A man, Chukwudi Obi, has told the Oshodi Grade B customary court in Lagos State that he used to force his wife, Nkechinyere, for sex throughout their eight-year marriage.
“Ever since I started living with my wife, she never allowed me to have sex with her. I had to force myself on her before we had our four children,” Obi said. Obi was responding to a petition by his wife seeking a court order to stop his plan to marry another woman.
He told the court that Nkechinyere threatened to stab him with a knife in 2010 when he attempted to have sex with her.
“Since she started living with me, my wife would always find it difficult to have sex with me. I do not know what her problem is. We had our four children through the use of force.
“When I saw that things were getting out of hand, I took her and the children to the village so that her parents could talk sense into her,” Chukwudi submitted.
He said that he was ready for divorce because he was fed up with the segxwal starvation.
He also denied the allegation by his wife that he abandoned his family because of his girlfriend.
I did not abandon them as she said because I was sending her N10,000 on monthly basis to take care of the children; I have the tellers here,” he said.
President of the court, Alhaja A.I. Olorunimbe, ordered Obi to continue to pay his wife N10,000 monthly for the children’s upkeep, pending the determination of the suit.
She also enjoined the parents of the couple to explore means of resolving their conflicts. She then adjourned the case till May 27.
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Posted: at 3-04-2015 06:58 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
deboalabi262 at 3-04-2015 07:06 PM (10 years ago) (m)
Na wa oooooo....
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed......
Posted: at 3-04-2015 07:06 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
drcbakassy at 3-04-2015 08:26 PM (10 years ago) (m)
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolent and like wise the wife unto the husband . The wife hath not power of her own body but the husband and like wise also the husband hath not power of his own body,but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other except it be with consent for a time that ye may give your selves to fasting and prayer and come together again that Satan tempt you not for incontinency 1 CORINTHIANS 7 verses 3-5
Posted: at 3-04-2015 08:26 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
sweetypweety at 4-04-2015 10:16 AM (10 years ago) (f)
Na wa for dis woman o. First u don't allow him have sex with u then again u don't want him to marry another woman DAT can give him wat he wants. U are very wicked
Posted: at 4-04-2015 10:16 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Chericoco at 4-04-2015 05:44 PM (10 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FeyiKunwa on 4-04-2015 04:06 PM
He called it forceful sex, I call it RAPE. He should have been arrested. No responsible person should rape his/her spouse because of marriage.
Rape in the eyes of oyinbo. Then majority African men need to be thrown in jail. They don't take no for an answer if a woman says no to sex. The man try sef for put on with the woman's altitude. She bi Mami water?
Posted: at 4-04-2015 05:44 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Why did she marry him first, what did he see initially in her, does she have problems with sex, how can the problem be solved, men need sex, and sex can be very good way for both of them to connect, did they ever had a good time together. since the matter is in court it's too late to address this issues on a more sensible level.
Posted: at 4-04-2015 07:37 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
zednaijaman at 4-04-2015 08:21 PM (10 years ago) (m)
What da hell? I know most naijapalians are hypocrites but this one here isn't a boy friend-girlfriend issue, why the hell should a wife starve her husband of s.e.x for so long?
Posted: at 4-04-2015 08:21 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming