There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her. She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman. The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians). She met her man in the same church. They were both virgins based on their Christian values - No sex before wedding. After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church. She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses. "I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes" "Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God" "Blah blah" The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened. That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter). This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others. She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin. Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues. The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family. Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else. To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from? The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship. Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying."
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Posted: at 5-10-2015 03:45 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
"To cut the story short" you cut the long story short, alright. Anyways, these are all the things that are wrong with waiting before boning. You might get a wife with terrible illnesses downstairs or a douche with a small diick. Bone your fiance/fiancee before marriage oo, so that una go know weather una dey compatible.
Posted: at 5-10-2015 03:56 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Its not advisable cus u need to know ur partners segxwal orientation b4 marriage for two of u to enjoy ur marriage segxwally so there will be not cheat... Cus some collapse marriage is cus of either husband or wife not satisfying his or her partner's segxwal urge then making it for either of em to seek it anywhere they can found it.
Posted: at 5-10-2015 03:56 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
My take is .... We should draw the line between A WEDDING CEREMONY and MARRIAGE we sometimes confuse both words
and in our ignorance, we are actually advocating SEX AFTER A WEDDING CEREMONY .... As being right
marriage means the willful joyful harmony that exists among two individuals of different sex that results in an upward spiritual and inner striving and enoblement
the WEDDING BEING AN EARTHLY SOCIAL ACTIVITY
but MARRIAGE HAPPENS BEFORE THE WEDDING ... SOMETIMES AFTER ... MOST TIMES NEVER ... Some people are wedded and not MARRIED
Posted: at 5-10-2015 03:58 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
very funny....religious people and their crazy believes...would you buy a car without test driving it?...would you enter a plane if you know that the pilot has never flown a plane before?...would you have brain surgery from a doctor that has never had surgery before...why then would you marry a woman that has never had sex before?... Regardless of what these religious fraudster(pastors) claims,sex is very very important in a committed relationship. Your religious believes should not cloud your ability to think rationally....You must have as much sex as you can before marriage. You must confirm that things are functioning properly and also that there is compatibility with size and performance...open your eyes.
Posted: at 5-10-2015 04:15 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
What the woman failed to realise is that u have the right to call off a marriage built on deceit. How can he deceive her in one of the most vital aspects of marriage.?? That is wickedness of the highest order. She should have walked out of the marriage that instant...
Posted: at 5-10-2015 04:30 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
Procreation is just one of the 3 things that abound in marriage. For a man who knows that he cannot perform securely, as a result of impotence, he has deceived his faithful wife. The marriage will be invalid as a result of this deception if the woman insists she wants to produce offspring in her life time. Of course, unless the impotent condition can be put right.
Posted: at 5-10-2015 04:51 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Serious things, So what if one is testing the engine and during the hardcore sex one dies. What will happen. Heaven or Hell. I'm not married yet but want to do it right. this is really a hard one. I'm not a virgin and I fornicate big time but also need to stop to avoid having a child out of wedlock cos that's another issue again
Posted: at 5-10-2015 04:54 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
livingstone80 at 5-10-2015 06:34 PM (8 years ago) (m)
the biggest problem the world have now,is because we dont believe GOD AND we dont know who is our FATHER IN HEAVEN!if we believe GOD in real and obeys HIM,HE WILL GIVE us our partner and after marriage,we will enjoy ourselves segxwally.have you hear in bible days people who believe in GOD LIKE,Abraham,Issac,MOSES,ELIJAH AND SO ON have problem in sex with their wife?so having sex before marriage is not good in eyes of OUR GOD ALMIGHTY!
Posted: at 5-10-2015 06:34 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
livingstone80 at 5-10-2015 06:35 PM (8 years ago) (m)
the biggest problem the world have now,is because we dont believe GOD AND we dont know who is our FATHER IN HEAVEN!if we believe GOD in real and obeys HIM,HE WILL GIVE us our partner and after marriage,we will enjoy ourselves segxwally.have you hear in bible days who believe in GOD LIKE,Abraham,Issac,MOSES,ELIJAH AND SO ON have problem in sex with their wife?so having sex before marriage is not good in eyes of OUR GOD ALMIGHTY!
Posted: at 5-10-2015 06:35 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
Does he have ED (erectile dysfunction) or he is completely impotent? Now that the story has exposed the secret, I hope the pastors and medical personnel (including herbal remedies) would help both the wife and husband. If they have faith, they could command Kilimanjaro mountain to move from Tanzania to Aso Rock, Abuja. I hope she is not too old to have babies, even IVF (in vitro fertilization).
Posted: at 5-10-2015 06:53 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sonofman25 at 5-10-2015 08:02 PM (8 years ago) (m)
People and there way of life, we av all forgotten it all abt God. In d days of our four father's dere was nothing like sex before marriage to even talk to d one u love u av to go tru someone, I no many will say so many negative things abt dis but come to think of it, it's true dat we r more clever, wiser, knowledge etc but were as all d wisdom, knowledge taken us too our marriage don't last like dat of our father who don't av sex before marriage, dere family is more productive Dan ours (children) 1 out of 1000 have reproductive problem but now it 1 out of 10 have this problem, y cus during test driving accident can happen, imagine 10 guy testing one girl hmm mm smh.
Posted: at 5-10-2015 08:02 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
allenspike at 5-10-2015 08:28 PM (8 years ago) (m)
Religiously it's not advisable, but the fact that we are in a despoiling atmosphere, it's no longer news that couple have sex before marriage as to strengthen their impetus for sex and to discover if they are both congruent.
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