Why My Wife Divorced Me – Oyakhilome Finally Speaks On Divorce Drama

Date: 08-04-2015 8:00 am (8 years ago) | Author: Mister Jay Wonder
[1] 2
- at 8-04-2015 08:00 AM (8 years ago)
(m)



Founder of Believers Love World Ministry aka Christ Embassy, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, has finally spoken on the divorce suit filed against him by his wife after days of silence on the issue.

According to the Daily Post, Oyakhilome described the allegations levelled against him as “crazy” and “stupid” and urged his church members to pray for his estranged wife while speaking on Sunday evening during the monthly global communion service of the church.

Oyakhilome, who appeared visibly disturbed during his first few minutes on stage, acknowledged that divorce is un-Biblical but suggested he could consider the option should his wife insist on it.

“I heard that some media houses– especially in Nigeria, are writing some things against me. All sorts of frivolous charges, that’s crazy.

“You have to understand something about a man of God. A man of God is not just someone who worships God or preaches God. A man of God is handpicked by God, set on course by God. If you study the scriptures, you will not find one man of God go against God, sinning against God.

“The only thing you might find will be a man of God, maybe in two different kinds of ways. Moses, for example, when he struck the rock twice, he was provoked by the anger of the people. It was not because he wanted to do something against the Lord. No man of God does something against the Lord.

“Are you hearing me? A man of God is set on a course; there is a type of life that he is given. Then you have a young man, a young prophet; he wasn’t named; he was deceived by another man of God and so he went in a direction that God said ‘don’t go’.

“That is the only kind of thing you find about a man of God when he misses the message of God or he acts beyond what God said. But a man of God settles himself in the fight against the world… like those writing those stupid things about me, that I did this and I did that.

“You don’t know who a man of God is. I don’t go in that direction. I wasn’t accused of the things you said, nor did I commit those stupid things that you said and I don’t need to go into that level in such discussions”.

He recalled that Jesus passed through similar travails and eventually overcame.

He said that although so many people were making mockery of him, he would remain steadfast and not lose focus.

“Jesus Christ was accused by many– a lot of frivolous charges. There will always be those who would like for it to be true. But you know, in spite of the accusations against Jesus, It didn’t change who he was. It didn’t change him.

“There are preachers and there are men of God. I am not a preacher; I am a man of God and I go in the way I’m asked to go. It may cause some troubles with individuals but that’s not because I have done something wrong and when it comes to Reverend Anita, what I will say to you is ‘pray for her’.

“Don’t act like those people. If you are married to a man of God, it doesn’t make you automatically mature. You can make mistakes; you can do something that is wrong. But some people expect the wife of a minister to definitely be at the level of that minister and so they may be looked upon and the expectation may be like that, but it’s a positional thing.

“If a man of God is married, it doesn’t automatically mean that the wife of a man of God is therefore a woman of God. That’s not the way it is in the Bible. That’s why you don’t really find the wives of men of God mentioned in the Bible. How many of them? Who was Peter’s wife, did you ever know her name? You never find that out. Who was John’s wife? Did you ever read the name? What about all the other Apostles? How many of their names are written in the Bible? You never find their names”, he added.

At this point, one of the female pastors sought to know why the names of wives of the men of God were not found in the Bible.

Oyakhilome’s response was that she should ask God whenever she finds him.

‘“Why? You ask God when you find him. Ask God when you find him”, he exclaimed.

“So, they are little things; don’t try to make something big out of them. So when journeying, doing the things that God called us to do, Christians should not have a divorce; it shouldn’t be, but you see, that doesn’t mean a Christian may not take the step.

“They may do it but they have to make things right and we shouldn’t take one another to court. But when it happens, not that we don’t just want to go, it means someone is taking us there.

“That’s a problem, but be wise and stay focused in the word of God and don’t let those who want to feast on things like this, including Christians…

“There are Christians who like things like this; they want to make something big out of this: ‘Yeah, yeah, yeah, we said it’. You said what? Judge nothing before the time. Be wise. Glory to God.

“So we are not working in sin and living in sin and hoping that we can mix sin and righteousness together. We are the manifestation of his righteousness. We walk in that light only, and that’s the way it’s gonna be”.

In April 2014, Anita Oyakhilome filed for divorce at Central Family Court, High Holborn, London, UK, citing her husband’s “unreasonable behaviour” and inappropriate relationships with members of staff, a euphemism for “adultery”.

The couple have meanwhile decided to share custody of their children. Sharon, the eldest, prefers Pastor Chris, while Charlene is presently with Anita.
















For more scintillating and juicy stories, follow the official Naijapals accounts On Twitter - @Naijapals and Facebook - www.facebook.com/naijapals


Posted: at 8-04-2015 08:00 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- NwosuKC at 8-04-2015 08:26 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
stale news
Posted: at 8-04-2015 08:26 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
Reply
- Wysetots at 8-04-2015 08:28 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 8-04-2015 08:28 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- Larry28 at 8-04-2015 08:29 AM (8 years ago)
(f)
Okay
Posted: at 8-04-2015 08:29 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- kelemann at 8-04-2015 08:53 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
Wetin the man of God talk here naa.
Posted: at 8-04-2015 08:53 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- beneno at 8-04-2015 09:03 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 8-04-2015 09:03 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply
- multiple at 8-04-2015 09:18 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
Idealy, one must be careful of comments one should make about people and especially men of God.
Posted: at 8-04-2015 09:18 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- multiple at 8-04-2015 09:18 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
Idealy, one must be careful of comments one should make about people and especially men of God.
Posted: at 8-04-2015 09:18 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- koboko1 at 8-04-2015 09:26 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
Old news poster get updated
Posted: at 8-04-2015 09:26 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- babafero at 8-04-2015 09:39 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
literally. every Nigerian call himself man of God.. nawao
Posted: at 8-04-2015 09:39 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- odegbalegu at 8-04-2015 10:18 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
I've heard the truth from a better source b4 now.
Posted: at 8-04-2015 10:18 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- deboalabi262 at 8-04-2015 10:27 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 8-04-2015 10:27 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- CyrilVic at 8-04-2015 11:24 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
May God help him.
Posted: at 8-04-2015 11:24 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
Reply
- Opeyemi66 at 8-04-2015 11:36 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes............
Posted: at 8-04-2015 11:36 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- echeeche at 8-04-2015 11:53 AM (8 years ago)
(m)
Silence
Posted: at 8-04-2015 11:53 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- jdybad at 8-04-2015 12:02 PM (8 years ago)
(m)
no rsponse
Posted: at 8-04-2015 12:02 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- bankadetoun at 8-04-2015 12:34 PM (8 years ago)
(f)
Ok
Posted: at 8-04-2015 12:34 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- Abubu86 at 8-04-2015 01:03 PM (8 years ago)
(m)
Passing
Posted: at 8-04-2015 01:03 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- benosky4 at 8-04-2015 01:17 PM (8 years ago)
(m)
man of God?
who's man of Satan...anybody calling himself man of God is lying

Posted: at 8-04-2015 01:17 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- Ritabrenice at 8-04-2015 02:37 PM (8 years ago)
(f)
Ok
Posted: at 8-04-2015 02:37 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
[1] 2

fire TRENDING GISTS fire

TODAY'S TOP
  1. Woman Shares Text Message She Received From Her Father After She Missed His Call Twice

  2. Yul Edochie Takes His Second Wife, Judy Austin To His Village In Anambra

  3. Newly Wedded Wife Bathes Husband With Hot Water For Stopping Her From Making Calls

  4. I Have No Hand in The Killing - Delta Monarch Cries Out After Being Declared Wanted by The Army

  5. BREAKING! CBN Increases Capital Base For Commercial Banks

  6. Renowned Nigerian Playwright, Wole Oguntokun Is Dead

  7. How Woman Suffered Organ Failure From Hair Cream Which Caused Her Kidney To Shut Down

  8. 'I Can't Drive Any Of My Kids Away If DNA Test Shows They're Not My Biological Children' - Man

  9. AGAIN! Nigeria Thrown Into Darkness As National Grid Collapses Ahead Of Easter Holidays

  10. 17Yr Old Girl Raped And Strangled To Death By Her Cousin In South Africa

  11. 400L Nasarawa Varsity Student, John Rudeh Declared Missing After Palliative Stampede

  12. Court Orders Release Of 313 Suspected Terrorists In Borno

  13. Police Apprehend 22 Thuggery Suspects, Declare 30 Wanted In Kano

  14. "Don’t Curse Nigeria, Remove Bad Leaders In 2027" – Tinubu To Religious Leaders

  15. He Sees Liam As A Competitor And A Threat- Late Mohbad’s Wife, Wunmi Laments

  16. 25Yr Old Man, Aminu Ali Bags Life Imprisonment For Sodomizing Boy In Jigawa

  17. Court Remands 42Yr Old Man For Allegedly Defiling & Impregnating 11Yr Old Girl In Lagos


THIS WEEK
  1. Russia President Putin Shocks Many As He Announces That Jesus And Mary Were Black

  2. Netizens React To Influencer, Enioluwa’s Alleged Leaked S*x Tape

  3. Kim Kardashian Finally Opens Up On Why She Divorced Kanye West

  4. Selena Gomez Shares Sexy Photo As She Put On A Very BUsty Display

  5. Man Videos Himself Taking His Own Life on Facebook Because His Girlfriend Cheated on Him

  6. Photos: Customs Officers Attacked By Suspected Smugglers In Adamawa

  7. "Why I Broke Up With My Girlfriend When I Became A Star" – Singer, Asake

  8. FAAN Shuts Down KFC Outlet At The Lagos Airport Over Discriminatory Treatment of Ex Gov's Son

  9. 44Yr Old Bassirou Faye Wins Senegal's Presidential Election, Defeats 62Yr Old Ex Prime Minister

  10. Stop Harassïng Enioluwa, I'm The One in The Leaked S*x Tape - US P0rn Star, Briggs Speaks (VID)


TOP MEMBERS: