How to Pick Up Girls at Parties - Be the Alpha Male

So you want to know how to pick up girls at parties? Hooking up with a hot girl at a party can be super easy if you follow these great tips.

1. Become The Prize

Place enough value on yourself that you are the one being pursued by girls. Make sure you have enough confidence that girls are after you so aren't always the one chasing them. Be the alpha male that girls are attracted to by being the prize in this game.

2. Choose To Be Choosy

Don't just settle for the first girl you talk to. Be picky and know exactly what it is that you want out of a girl. You need to have the attitude that you are the one choosing them...not vice versa. It is always a good idea to be selective in this game.

3. Dress A Bit Better Than Your Guy Friends

Take a look at what your buddies are wearing and try to one-up them just a notch. Don't go overboard so that you look out of place. I have personally asked women what are the main things that they first notice on a man they tell me (in no particular order): nice shoes, clean fingernails (keep them short, guys), and a man's wrist watch. You don't have to spend a lot of money to look your best.

4. Be The Interesting Guy

Women are after a man that is fun and intriguing to talk with. Do your best to keep up on events (and consider avoiding politics) and also try keeping up on the latest celebrity gossip. Almost all women read celebrity gossip magazines. Listen to her and talk to her about things she likes.

5. Flirt & Ignore

If you like a girl, try this. Flirt with her for a bit, then straight up ignore her. This tactic drives women crazy and they always want what they can't have. Mixing it up between being "hot" and "cold" to her will keep the entire game fun. You are at a party so go talk and flirt with other women. She will notice for sure!