Help! My marriage in 2 months time but someone else is pregnant for him!

I've fixed my wedding for October in the UK but I simply learned that another lady is pregnant for my fiance back in Nigeria. She's 6 months pregnant, due to deliver in October, same month I'm getting married. To state that I'm devastated is putting it mildly. I'm so hurt that I've shut myself from the surface world. I'm now so confused in regards to what to do. He's been begging me since I consequently found out never to cancel the wedding.

The pregnant lady actually contacted me via Facebook to inform me she's having my man's baby and when I confronted him, he didn't deny it. I have now been with this specific man for three and a half years and all my loved ones and friends have contributed one way or another to the wedding. The invitations haven't gone out yet, but all our people know the marriage is for October. I'm so confused. Should I cancel the marriage? My female friends are telling me never to but surprisingly, my mum wants me to. What should I actually do?

Please Help !!


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Posted: at 3-08-2014 11:51 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

 ::)Go ahead and marriage him if you real love him,

Posted: at 4-08-2014 09:14 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

i beg delete that  marriage,friend wey him trap kiil rabbit him no tell you,next time if him trap kill elephant him no go also tell you.your mum is right        

Posted: at 7-08-2014 07:21 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

na ur cup of tea.. take your own decision and dance to the music

Posted: at 7-08-2014 07:47 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

A cheater will always be a cheater. He knew about it and did not tell you ( I know it difficult considering the marriage stage) but he took you for granted and will always.  Your mom in right she will be there and you friends might not. The ball is in your court. I wish you well.

Posted: at 7-08-2014 09:57 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Babe this is not about anybody else but you. It's your life, your future, your peace, your happiness that count's. No one can live your life for you, or face your battles for you. This is a decision only you can make and only you know's what is best for you. Wish you the best with the decision you make, I pray & know all would be well with you.

Posted: at 7-08-2014 10:30 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Pls,cancel it. Those friend wil nt help u live ur life b4 u knw it,those friends ar gone bt, ur mother wil nt forsake u. Thank God say u even knw b4 d wedding place. God wil provide ur own husband 4 um

Posted: at 7-08-2014 11:42 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Big red flag waving in your face. If just before marriage....when both parties should be putting their best foot forward.....showing trust and dedication.....intead your fiance is in another relationship....and got the female pregnant. If he can disrespect you this much now then expect to be treated like a doormat if you become his wife. Your choice.

Posted: at 7-08-2014 12:07 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

hmmmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 7-08-2014 02:27 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

pls settle your heart, confornt your self and pray to God Almighty for his direction on what you alone to decide not any body deciding for you but you alone.

Posted: at 7-08-2014 06:04 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming