after i got my VISA. she came the next day and started apologizing, told me who she had kissed(dude livin in same estate) and y she had went wit him. After a couple of hours that she finished sheddin tears for what she did, I "4gave" her and I disvirgined her in my room. My brothers had left us in my room alone. So it went down. The next day I went back to lagos, didn't tell her. 2 days later, i was already in the US. Still didn't tell her i had planned to leave nigeria. She emailed me to come to her house the next day and i had to reply her and told her i was in the USA. I told her i dont want to have anything to do with her anymore. Till today, she still blows my phone up.
bad thing u have done man,imagine yourself her shoe what will u have done let him go after u made her believe dat u have 4given her. i think u should ask her to find a place in her heart to 4give u, cos to u, u thin u are havin fun but believe me u are not intend u have sinned. anyway i pray GOD forgive u sha.lamoooooooo
Posted: at 4-07-2008 04:57 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Before I came to the US in 2003, i had a GF for 4 yrs since JSS3, after we graduated from High School, we started having problem and she started seeing dis guy that lives in same estate. She broke up wit me becos of this dude. I just took a vacation off from the east and went to lagos to do my travel runs. after 5 months she surfaced at my pops house in the east looking for me and my bros told her i've been in lagos for a while. she kept coming until the day i came back to the east after i got my VISA. she came the next day and started apologizing, told me who she had kissed(dude livin in same estate) and y she had went wit him. After a couple of hours that she finished sheddin tears for what she did, I "4gave" her and I disvirgined her in my room. My brothers had left us in my room alone. So it went down. The next day I went back to lagos, didn't tell her. 2 days later, i was already in the US. Still didn't tell her i had planned to leave nigeria. She emailed me to come to her house the next day and i had to reply her and told her i was in the USA. I told her i dont want to have anything to do with her anymore. Till today, she still blows my phone up.
omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.thts rlly bad.just too bad. u disvirgined and then dumped her.tht's is rlly painful.atleast u culd hv tld her face to face tht u were leavin.omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!.plz,she deserves beta than tht.se deserves to be appreciated .atleast she told u the truth about her cheating.
Posted: at 4-07-2008 01:02 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
typicalman84 at 4-07-2008 04:49 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Hey hey hey... don't blame me here OK. This female had the heart to betray a 4 yr r/ship we had over some dude next door. Damn i went to her house to work thing out with her for what i'm not sure why we had problems, she even told their gateman to throw me out. I went to her pops office, she told the guard at the building not the let me in there again. All this just because she wanted to have a feel of the dude next door? And you want me to threat her softly? yeeea right.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
Posted: at 4-07-2008 04:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
typicalman84 at 4-07-2008 04:57 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onyin on 4-07-2008 04:52 PM
wel,tht's lif.
I guess if you say so, but i aint giving that female any chance at all. Don't care how close she wants to get to my brothers that are still back in nigeria.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
Posted: at 4-07-2008 04:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hey hey hey... don't blame me here OK. This female had the heart to betray a 4 yr r/ship we had over some dude next door. Damn i went to her house to work thing out with her for what i'm not sure why we had problems, she even told their gateman to throw me out. I went to her pops office, she told the guard at the building not the let me in there again. All this just because she wanted to have a feel of the dude next door? And you want me to threat her softly? yeeea right.
No..not treat her softly. But there are other things u could've done other than taking her virginity. I think thats whats hurting her more than anything.
Posted: at 4-07-2008 06:19 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
typicalman84 at 4-07-2008 06:28 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 4-07-2008 06:19 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 4-07-2008 04:49 PM
Hey hey hey... don't blame me here OK. This female had the heart to betray a 4 yr r/ship we had over some dude next door. Damn i went to her house to work thing out with her for what i'm not sure why we had problems, she even told their gateman to throw me out. I went to her pops office, she told the guard at the building not the let me in there again. All this just because she wanted to have a feel of the dude next door? And you want me to threat her softly? yeeea right.
No..not treat her softly. But there are other things u could've done other than taking her virginity. I think thats whats hurting her more than anything.
I mean yeah I understand that but the thing is i didn't plan it. it just happened. She agreed on it. I didn't know she was coming to my house looking for me like all the time while i was already out of town handling my business. I let her in cos i wanted to hear her side of the story and why she did what she did. that's all. I heard things about her and what she's been up to in school now so. i have no remorse 4 doing what i did. Maybe she 4got she goes to same university as my brother and that eyes are on her.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
Posted: at 4-07-2008 06:28 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
He has his reasons for doing so..but u may not have or be in exact same situation as him..so doing what he did will not work out for you. Always treat all situations differently..
Posted: at 5-07-2008 08:41 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
vincenice at 5-07-2008 09:08 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 5-07-2008 08:41 PM
He has his reasons for doing so..but u may not have or be in exact same situation as him..so doing what he did will not work out for you. Always treat all situations differently..
Posted: at 5-07-2008 09:08 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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