He wants to marry me but his father refuses (Page 5)

Date: 31-10-2009 11:15 am (15 years ago) | Author: Ogechukwu
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- nametalkam at 5-11-2009 10:58 AM (15 years ago)
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Na you know wetin you and the papa tie together, How e go allow him son marry you maybe e don chop you before

Posted: at 5-11-2009 10:58 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- gimac at 5-11-2009 04:43 PM (15 years ago)
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listein to your heart beat
Posted: at 5-11-2009 04:43 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- samdupe at 5-11-2009 07:09 PM (15 years ago)
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Any love that have not been tested is still a baby love,the ability of holding on when things get rough is the strenght of love,so my dear,hold on and keep praying for that is the solution to your problem.But let me advice you,in respect of the love both of you share,"If both of you are not meant to live together as husband and wife,with or with out his father's blessing,their will always be problem,so seek devine intervention who knows God want you out.

Thank you that is just the way out, before you were born he (God) knows you, even in your mother"s womb, so why dont you turn to him for directives my dear friend?  Smiley
Posted: at 5-11-2009 07:09 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- gimac at 6-11-2009 07:52 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: samdupe on  5-11-2009 07:09 PM
Any love that have not been tested is still a baby love,the ability of holding on when things get rough is the strenght of love,so my dear,hold on and keep praying for that is the solution to your problem.But let me advice you,in respect of the love both of you share,"If both of you are not meant to live together as husband and wife,with or with out his father's blessing,their will always be problem,so seek devine intervention who knows God want you out.

Thank you that is just the way out, before you were born he (God) knows you, even in your mother"s womb, so why dont you turn to him for directives my dear friend?  Smiley

with fire or water
Posted: at 6-11-2009 07:52 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- jopat2008 at 6-11-2009 11:43 AM (15 years ago)
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Pray and God will see u through. You should not be afraid of ur father in -law.
Once you marry everything will be past. Love is very important.
Posted: at 6-11-2009 11:43 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- debbiecakes at 7-11-2009 01:44 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: philnel on  1-11-2009 09:05 PM
Any love that have not been tested is still a baby love,the ability of holding on when things get rough is the strenght of love,so my dear,hold on and keep praying for that is the solution to your problem.But let me advice you,in respect of the love both of you share,"If both of you are not meant to live together as husband and wife,with or with out his father's blessing,their will always be problem,so seek devine intervention who knows God want you out.


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Posted: at 7-11-2009 01:44 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- gimac at 8-11-2009 03:30 AM (15 years ago)
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okie
Posted: at 8-11-2009 03:30 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Ricardoprinz at 8-11-2009 08:00 AM (15 years ago)
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Baby girl i will give u d best of d best advise.Experience they say is d best teacher.I had same problem with my girlfriends then (now WIFE) father.He refused bluntly we prayed did everything tht we could got married and now what did i get afterwards UNHAPPINESS.We have no child now we are abt 20yrs old in d marriage.So my dear sister there lots of men good men out there.Walk away now or else.....word is enough for d wise.
Posted: at 8-11-2009 08:00 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- martins101 at 8-11-2009 02:51 PM (15 years ago)
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just wait it will soon be ok, afteroll the guy ask u to wait. sooooo wait.
Posted: at 8-11-2009 02:51 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- gimac at 9-11-2009 04:23 AM (15 years ago)
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wait till when
Posted: at 9-11-2009 04:23 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dumosky2010 at 9-11-2009 05:11 AM (15 years ago)
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Go girl, i was once in a position like this b4. tribal marriage discrimination is one of the strongest disease that is affecting us 9gerians. u have a better life to live my frnd, if he thinks he luv u, he will know how to talk to his father letting him to know that he is now a man. he can take care of himself now, he wants to have a family like him, he wants to also answer the name daddy! n the most important, tribe is not a human being it's just our belief's, he knows his lady more than his father. Then if his father is a good man he should let go for the best of his son........take care n i wish u d best of luck......!
Posted: at 9-11-2009 05:11 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sucess4life at 11-11-2009 04:47 PM (15 years ago)
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dont marry him,leave him.cause parent plays great role in marrige than u think.are u a christian? please dont put urself under a curse.
Posted: at 11-11-2009 04:47 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- adegeye at 18-11-2009 04:14 PM (15 years ago)
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may be the old man knows some hidden secret abt you, why not open up to ur friend so that u can sort things out within urself
Posted: at 18-11-2009 04:14 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 18-11-2009 04:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: adegeye on 18-11-2009 04:14 PM
may be the old man knows some hidden secret abt you, why not open up to ur friend so that u can sort things out within urself

I THINK U SHOULD PRAY HARD ABOUT COS SOMETIMES ITS NOT UR FAULT IF AFTER PRAYING VERY HARD IT DOESNT WORK DEN NO HE IS NOT THE ONE FOR U but dont b tired of praying till ur real man comes and as dis person  said if there is anything u r doing in d secret that is not good amend ur ways , dont depend on people when u depend on people dey will fail but GOD IS LOVE and trust me he loves u and he wont let u marry d wrong person and will not let anything bad happen to u fall in love with GOD for who he is and not for what he has to offer start a relationship with JESUS DEN U WILL NOT B WORRIED IF ONE NILCOMPOPE DIDNT MARRY U TAKE MY ADVICE AND U WILL B HAPPY READ UR BIBLE AND START A GENUINE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD U WONT REGRET IT; becos no b every marriage b marriage he get who u go marry life go tire u e  go better to b single instead of this type of husband so b very care4ful b4 u marry d wrong person dis one wey hin papa don dey give u sign say der get hatred for thier family pray to GOD he will direct u d way to go in life, my sister marriage is not a big deal a  lot of people have been there just marrying d right person is important
Posted: at 18-11-2009 04:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- black_samurai at 18-11-2009 06:43 PM (15 years ago)
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Strange, you said "many suitors have been coming" If you don't like this "old man" (lie you called him) discriminating, what about you?  bet you wanna marry the guy for some selfish reason else you won't mention suitors. 

Posted: at 18-11-2009 06:43 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- around_d_corner at 18-11-2009 06:51 PM (15 years ago)
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go tell ha fada u most marry ha by force........
Posted: at 18-11-2009 06:51 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 18-11-2009 06:55 PM (15 years ago)
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abi Cheesy
Posted: at 18-11-2009 06:55 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 19-11-2009 02:34 PM (15 years ago)
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he should listen to his father.....
Posted: at 19-11-2009 02:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 19-11-2009 02:42 PM (15 years ago)
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u can abscond with him to atlantic ocean
Posted: at 19-11-2009 02:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- floxqueen at 20-11-2009 03:23 PM (15 years ago)
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invite God! This is not a serious reason for his father not 2 accept you, go and pray! guy is really for you, theres nothing anybody can do!May God help you! Mind you, dont chase other men away again lol!
Posted: at 20-11-2009 03:23 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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