Problem with my fiancee and lover

Date: 02-11-2009 10:17 am (15 years ago) | Author: rabiu mujidat grace
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- at 2-11-2009 10:17 AM (15 years ago)
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i v a boyfriend or let me say fiance for 6yrs now, and i was so stupid todump him for a guy which i dated for 5months. he also had a 6yrs relationship which he left too. on the long run he started drifing away from me and went back to her telling me lots of lies etc i was hummillated,insulted n rubbished by him and the girlfriend like call me she picks and warns me, he sometimes pick and not pick at all,compared me, deleted my sms,pic, and stored her name has wifie while mine my name and he kept saying he loves me n do not want to loose me dat he is just confused etc.............
i left him settled back with my ex and now we so tight back an here come d devil begging again,but he is still dating her................
what do i do i still got a slight feelings for him pls help

Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:17 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- macgreat at 2-11-2009 10:50 AM (15 years ago)
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Sounds like you don't know what you want...

Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:50 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- mubaji at 2-11-2009 11:06 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on  2-11-2009 10:50 AM
Sounds like you don't know what you want...
people just come here with fictions
Posted: at 2-11-2009 11:06 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 2-11-2009 12:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on  2-11-2009 10:50 AM
Sounds like you don't know what you want...

nd she's a dumb ass

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:07 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 2-11-2009 12:12 PM (15 years ago)
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hissssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 2-11-2009 12:15 PM (15 years ago)
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dats why i dislike gurls!!! u left ur guy cos of one hooligan, now u have gone back to ur ex, the bastard came back knocking on ur door and u are here telling me u still got feelings for someone who doesnt have love, respect, regard etc for u!! why are u so daft? in fact, what ever decision u want to take, is all left for u

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- obado at 2-11-2009 12:18 PM (15 years ago)
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MyChike,
            Firstly, to me it seem's u are not enjoying ur 6yrs relationship again cos, i c reason no why u should leave a 6yrs relationship,that is to say there is something u like in this 2nd guy.
  
          Secondly,  No matter what, u just have to let go of this 5month guy in respect of what he might have use to sactisfy u.u should understand that, we are not a perfect hunman being.Just know that guy's are different from guy's.u are very lukky that ur first guy still loves u.if i happen to be  ur first guy, i would not accept u back cos i knw some how or someday u will still have a feelings for this 2nd guy.u knw u hv ur life to live and u knw,u most watchout for verydecision u make.

    Thirdly don't use ur hand to destroy what u've built for 6yrs, u knw is not easy for a relationship of 6yrs to destroy just like that.

     Lastly, just go back to ur 6yrs relationship and beg him,let him knw that u are very sorry for the past. Do u kwn that u can make him a perfect man.Am a guy 2.i understand how u feel. if u want to knw how to handle a perfect relationship i wll tell u more.

thanks for d understanding my mail

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Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:18 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- oyez at 2-11-2009 12:22 PM (15 years ago)
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you said it yourself...that you were so stupid enough.

that't just it

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gimac at 2-11-2009 12:23 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mychike on  2-11-2009 10:17 AM
i v a boyfriend or let me say fiance for 6yrs now, and i was so stupid todump him for a guy which i dated for 5months. he also had a 6yrs relationship which he left too. on the long run he started drifing away from me and went back to her telling me lots of lies etc i was hummillated,insulted n rubbished by him and the girlfriend like call me she picks and warns me, he sometimes pick and not pick at all,compared me, deleted my sms,pic, and stored her name has wifie while mine my name and he kept saying he loves me n do not want to loose me dat he is just confused etc.............
i left him settled back with my ex and now we so tight back an here come d devil begging again,but he is still dating her................
what do i do i still got a slight feelings for him pls help


make it slide feeling if so wise
Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:23 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 2-11-2009 12:29 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on  2-11-2009 12:07 PM
Quote from: macgreat on  2-11-2009 10:50 AM
Sounds like you don't know what you want...

nd she's a dumb ass

Confirm

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:29 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 2-11-2009 12:33 PM (15 years ago)
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HAHAHAHA!!! MORE THAN STUPID

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 2-11-2009 12:35 PM (15 years ago)
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why insult her
Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:35 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 2-11-2009 12:43 PM (15 years ago)
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u're an imported idiot

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:43 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 2-11-2009 12:50 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  2-11-2009 12:43 PM
u're an imported idiot


habaa, thats not nice na
Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 2-11-2009 12:55 PM (15 years ago)
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just check the story,u're dating a guy u claim to love......u left him for an idiot and he still out of love accepted u back and now u're saying shit

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:55 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mychike on  2-11-2009 10:17 AM
i v a boyfriend or let me say fiance for 6yrs now, and i was so stupid todump him for a guy which i dated for 5months. he also had a 6yrs relationship which he left too. on the long run he started drifing away from me and went back to her telling me lots of lies etc i was hummillated,insulted n rubbished by him and the girlfriend like call me she picks and warns me, he sometimes pick and not pick at all,compared me, deleted my sms,pic, and stored her name has wifie while mine my name and he kept saying he loves me n do not want to loose me dat he is just confused etc.............
i left him settled back with my ex and now we so tight back an here come d devil begging again,but he is still dating her................
what do i do i still got a slight feelings for him pls help
SHINE YA EYES DEAR..U DESERVE BETTER...JUST TAKE A LOOK ON YA SELF..U LOOK LIKE SOME1 WHO FIT BE THE SECOUND Huh??

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Resi at 2-11-2009 12:58 PM (15 years ago)
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Why still have feelings for a guy,who is seeing another woman? My dear you really dont know what you want or you probally dont know what love entails.Sit down and meditate on what you actually want.

Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:58 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- umide at 2-11-2009 01:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Try to put vacancy out ok
Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:03 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SexyJuly at 2-11-2009 01:04 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on  2-11-2009 10:50 AM
Sounds like you don't know what you want...


I concur with u, But, do i really have a say here?
Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:04 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 2-11-2009 01:05 PM (15 years ago)
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U WILL JUST HURT YASELF..FORGET THAT GUY SAP SAP

Posted: at 2-11-2009 01:05 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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