MY BOSS IS OBSSESED WITH ME (Page 2)

Guy if u don't feel anything 4 her, don't give in. As for ur job let God take control.

Posted: at 13-08-2008 11:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Your story is very confusing.  She tells you everything about her, but yet you keep wondering what kind of person she is. 

You have worked her for many years and you still do not know her.  You claim that she has asked you to have an affair with her and she has also asked for a secret marriage.

You state that she is four years older than you.  It should not make any difference where age is concerned.  She is not that much older.  She has not reached the cougar stage.

You state that she came to your house one late evening, but nothing happened between you and her.

Possibilities:
She is lonely. 
She is in love with you.
She may be harassing you segxwally and because she is a person in authority, you may be scared of losing your job.  If this is the case truthfully, then report her to persons higher than her.

If you like her, have a good conversation with her and find out what type of relationship that you wish to have with her, and then both of you will come to a mutual agreement.

Your boss deserves to have somebody in her life.  It is time that you become honest and let her know if you are genuinely interested.

There are lots of men that wish to be in your shoes.

Remain blessed.

Posted: at 13-08-2008 11:40 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

a bro>>>  see make i tell you. if she wan marry u make she let u know and if u like her sit her down follow her yan. if not 1.u go lose ur job. 2. the love u no go see 3.   many more dey come

so talk with her and lets know what she will say. abi no be so?

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Posted: at 14-08-2008 12:01 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

just take i easy with her. and keep your cool

Posted: at 14-08-2008 12:29 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Take your time while making this kind of decision. The age differential is just four yrs and to me, that ain't too bad....but if u're able to discover that she's for real and have d kind of respect a lady should have for her man, then do it. U may get connected by her, quit working with her and start doing your thing (as in another work) 'cos if u ain't brilliant, she's not gonna have a damn feeling for ur ass. What really matter in any relationship is happiness. He who finds a wife (i mean a real wife) has found a good thing. U can rock and roll but respect her personality too. Cheers!

Posted: at 14-08-2008 01:33 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

4 ME I THINK I DONT THINK IT S A BIG DEAL,I MEAN U R A GUY HIA OK.DONT GET ME WRONG,WAT I AM JUST TRYING 2 SAY IS, DO IT IF U AINT GOT NO GF BT IF U DONT WANNA CHEAT ON HER,TELL UR BOSS 2 GET D FORK OFF AYT

Posted: at 14-08-2008 03:44 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

last time i checked d constitution there was freedom of obsession...


feel free 2 b obsessed with her bank statement...

Posted: at 14-08-2008 08:18 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hey, I think you have the option to accept or reject the offer. Do it if you think it's right. You're a man. Do your thing man. Remember if it's going to earn you any good do it, na your right.

Posted: at 15-08-2008 09:27 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

so its his thing to be kolobo-ing with any woman dat bats her eyelid at him?


na so some of una in d process of being men end up sleeping with  mammy water and winch!

Posted: at 15-08-2008 06:51 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

He should only go with her if he is interested in marrying her.  She has already laid her cards on the table with regards to what she desires in this relationship.  He should not get involved if he is not willing to offer her what she wants.

Posted: at 15-08-2008 11:01 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming