A Girl is browsing my spouse seriously...

Date: 05-02-2010 11:05 am (14 years ago) | Author: Gloria
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- at 5-02-2010 11:05 AM (14 years ago)
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 Smiley :'(
I will really appreciate it if i can get an urgent answer cos am about to do something funny and here is my story...

I was at my spouse's house dat faithful evening when she called so i felt is one of those calls 4rm mayb old friends or family cos he sounded so friendly dat i just didnt bother to ask who called cos i trust him but i remember d time she called. The next day we just arrive from evening Mass when she called bcos i was close to where d phone was kept so i could easily see who called i didnt ask him cos i expected him 2say it but since he didnt talk i just kept mute. I joined a site and 2my greatest surprise he is also there and i felt so pls see him there. So i always drop comments on his wall anytime i visit so i visited as usual and to my greatest surprise i saw a girl's mgs on his wall telling she is in lagos dat dey should hook up so i dialled no on my phone 2deliver her mgs 2him but d full names came out pulp & plain on my phone. It was chatting girl dats always calling him in d nite so i confronted him at first he lied dat he does nt knw her so i reguested 4his phone and he gave me d new phone but i refused it i took his old where all nos where stored as soon as i dialled d same no came up and he said he didnt realise he had d no in his phone dat she is one of dos girls! As i write dis am about to do something very nasty unless i hear 4rm someone soon cos i trusted him so much and he kept on hurting me. Our Formal introduction and wedding plan is coming shortly up in a month time and am really bothered since i can't tell anyone in my house about dis experience cos my heart aches each time i remember ow it started.I am really worried rite now... Someone pls talk 2me!
 

Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:05 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 5-02-2010 11:12 AM (14 years ago)
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Ur working Urself up.If U do anything crazy U'l be affected by the outcome and as crazy begets crazy I doubt that will be in Ur favour.

Calm down and see t this way, some other girl has Ur man's attention and Ur about to become a woman and his wife. Would U rather sit there and get mad cos it's happening or would U maturedly show her who's boss and steal Ur man's attenton back from the other girl?
Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:12 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Priceless-jewel at 5-02-2010 11:16 AM (14 years ago)
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Dis is kinda serious
Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- glokent at 5-02-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago)
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A girl is browsing my spouse seriously- Pls d
by glokent on Friday, February 5th 2010, 10:52 AM
I will really appreciate it if i can get an urgent answer cos am about to do something funny and here is my story...

I was at my spouse's house dat faithful evening when she called so i felt is one of those calls 4rm mayb old friends or family cos he sounded so friendly dat i just didnt bother to ask who called cos i trust him but i remember d time she called. The next day we just arrive from evening Mass when she called bcos i was close to where d phone was kept so i could easily see who called i didnt ask him cos i expected him 2say it but since he didnt talk i just kept mute. I joined a site and 2my greatest surprise he is also there and i felt so pls see him there. So i always drop comments on his wall anytime i visit so i visited as usual and to my greatest surprise i saw a girl's mgs on his wall telling she is in lagos dat dey should hook up so i dialled no on my phone 2deliver her mgs 2him but d full names came out pulp & plain on my phone. It was chatting girl dats always calling him in d nite so i confronted him at first he lied dat he does nt knw her so i reguested 4his phone and he gave me d new phone but i refused it i took his old where all nos where stored as soon as i dialled d same no came up and he said he didnt realise he had d no in his phone dat she is one of dos girls! As i write dis am about to do something very nasty unless i hear 4rm someone soon cos i trusted him so much and he kept on hurting me. Our Formal introduction and wedding plan is coming shortly up in a month time and am really bothered since i can't tell anyone in my house about dis experience cos my heart aches each time i remember ow it started.I am really worried rite now... Someone pls talk 2me!
 

Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- glokent at 5-02-2010 11:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: glokent on  5-02-2010 11:36 AM
A girl is browsing my spouse seriously- Pls d
by glokent on Friday, February 5th 2010, 10:52 AM
I will really appreciate it if i can get an urgent answer cos am about to do something funny and here is my story...

I was at my spouse's house dat faithful evening when she called so i felt is one of those calls 4rm mayb old friends or family cos he sounded so friendly dat i just didnt bother to ask who called cos i trust him but i remember d time she called. The next day we just arrive from evening Mass when she called bcos i was close to where d phone was kept so i could easily see who called i didnt ask him cos i expected him 2say it but since he didnt talk i just kept mute. I joined a site and 2my greatest surprise he is also there and i felt so pls see him there. So i always drop comments on his wall anytime i visit so i visited as usual and to my greatest surprise i saw a girl's mgs on his wall telling she is in lagos dat dey should hook up so i dialled no on my phone 2deliver her mgs 2him but d full names came out pulp & plain on my phone. It was chatting girl dats always calling him in d nite so i confronted him at first he lied dat he does nt knw her so i reguested 4his phone and he gave me d new phone but i refused it i took his old where all nos where stored as soon as i dialled d same no came up and he said he didnt realise he had d no in his phone dat she is one of dos girls! As i write dis am about to do something very nasty unless i hear 4rm someone soon cos i trusted him so much and he kept on hurting me. Our Formal introduction and wedding plan is coming shortly up in a month time and am really bothered since i can't tell anyone in my house about dis experience cos my heart aches each time i remember ow it started.I am really worried rite now... Someone pls talk 2me!
 


Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:39 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 5-02-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago)
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How many times will U post this?
Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- glokent at 5-02-2010 11:45 AM (14 years ago)
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Thanks guys but i still need more words...
Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:45 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- oyez at 5-02-2010 11:45 AM (14 years ago)
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Take things easy. Things are not always what they seem to be.
Well, let's assume he is really as bad as it seems, then u should be glad. At least u got a chance to know the kinda man u'r dealing with b4 marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:45 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 5-02-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oyez on  5-02-2010 11:45 AM
Take things easy. Things are not always what they seem to be.
Well, let's assume he is really as bad as it seems, then u should be glad. At least u got a chance to know the kinda man u'r dealing with b4 marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Thats a good point. But @ poster, don't be too fast to do something funny, cos he hasn't done nothing yet. Yes, l would say he only cheated on you emotionally. However, talk to him and know why he want to do what was trying do perhaps there is something u aren't doing right. Who knows! Undecided

Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajose1 at 5-02-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago)
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Ochedun has spoken well, things are not always wat dey seem's 2 be........ U just hv 2 be calm, coz u knw it dat there are some ladies out there,dat are really hungry 4 men, u can be affected if u do anything crazy. Talk 2 him let him understand ur feelings .
Posted: at 5-02-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- anonymous2 at 5-02-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oyez on  5-02-2010 11:45 AM
Take things easy. Things are not always what they seem to be.
Well, let's assume he is really as bad as it seems, then u should be glad. At least u got a chance to know the kinda man u'r dealing with b4 marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
so u sabi advise shey?if u dey confessions now.....na rubbish u go begin talk  Grin

Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 5-02-2010 12:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: glokent on  5-02-2010 11:45 AM
Thanks guys but i still need more words...

First thing, u have to handle this maturely by having a conversation wit your guy, maybe he is sending you messages which u aint getting, he is seeking for your attention. you dont have issues with the girl in question, your issue is with your man so handle that fine and the girl will be history!
Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dguy at 5-02-2010 12:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Put everything on hold - I will be back with a response

brb

Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- anonymous2 at 5-02-2010 12:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  5-02-2010 12:04 PM
Put everything on hold - I will be back with a response

brb
ye! 2 hands up for 1 person jor.....headmaster is comin back wit a response lol....hope ure good? Grin Grin Angry

Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lilgemli at 5-02-2010 12:46 PM (14 years ago)
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hmnnnn,you av to get the fact right o,it might not b wat you think n it might b.do that first b4 proceeding on the next step
Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:46 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- whiteface at 5-02-2010 12:47 PM (14 years ago)
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 Shocked  Shocked
yeah is 1 of dos thing in life, but my advise to u is dt u've to diplomatic in handling ds kind of situation or else u'll loose him so b carefull, just pray over it any way, gud luck
Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:47 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- d_Stan at 5-02-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago)
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FIRSTLY, YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT MEN ARE POLYGAMIST IN NATURE, THIS IS MY ADVISE, CALL HIM ONE ON ONE WITHOUT ANY THIRD PARTY, TALK TO HIM RESPECTFULLY AND MATUREDLY WITH MORE LOVE,S, TRY TO KNOW THE REASON OF HIS ACTION, I BET YOU, IF HE,S A MAN THAT DO REALLY HAVE CONSCIENCE AND LOVE FOR YOU, HE WILL QUITE.
Posted: at 5-02-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- docreala at 5-02-2010 01:22 PM (14 years ago)
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they've said it all play maturelly
Posted: at 5-02-2010 01:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 5-02-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  5-02-2010 12:04 PM
Put everything on hold - I will be back with a response

brb
m excited and whatin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-02-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temytomysyn_ade at 5-02-2010 02:55 PM (14 years ago)
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whats gonnabe is gonna be, thats what i blv, so sure of one fact that if God has in his plans that you two be 2gedam then no fashioned plan of men will pull both apaart. be  yourself and dont giv in to threats from an online lover who is just out to scaare you. God is in control'
Posted: at 5-02-2010 02:55 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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