Why Are Nigerian Men So Aggressive?

Date: 14-12-2009 12:43 am (14 years ago) | Author: Chigozie Onyema
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Why are Nigerian men so segxwally aggressive with women? He will pursue her to death even after she has rejected him fifty times. Why is this so? This article discusses the problem of Nigerian male aggression and how they come on too strong.

http://www.lifeinbiglondon.com/2009/12/05/a-letter-to-nigerian-men-things-you-should-know-about-women/

Posted: at 14-12-2009 12:43 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- Toks-E at 14-12-2009 12:56 AM (14 years ago)
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it depends,

nd wats this aggressive shit ur ar talkin abt? Grin

na american football abi na rugby? Smiley

Posted: at 14-12-2009 12:56 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 14-12-2009 01:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Guess its in their nature
Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 14-12-2009 01:15 AM (14 years ago)
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chie...its nt our nature ooo Smiley

Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:15 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 14-12-2009 01:19 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 14-12-2009 01:15 AM
chie...its nt our nature ooo Smiley

hmmm, are you sure?  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:19 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 14-12-2009 01:38 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 14-12-2009 01:19 AM
Quote from: Toks-E on 14-12-2009 01:15 AM
chie...its nt our nature ooo Smiley

hmmm, are you sure?  Roll Eyes

well it depends on the type of man sha

Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:38 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 14-12-2009 01:42 AM (14 years ago)
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True,the majority falls under this group tho
Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:42 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 14-12-2009 01:46 AM (14 years ago)
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yea, i agree wit dat

Posted: at 14-12-2009 01:46 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 14-12-2009 02:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 14-12-2009 01:46 AM
yea, i agree wit dat

Shebi u no dey the group?  Grin
Posted: at 14-12-2009 02:09 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- CILondon at 14-12-2009 03:53 AM (14 years ago)
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I find they can be aggressive in the sense that they come on too strong onto a woman, even after she has politely turned him down. If he keeps pursuing/pushing then she is forced to be rude to him or shout at him in order for him to get the message and back off.
Posted: at 14-12-2009 03:53 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- gimac at 14-12-2009 03:58 AM (14 years ago)
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am not one
Posted: at 14-12-2009 03:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- 25_vivi at 14-12-2009 05:57 AM (14 years ago)
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tats true .. i hav seen tat .. n i cant stand it ... wen i say no n they will not leave me .. i jus feel like slappin them . n they jus look so stupid .. n most of the time they r not consistant because they love u ... they r cause they jus want 2 loose u ... n the more u say no they will keep comin bac n wen they finally hav u .. its like they hav won a prize.

Posted: at 14-12-2009 05:57 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 14-12-2009 09:41 AM (14 years ago)
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If U want to experience a true Nigerian man come to Nigeria. When u've carried out a more realistic sample survey with people comfortable in their own home environment then U can drwa a more rational conclusion.

All these oyinbo girls wey dey yarn say Naija boys aggressive have U ever stopped to think that U myt just be a means to an end? The end being a greencard?

Naija is full of fine men. Who ever heard of a fine man hustling a girl?
Posted: at 14-12-2009 09:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- CILondon at 14-12-2009 11:51 AM (14 years ago)
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I'm not oyibo. I'm black and live in UK but both my parents are Nigerian. I lived in Nigeria for many,many years although I am back in UK now - so I speak from experience....
Posted: at 14-12-2009 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- humblej at 14-12-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 14-12-2009 01:42 AM
True,the majority falls under this group tho
Excluding me cos i'm not aggresive, come to think of it, why on earth would one be segxwally aggresive with woman when it's the man who blows the pipe and as well dictectes its tune!

Posted: at 14-12-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 14-12-2009 04:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on 14-12-2009 11:59 AM
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 14-12-2009 01:42 AM
True,the majority falls under this group tho
Excluding me cos i'm not aggresive, come to think of it, why on earth would one be segxwally aggresive with woman when it's the man who blows the pipe and as well dictectes its tune!

I wonderfor them.. maybe the poster is kinda aggressive type, and try to find a solution to his problem.

Posted: at 14-12-2009 04:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 14-12-2009 04:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: CILondon on 14-12-2009 11:51 AM
I'm not oyibo. I'm black and live in UK but both my parents are Nigerian. I lived in Nigeria for many,many years although I am back in UK now - so I speak from experience....



Let me use this opportunity to advice u about what that blog u posted with this title ( A Letter To Nigerian Men – Things You Should Know About Women ) I know is ur blog. U really have to amend it Dude. u dont have to specify NIGERIAN MEN on that? U can use all MEN for example.. why are we destroying ourselves one way or the other ??

Who even gave u the authority to judge Nigerian men like that ?? who told u the fat ones are trying to scale a fence to impress a gurl, or speeding a car to impress a gurl.. common dude. for your clear information, all men cant be the same, some of the attitude u even wrote on that blog is been done by some white guys,, espcially when they are drunk. they want to impress the ladies with all sorts of thngs.

When will those of you writing blogs, articles, petty magazines will learn to use it well, not against ur countrymen or women.

Ur title is so bad reputation for all niger men if u dont know what that means.. use ur talent well dude.

Have u ever realise that is even some of the girls that will even purse/chase a black guy once they know u are important to the society...u got someting to offer.......... why not write abt that one and stop making us all men look like we're desperate/ aggressive like ur thought directs u.

Posted: at 14-12-2009 04:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 14-12-2009 05:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 14-12-2009 02:09 AM
Quote from: Toks-E on 14-12-2009 01:46 AM
yea, i agree wit dat

Shebi u no dey the group?  Grin

depends on the situation, if it calls for aggressiveness, i'll be 100% on it

Posted: at 14-12-2009 05:10 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyez at 14-12-2009 05:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: CILondon on 14-12-2009 12:43 AM
Why are Nigerian men so segxwally aggressive with women? He will pursue her to death even after she has rejected him fifty times. Why is this so? This article discusses the problem of Nigerian male aggression and how they come on too strong.
http://www.lifeinbiglondon.com/2009/12/05/a-letter-to-nigerian-men-things-you-should-know-about-women/


who get time to read article? when we all know that a lady's "No" means "Yes!"

Posted: at 14-12-2009 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 14-12-2009 05:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oyez on 14-12-2009 05:13 PM
Quote from: CILondon on 14-12-2009 12:43 AM
Why are Nigerian men so segxwally aggressive with women? He will pursue her to death even after she has rejected him fifty times. Why is this so? This article discusses the problem of Nigerian male aggression and how they come on too strong.
http://www.lifeinbiglondon.com/2009/12/05/a-letter-to-nigerian-men-things-you-should-know-about-women/


who get time to read article? when we all know that a lady's "No" means "Yes!"


Not Always   Grin
Posted: at 14-12-2009 05:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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