He wants to marry me but his father refuses (Page 4)

Date: 31-10-2009 11:15 am (14 years ago) | Author: Ogechukwu
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- latifatu at 3-11-2009 05:15 PM (14 years ago)
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the poblem here is tribal, u just tell ur father to go ahead and kill him self and see if he will really do it. he is only thinking of him self not about ur happiness. ur parent have lived thier life. well the decision is ur's. Smiley but if i were in ur shoe i will go ahead and marry my love especially if she is a good girl
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- latifatu at 3-11-2009 05:30 PM (14 years ago)
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nestea and dirtykid i like una talk
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- CHIZBLAZY at 3-11-2009 07:04 PM (14 years ago)
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u need 2 have faith that every thing will be fine. if u realy love him,and u know he realy want 2 marry u,than u should hold on 4 the sake of love.and pary that god touch th haert of th old man.and if no improvment
 my dear u should do something fast cos dealy can be dengerous.
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- dirtykid at 3-11-2009 08:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: fa4rite on  3-11-2009 04:04 PM
you must be sure of the family you are going into, if they dont like you its better you stay off, cause they can do anything just to hurt you or your husban to be. go to family that will accept you.regrate is too late...

There is nothing like be sure of the family u are entering my dear.. If u truely love someone no matter the tribe or colour. go for it as long as u will be happy with that person. True love wins all... as a matter of u starting ur own world, life, happiness and anything good u can think for urself.. Once u make ur choice in relationship, stick to dat. nothing comes across what God has join together. nothing !! i mean nothing can hurt u or ur partner.


Posted: at 3-11-2009 08:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 4-11-2009 04:18 AM (14 years ago)
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then marry his father
Posted: at 4-11-2009 04:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- efosa2008 at 4-11-2009 06:30 AM (14 years ago)
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its better u forget about it now,if u there try u will never hv rest,GOD hv show it to u that the family does not need u.pls stand by ur ideal
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- Djefex at 4-11-2009 08:21 AM (14 years ago)
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Hope in GOD
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- RosemaryI at 4-11-2009 08:56 AM (14 years ago)
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to end up in a descent and God fearing home "hope in GOD"
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- humblej at 4-11-2009 09:16 AM (14 years ago)
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days are gone when parents decide who u to marry to and whom u should be married to, therefore open u'r eyes and shine them.

Posted: at 4-11-2009 09:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- egbesam at 4-11-2009 09:57 AM (14 years ago)
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if the lady really loves her man then let her stay. as for th guy's father, suicide is what best suit him now, let him commit it and give way for the young coples. foolish and wicked man like him.
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- Hearthrob at 4-11-2009 11:10 AM (14 years ago)
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Pray
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- dirtykid at 4-11-2009 02:40 PM (14 years ago)
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how long shall she pray?? when God has already answer her prayer

Posted: at 4-11-2009 02:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 4-11-2009 02:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: latifatu on  3-11-2009 05:15 PM
the poblem here is tribal, u just tell ur father to go ahead and kill him self and see if he will really do it. he is only thinking of him self not about ur happiness. ur parent have lived thier life. well the decision is ur's. Smiley but if i were in ur shoe i will go ahead and marry my love especially if she is a good girl


I dont buy that idea.
Posted: at 4-11-2009 02:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- devid75 at 4-11-2009 03:35 PM (14 years ago)
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man pleased don,t  make dat mistake becarefull and calm down with more patience ,wait let ur father change his mind .....there is something ur father have seen t dat GURL  u called ur loved one ..whis no one had Never seen it ......Not matter of trible
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- umide at 4-11-2009 03:45 PM (14 years ago)
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PARABLE OHUN TA GBA RE OMO DE OOOOOOOOOOOO RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
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- nnekanda at 4-11-2009 04:16 PM (14 years ago)
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well my dear this is not the end of the world.  and let me tell you something, if what you have said is true my advice is simple leave the guy a lone and look for the person God destined you to because marriage is not a childs play. those who's marriage is accepted and blessed by familys go through hell talk less of the one that was not accepted from the onset.  my dear sister no matter the kind of love both of you have for each other hmmmmmmmmm even if the old man dies the cause he might have kept  will still be there and may end up harmming you or your children if ever you get one.   think about this very well and also check yourself, if you are okay do not worry God will surlly do something better for you.
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- FreddieO at 4-11-2009 04:25 PM (14 years ago)
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tested love indeed. The father didnt try to commit sucide when you guys where dating abi did he not know?
To hell with him let him die if he wants. and for you dear if yuo cant wait anymore pls move cos some one better and God fearing and not a tribalist or racist is out there searching for you. you guy or his father dont deserve you? where are they from serv!!!!!!
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- FreddieO at 4-11-2009 04:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Girl find your way and leave the racist/tribalistic man to hang if he wants. They dont deserve you. Where is he from serv!!
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- gimac at 4-11-2009 07:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on  4-11-2009 09:16 AM
days are gone when parents decide who u to marry to and whom u should be married to, therefore open u'r eyes and shine them.

are u the really humble or the fake one
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- 38589319 at 5-11-2009 10:57 AM (14 years ago)
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My sister is not a easy task, be commited to God things will go wall by his grace.And all will be histry.
Posted: at 5-11-2009 10:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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