i v a boyfriend or let me say fiance for 6yrs now, and i was so stupid todump him for a guy which i dated for 5months. he also had a 6yrs relationship which he left too. on the long run he started drifing away from me and went back to her telling me lots of lies etc i was hummillated,insulted n rubbished by him and the girlfriend like call me she picks and warns me, he sometimes pick and not pick at all,compared me, deleted my sms,pic, and stored her name has wifie while mine my name and he kept saying he loves me n do not want to loose me dat he is just confused etc............. i left him settled back with my ex and now we so tight back an here come d devil begging again,but he is still dating her................ what do i do i still got a slight feelings for him pls help
Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:17 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
dats why i dislike gurls!!! u left ur guy cos of one hooligan, now u have gone back to ur ex, the bastard came back knocking on ur door and u are here telling me u still got feelings for someone who doesnt have love, respect, regard etc for u!! why are u so daft? in fact, what ever decision u want to take, is all left for u
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Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
MyChike, Firstly, to me it seem's u are not enjoying ur 6yrs relationship again cos, i c reason no why u should leave a 6yrs relationship,that is to say there is something u like in this 2nd guy.
Secondly, No matter what, u just have to let go of this 5month guy in respect of what he might have use to sactisfy u.u should understand that, we are not a perfect hunman being.Just know that guy's are different from guy's.u are very lukky that ur first guy still loves u.if i happen to be ur first guy, i would not accept u back cos i knw some how or someday u will still have a feelings for this 2nd guy.u knw u hv ur life to live and u knw,u most watchout for verydecision u make.
Thirdly don't use ur hand to destroy what u've built for 6yrs, u knw is not easy for a relationship of 6yrs to destroy just like that.
Lastly, just go back to ur 6yrs relationship and beg him,let him knw that u are very sorry for the past. Do u kwn that u can make him a perfect man.Am a guy 2.i understand how u feel. if u want to knw how to handle a perfect relationship i wll tell u more.
i v a boyfriend or let me say fiance for 6yrs now, and i was so stupid todump him for a guy which i dated for 5months. he also had a 6yrs relationship which he left too. on the long run he started drifing away from me and went back to her telling me lots of lies etc i was hummillated,insulted n rubbished by him and the girlfriend like call me she picks and warns me, he sometimes pick and not pick at all,compared me, deleted my sms,pic, and stored her name has wifie while mine my name and he kept saying he loves me n do not want to loose me dat he is just confused etc............. i left him settled back with my ex and now we so tight back an here come d devil begging again,but he is still dating her................ what do i do i still got a slight feelings for him pls help
make it slide feeling if so wise
Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:23 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
i v a boyfriend or let me say fiance for 6yrs now, and i was so stupid todump him for a guy which i dated for 5months. he also had a 6yrs relationship which he left too. on the long run he started drifing away from me and went back to her telling me lots of lies etc i was hummillated,insulted n rubbished by him and the girlfriend like call me she picks and warns me, he sometimes pick and not pick at all,compared me, deleted my sms,pic, and stored her name has wifie while mine my name and he kept saying he loves me n do not want to loose me dat he is just confused etc............. i left him settled back with my ex and now we so tight back an here come d devil begging again,but he is still dating her................ what do i do i still got a slight feelings for him pls help
SHINE YA EYES DEAR..U DESERVE BETTER...JUST TAKE A LOOK ON YA SELF..U LOOK LIKE SOME1 WHO FIT BE THE SECOUND ?
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Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Why still have feelings for a guy,who is seeing another woman? My dear you really dont know what you want or you probally dont know what love entails.Sit down and meditate on what you actually want.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 2-11-2009 12:58 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming