Why do women try to make men feel quilty?

Date: 18-01-2010 5:20 pm (15 years ago) | Author: PRINCE OBINECHE
- at 18-01-2010 05:20 PM (15 years ago)
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If a woman feels hurt through something said or done by a man, why does she try to make the man feel guilty for it?

If your feelings are the result of external circumstances, or what people say about you, how can you direct your life in a constructive way? A man might be totally clueless that's he's done anything wrong, yet he's given the third degree as though he's committed the unpardonable sin, is that fair?

No one should make another person responsible for how they feel, since everyone has the ability to control what they feel.

If a person refuses to accept responsibility for their feelings, and learn how to control what they feel, they're nothing more than a leaf in the wind, at the whim of circumstances - like a puppet on a string.

Are you willing to acknowledge that your feelings are your own and that they’re entirely your responsibility? Trying to make a man guilty for how you feel is just plain wrong...

Posted: at 18-01-2010 05:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- dirtykid at 18-01-2010 06:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Becos we 're men.. we must take all the blame for anything,, They believe Men dont have feelings and Men dont feel pains, also Men shouldnt say how they feel. every bad situation in relationship is the Men's cause.

The answer is becos U're Man!!
Posted: at 18-01-2010 06:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 18-01-2010 07:18 PM (15 years ago)
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Women r weaker vessel so there is a great possibilies dat a man will end up hurtin her feelings. She hve to express it to her so dat he can b caution next tm. Is another way for both parties to learn how to strengthen the r/ship from diff perspectives. On the other hand, d lady should b strong and avoid makin a big deal out of nothing. Men get hurt too bt i hate when they hve hot temper.
Posted: at 18-01-2010 07:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 18-01-2010 08:31 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 18-01-2010 07:18 PM
Women r weaker vessel so there is a great possibilies dat a man will end up hurtin her feelings. She hve to express it to her so dat he can b caution next tm. Is another way for both parties to learn how to strengthen the r/ship from diff perspectives. On the other hand, d lady should b strong and avoid makin a big deal out of nothing. Men get hurt too bt i hate when they hve hot temper.


is it the kind of weaker vessel that eliminate Samson ( Delilah) or the type that took all wisdom of great solomon and make David to committ murder.

Forget talk my dear Beauti.. Women are the strongest Vessel ever built on mother earth.. the worst ones are those type that behave as if they cant kill ant. cheii na dem they finish man, put inside pocket  Grin Grin Grin slow and steady is their 2nd name.  Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 18-01-2010 08:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- petmanuel4loura at 21-02-2012 04:59 PM (13 years ago)
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interesting
Posted: at 21-02-2012 04:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lertipha at 21-02-2012 05:05 PM (13 years ago)
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 Smiley
Posted: at 21-02-2012 05:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 21-02-2012 05:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 18-01-2010 06:33 PM
Becos we 're men.. we must take all the blame for anything,, They believe Men dont have feelings and Men dont feel pains, also Men shouldnt say how they feel. every bad situation in relationship is the Men's cause.

The answer is becos U're Man!!
Posted: at 21-02-2012 05:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 21-02-2012 05:12 PM (13 years ago)
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same reasons men want women to feel guilty
Posted: at 21-02-2012 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- trolling at 21-02-2012 05:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 18-01-2010 08:31 PM

is it the kind of weaker vessel that eliminate Samson ( Delilah) or the type that took all wisdom of great solomon and make David to committ murder.

Forget talk my dear Beauti.. Women are the strongest Vessel ever built on mother earth.. the worst ones are those type that behave as if they cant kill ant. cheii na dem they finish man, put inside pocket  Grin Grin Grin slow and steady is their 2nd name.  Cheesy Cheesy
u see dat one talk dorti pikin, sometimes as yr mind dirty reach, something clean still dey come out,..anyways
they use our flesh or emotions,  which is their their best friend or nature to weaken us or weaken a man who can put his emotions in check.
Posted: at 21-02-2012 05:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- katung44 at 18-06-2012 04:54 AM (12 years ago)
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A Man's weak point, no matter how corrupt he is, is his conscience. that is why women usually use it as a weapon to get their way. If the Man is wrong, they know that his pride will not let him apologize, so they use his conscience against him. Sometimes, even when there is no wrongdoing here, they still use the conscience strategy to make the Man feel guilty about not giving them what they want. Like when they want the Guy to buy something for them which is rather expensive, they make you feel stingy when you are reluctant or tell him about what their friend's husband or boyfriend bought which is more expensive and you do not want to buy 'this little thing' they requested for.
Posted: at 18-06-2012 04:54 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 18-06-2012 06:36 AM (12 years ago)
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i see Roll Eyes
Posted: at 18-06-2012 06:36 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dareper at 30-08-2015 06:33 PM (9 years ago)
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Cus they think they re always right.
Posted: at 30-08-2015 06:33 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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