My Experience With Match Made Marriage, Mutual Friends Hooked Us Up - It Failed (Page 2)

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Posted: at 26-08-2014 03:39 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

My dear first of all, You have to tell yourself truth, because after reading your post i fine out that there is no truth in you in first place, God bless you,

Posted: at 26-08-2014 05:56 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

The new trend in Nigeria about match-making a Nigerian girl/guy with a partner abroad without courtship is frightening! These relationships quickly transform into marriage because the Nigerian counterparts perceive it as an opportunity to check out of the country. Most of such relationships end up hitting the rocks, and the fun of getting out of the country quickly turns into serious bitterness and suffering. Know the man or woman first before committing your life to a marriage!

Posted: at 27-08-2014 05:27 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

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Posted: at 27-08-2014 08:50 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Thank you.
After getting BSc, MSc and PhD, she can not settle for any guy with less. At least he has to have a USA or UK etc.
I feel if you can marry a guy you hardly know just because he lives outside the country, then you can marry a guy you hardly know in the country.
He still lives outside the country (he hasn't changed)
I'm quite sure that was the only point that had you completely sold out so stop complaining that any other thing isn't in it's place.
I also remember you saying you asked for a divorce. He's given you one so why are you now complaining?
Resigning your job to go be with him, is taking an even bigger risk than marrying him in the first place.

Posted: at 27-08-2014 10:57 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

I guess you are dating your boss otherwise why would you have place priority on this same job you are now willing to resign ahead of your marriage. When he was complaining you never did ask if you could drop this job so both of you could be together at least for once so you could get acquainted with each other. He keeps calling and you also fail to tell us how many times you've been calling him. Is it always after you discover a miss call from him? You created lapses in your relationship which could not been.  

Posted: at 27-08-2014 11:15 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

You can't serve God & monster.
The options were before you - Choose - Marriage OR Carrier/Education.
I guess you made the wrong choice by settling for the later.
What you're suffering now is the consequences of your wrong choice
Trying to get him back is not a bad idea (if you can)
If not, leak your wound and move on.
But next time, set your priorities right.
Thou can not eat your cake and still wanna have it 
Its bad enough that u guys hardly know each other before entering into the marriage
Staying apart after the wedding was the big blow that dismantled the marriage (Couple wey still dey stay together sef dey divorce, talkless of una own)

Posted: at 27-08-2014 03:32 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

Do you need glasses or what? Please, read the whole story before making some weak comments

Posted: at 27-08-2014 05:07 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Nice movie script !

Posted: at 30-08-2014 10:21 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

story story

Posted: at 3-09-2015 05:50 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac