Help! My marriage in 2 months time but someone else is pregnant for him!

Published On: August 3, 2014, 11:51 am (6 years ago)
Author: david
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-- (m) at 3-08-2014 11:51 AM

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I've fixed my wedding for October in the UK but I simply learned that another lady is pregnant for my fiance back in Nigeria. She's 6 months pregnant, due to deliver in October, same month I'm getting married. To state that I'm devastated is putting it mildly. I'm so hurt that I've shut myself from the surface world. I'm now so confused in regards to what to do. He's been begging me since I consequently found out never to cancel the wedding.

The pregnant lady actually contacted me via Facebook to inform me she's having my man's baby and when I confronted him, he didn't deny it. I have now been with this specific man for three and a half years and all my loved ones and friends have contributed one way or another to the wedding. The invitations haven't gone out yet, but all our people know the marriage is for October. I'm so confused. Should I cancel the marriage? My female friends are telling me never to but surprisingly, my mum wants me to. What should I actually do?

Please Help !!

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-- chicco77 (f) at 3-08-2014 06:13 PM
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 Huh? Huh? Huh?
-- ekeorji (m) at 4-08-2014 09:14 AM
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 ::)Go ahead and marriage him if you real love him,
-- jamepinto (m) at 7-08-2014 07:20 AM
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nor marry am again ooo pls help ur life.
-- beneno (m) at 7-08-2014 07:21 AM
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i beg delete that  marriage,friend wey him trap kiil rabbit him no tell you,next time if him trap kill elephant him no go also tell you.your mum is right  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
-- winace (f) at 7-08-2014 07:28 AM
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Pls cancel dat wedding. Wat else do u want to do? Ur frds telling u not to cancel d wedding will not cum and fight d battles for u wen d time cums. If dat lady can contact u thru facebook, she will do more than dat especially wen she deliver.
-- Dorokenny (m) at 7-08-2014 07:47 AM
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na ur cup of tea.. take your own decision and dance to the music
-- maizaxx Online (m) at 7-08-2014 08:01 AM
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My sister. I'm a man, for him not denying it means he knew about the pregnancy and didn't want to tell you.simply put your marriage is not going to be on trust.cancel it now or you will be the one to feel the pain later
-- DrSoba (m) at 7-08-2014 09:57 AM
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A cheater will always be a cheater. He knew about it and did not tell you ( I know it difficult considering the marriage stage) but he took you for granted and will always.  Your mom in right she will be there and you friends might not. The ball is in your court. I wish you well.
-- osamabinladin (m) at 7-08-2014 10:16 AM
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Biko cancel it With inmediate alacrity !
-- trulyval (m) at 7-08-2014 10:30 AM
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Babe this is not about anybody else but you. It's your life, your future, your peace, your happiness that count's. No one can live your life for you, or face your battles for you. This is a decision only you can make and only you know's what is best for you. Wish you the best with the decision you make, I pray & know all would be well with you.
-- Lekankolade (m) at 7-08-2014 11:39 AM
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Ur guy is a game boy , stop d marriage now or regret doing d marriage 4 4 dos ur frnds telling u to go ahead ''persin wey im own don burn no go mind if ur own dey bring smoke '' ...use ur sense , Roger [email protected] ?
-- Samogs2003 (m) at 7-08-2014 11:42 AM
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Pls,cancel it. Those friend wil nt help u live ur life b4 u knw it,those friends ar gone bt, ur mother wil nt forsake u. Thank God say u even knw b4 d wedding place. God wil provide ur own husband 4 um
-- queenbabe (f) at 7-08-2014 11:57 AM
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My Dear just follow your heart, if for me I will say go no with your wedding  I wish you luck.
-- Originalsly (m) at 7-08-2014 12:07 PM
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Big red flag waving in your face. If just before marriage....when both parties should be putting their best foot forward.....showing trust and dedication.....intead your fiance is in another relationship....and got the female pregnant. If he can disrespect you this much now then expect to be treated like a doormat if you become his wife. Your choice.
-- zeigbo (m) at 7-08-2014 01:56 PM
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Huh? Huh?

-- Don-Thentic (m) at 7-08-2014 02:27 PM
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-- missblack72 (f) at 7-08-2014 03:38 PM
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i agree with trulyval. you have to make a decision of your own. pray then decide. god bless
-- Flozywhite (f) at 7-08-2014 06:04 PM
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pls settle your heart, confornt your self and pray to God Almighty for his direction on what you alone to decide not any body deciding for you but you alone.
-- christianida (m) at 7-08-2014 06:49 PM
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