Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship ? (Page 2)

Date: 21-10-2009 10:18 am (14 years ago) | Author: PRINCE OBINECHE
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- Ronnie28 at 22-10-2009 07:16 AM (14 years ago)
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well i had never had sex in first date since my life, but had it wen i met my guy and it happened 8 months wen we met each other.

In a relationship SEX shuld not be the first that shuld happen, knw each othervery well first, knw wat ur partner like and dislike, his or her weak points.

Thats my own answer to that.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 07:16 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sweetvalerie at 22-10-2009 08:36 AM (14 years ago)
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CONFEE KSURRINA IS RIGHT.IS ONLY A PROBLEM WEN IT BECOMES HABIT.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 08:36 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- basket at 22-10-2009 08:41 AM (14 years ago)
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@keffejude...
u r right in what u said...
Posted: at 22-10-2009 08:41 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- melody7 at 22-10-2009 09:45 AM (14 years ago)
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if der is LOVE it doesnt matter if u had sex d first time or not. d relationship still grows..
Posted: at 22-10-2009 09:45 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Regxy007 at 22-10-2009 09:56 AM (14 years ago)
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Having sex on the first date may not kill a potential relationship. It's only the mindset of both parties.

Maybe they lust after themselves that day and afterward they found nothing special or interesting between them.
If one party is aggressive on the topic of sex against the other's preference, it can also hamper a potential relationship.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 09:56 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Agatex at 22-10-2009 11:56 AM (14 years ago)
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first date + sex= segxwal relationship x lust
         no real love
                                         = just one of those things.





Posted: at 22-10-2009 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- AKINBUSOLA07 at 22-10-2009 12:02 PM (14 years ago)
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exactly
Posted: at 22-10-2009 12:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sundayogunbukol at 22-10-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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sex at firstdate can't destroyed relationship if u known wat u re lookin in man or women to go out with if those tings are there, sex at first date is not to do with ur relationship.unless u want hit and run relationship.doesn't matter how long u date someone before sex with her or him, sex is sex whether longterm or shortterm. let us be sincerely to ourself in havin relationship.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- 12hours at 22-10-2009 12:38 PM (14 years ago)
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i knew one
Posted: at 22-10-2009 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- talk2sirjohn at 22-10-2009 01:26 PM (14 years ago)
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it depends on the persons involved in the relationship and depends on  the principle which is set up by both partners.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 01:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- slimfeet at 22-10-2009 01:49 PM (14 years ago)
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it's based on the mindset and foundation laying,  if there motive is just to have sex, then that relationship is bound to failure and won't last. but if the love (pure love) is intact, then it might lead to marriage...
Posted: at 22-10-2009 01:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- jidbuk at 22-10-2009 02:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Sex on a first date depend on the kind of ralationship.But mostly it looks some how, as a man after that particular sex u 've a doubting mind b'cos guys call it cheap one. 2 be candid it kill a potential relationship 90%
Posted: at 22-10-2009 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- idahosaa at 22-10-2009 02:24 PM (14 years ago)
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first date or later it doesnt matter ,the truth just meet a girl ur have something common with
Posted: at 22-10-2009 02:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 22-10-2009 02:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 22-10-2009 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olame4 at 22-10-2009 03:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Is sex the substance of a relationship. Some persons have sex for the first date but they know each other long time and then after sex they get married. Then you will have persons who will have sex after 6 months and the relationship ends the next day. So I don't think that having sex on the first date is a problem. The problem would be if you make it a habit of doing it with everyone you go out with.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 03:18 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pakudu at 22-10-2009 04:12 PM (14 years ago)
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having sex wen u are not married is wrong let alone 1st day.such relationship has already end b4 its tym. sum may end up becoming a strong lust while sum may crash.
Posted: at 22-10-2009 04:12 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- nkeiruagu at 22-10-2009 04:55 PM (14 years ago)
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it dosen't, but is not always adversibal cus not all guys will come with a good heath
Posted: at 22-10-2009 04:55 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- dollargirl at 22-10-2009 06:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Peeping! lol!
Posted: at 22-10-2009 06:53 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- moneyinbrakemi at 22-10-2009 07:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kemoprosper on 21-10-2009 11:37 AM
it's rare i guess the person is just lucky.

 Lucky U say; I think its abnormal for one to allow sex on their first date except one meets with a prostitute
Posted: at 22-10-2009 07:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 22-10-2009 07:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: debbiecakes on 21-10-2009 11:20 PM
no not really it depends on y da sex occured actually..if u had sex based on lust and not like den da relationship is not goin anywhere...if u do it cuz u really liked each other or hope to have a relationship den it builds da relationship rather than destroyin it.

     Thank U. You have said it all debbiecakes
Posted: at 22-10-2009 07:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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