Please I urgently need your advice. I am 27 years dating a 29 year old. My boyfriend of seven and a half years has just quite the relationship just because I went out with another guy (nothing happened o!) The jist is that my guy has been having affairs with other ladies now for awhile. Our relationship was becoming old and these days i am barely happy when I am with him.Moreover, he has affairs with other ladies and says its out of weakness. Actually, what made me go out with the other guy was that I playfully mentioned to him about this guy that I have been chating with on the internet and my boyfriend beat me up. He later confessed that he did it out of frustration. He says that it reminded him of him and other girls. I am really fed up with the relationship, which was on its way to the alter before now..... Please give your opinion, but don't judge 'cos I do not
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest c
Posted: at 13-08-2008 06:11 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Sillyjokker at 13-08-2008 06:37 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Sillyjokker on 13-08-2008 06:11 PM
Hi house,
Please I urgently need your advice. I am 27 years dating a 29 year old. We have been together for seven and a half years. Now he quites the relationship just because I went out with another guy (Imagine...nothing happened o!) The jist is that my guy has been having really intimate affairs with other ladies now for awhile. Our relationship was becoming old and and unhappy. So I decided to make my self happy by giving another guy a chance(after seven years)This guy was loving....It was just like the way my boyfriend treated me the time we initially started dating. Moreover, my boyfriend has had affairs with other ladies and says its out of weakness. Actually, what made me go out with the other guy was that I playfully mentioned to him about this guy that I have been chatting with on the internet and my boyfriend beat me up. He later confessed that he did it out of frustration. He says that it reminded him of his escapes with other girls. I am really fed up with the relationship, which was on its way to the alter before now..... Please give your opinion, but don't judge 'cos I do not think its anybody's fault. Probably a case of long term courtship gone sore.....
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"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest c
Posted: at 13-08-2008 06:37 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
walerian at 14-08-2008 10:58 AM (16 years ago) (m)
i tink u n ur guy are not serious abt ur relationship. wen both of u r cheatin on 1 another, i dont see how the will work. u told him u went out wit sm guy but notin happened and u expect him to believe dat? he also follow gurls around which u know. pls, dis is absurd. do wat pleases u gurl.
Posted: at 14-08-2008 10:58 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Please I urgently need your advice. I am 27 years dating a 29 year old. My boyfriend of seven and a half years has just quite the relationship just because I went out with another guy (nothing happened o!) The jist is that my guy has been having affairs with other ladies now for awhile. Our relationship was becoming old and these days i am barely happy when I am with him.Moreover, he has affairs with other ladies and says its out of weakness. Actually, what made me go out with the other guy was that I playfully mentioned to him about this guy that I have been chating with on the internet and my boyfriend beat me up. He later confessed that he did it out of frustration. He says that it reminded him of him and other girls. I am really fed up with the relationship, which was on its way to the alter before now..... Please give your opinion, but don't judge 'cos I do not
For your bf to quit d relatnship jus bcus of a flimsy xcuse 'may' imply dat he is in another relatnship and u gave him d best opportunity 2 turn d blame around, so my advice 2 u galfrnd is 2 stay put, dnt go begging him, am sure if he is really meant to b urs he wil cum back and if nt plsssss move on wt ur life cus u re nt getting younger.
Posted: at 14-08-2008 11:18 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Well, if u ask me, l'll say dat guy is damn self-centered and possessive He's the kinda guy dat believes Men have the right to cheat, but women don't cos they have to maintain integrity
lt's been a Long relationship and you're prob'ly thinking it'll be dumb to leave now, and yea, a lot of people already know about u two, l presume.
Well, l've come to discover dat it's never too late to start all over, especially when u're being Cheated on
Yes, u might also have ur faults (which l believe are some of the reasons for his bad behaviour) but, if dat guy can cheat on u and not deny it, my girl, it will a be a very "eventful" Marriage Life. Are u willing to put up with dat?
**** l think he loves u tho, but not a good enuff Love, there's somethin better out there, remember ur life is still yours
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 14-08-2008 01:51 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Richiemontana at 16-08-2008 09:44 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Wot is d use of salt wen it has lost its taste?..... I feel ur pain girl....it's one of dose minus in relationships ....d truth is even if u get married to dis guy...he'll continue to cheat on u .......and to tink dat u knew he was cheating on u all along & u just kept quiet...i guess u enjoyed been cheated on.... u need to move on....maybe wit d guy dat treats u right
Posted: at 16-08-2008 09:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I think you are too old to be playing games (and lying) like this. If your boyfriend of 7yrs, this 29 year old man, is not serious about your relationship and still (at his age) running around with women, leave him the hell alone. What exactly are you waiting for? For y'all to get married.....and trust me he will still continue to do this. After 7yrs he is comfort (his element) in treating you like this and you ahve allowed it for this long, now you are tired of it and want to scoop down to his level...and play even. This is a long time coming...break it off.
You can't define me; I break the mold I speak my mind, don't do what I'm told I don't fake it, I co
Posted: at 16-08-2008 10:14 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
philomena87 at 17-08-2008 01:17 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Ihuoma on 16-08-2008 10:14 PM
I think you are too old to be playing games (and lying) like this. If your boyfriend of 7yrs, this 29 year old man, is not serious about your relationship and still (at his age) running around with women, leave him the hell alone. What exactly are you waiting for? For y'all to get married.....and trust me he will still continue to do this. After 7yrs he is comfort (his element) in treating you like this and you ahve allowed it for this long, now you are tired of it and want to scoop down to his level...and play even. This is a long time coming...break it off.
yea i see sense in tat
Posted: at 17-08-2008 01:17 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Please I urgently need your advice. I am 27 years dating a 29 year old. My boyfriend of seven and a half years has just quite the relationship just because I went out with another guy (nothing happened o!) The jist is that my guy has been having affairs with other ladies now for awhile. Our relationship was becoming old and these days i am barely happy when I am with him.Moreover, he has affairs with other ladies and says its out of weakness. Actually, what made me go out with the other guy was that I playfully mentioned to him about this guy that I have been chating with on the internet and my boyfriend beat me up. He later confessed that he did it out of frustration. He says that it reminded him of him and other girls. I am really fed up with the relationship, which was on its way to the alter before now..... Please give your opinion, but don't judge 'cos I do not
It looks like both of you are now looking at yourselves as mere friends and not lovers............both of you need to sit down and be realistic on whether to rekindle your former love or quit. Its obvious that you both have lost the ''heat'' for each other and are only taking yourselves for granted.
Posted: at 17-08-2008 03:50 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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