myragonza at 5-02-2010 02:59 PM (15 years ago) (f)  :'( I will really appreciate it if i can get an urgent answer cos am about to do something funny and here is my story... I was at my spouse's house dat faithful evening when she called so i felt is one of those calls 4rm mayb old friends or family cos he sounded so friendly dat i just didnt bother to ask who called cos i trust him but i remember d time she called. The next day we just arrive from evening Mass when she called bcos i was close to where d phone was kept so i could easily see who called i didnt ask him cos i expected him 2say it but since he didnt talk i just kept mute. I joined a site and 2my greatest surprise he is also there and i felt so pls see him there. So i always drop comments on his wall anytime i visit so i visited as usual and to my greatest surprise i saw a girl's mgs on his wall telling she is in lagos dat dey should hook up so i dialled no on my phone 2deliver her mgs 2him but d full names came out pulp & plain on my phone. It was chatting girl dats always calling him in d nite so i confronted him at first he lied dat he does nt knw her so i reguested 4his phone and he gave me d new phone but i refused it i took his old where all nos where stored as soon as i dialled d same no came up and he said he didnt realise he had d no in his phone dat she is one of dos girls! As i write dis am about to do something very nasty unless i hear 4rm someone soon cos i trusted him so much and he kept on hurting me. Our Formal introduction and wedding plan is coming shortly up in a month time and am really bothered since i can't tell anyone in my house about dis experience cos my heart aches each time i remember ow it started.I am really worried rite now... Someone pls talk 2me! pls tell us the nasty thing u wanna do .......
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akjasper at 5-02-2010 03:08 PM (15 years ago) (m) Kindly relax and talk things out wit Ur man , before teking dat oath of I DO , so dat things wld work nicely b/w U 2 . Remain blessed ! Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:08 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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nickyvil at 5-02-2010 03:11 PM (15 years ago) (m) just b ur self and behave matured.called him when he is very happy and discuss d issue with himb...u re free to do sometin drastic bcos of a man.lol Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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myragonza at 5-02-2010 03:37 PM (15 years ago) (f) circumcise him
Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:37 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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AlphaOscar at 5-02-2010 03:56 PM (15 years ago) (m) Well I'm not an expert here, but there is sense in what some people are saying. My advise is this: Call and talk to him about the issue when he is in his right senses and be very observant 'cos if he is an unrepentant A*#S, pls as difficult as it might be, walk away!, like that guy said, a broken relationship is better than a broken mariage 'cos if you go marry a wrong person, you are on your own. The decisions you take now and what you do now has a lot of effect on your future (Positively or Negatively). Above all ask for God's guidance. Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:56 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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@ Poster plz dnt do any nasty thing or else u will ave urself to blame, try to calm urself down, relax ur mind. let him know u're not happy wit him but dnt call him names. try to figure out d reason why he does dat, u can call him and express ur feelings towards his short-comings, am sure if he really love and wanted to marry u he will confess and apologise and also promise u dat he will not do dat again.. After promising u ask him to remove d lady's name from his friend list and delete d lady's nos from his fone. Plzz let PEACE reign. Posted: at 5-02-2010 04:04 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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humblej at 5-02-2010 04:11 PM (15 years ago) (m) My advice to u is not to act in a hurry or despise him for this subtle emotional hurt which he has caused U.
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people Posted: at 5-02-2010 04:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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wondas part 2 Posted: at 5-02-2010 04:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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meeki at 5-02-2010 04:23 PM (15 years ago) (m) glokent,u didnt tell us the nasty thing u wana do anyway.pls,may i ask u hw long u'v known this guy? Posted: at 5-02-2010 04:23 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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................. Posted: at 5-02-2010 04:28 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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prince316 at 5-02-2010 05:05 PM (15 years ago) (m) nothing bad na, go ahead an marry him.... he just want to play away match thats all... Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Akpan01 at 5-02-2010 05:06 PM (15 years ago) (f) ehhemm he go get some penalty ooo
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:06 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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emmyG at 5-02-2010 05:07 PM (15 years ago) (f) sorry Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:07 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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famous5 at 5-02-2010 05:19 PM (15 years ago) (m) take what ever answer he gives to i think dat will bring peace between both of u Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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prince316 at 5-02-2010 05:23 PM (15 years ago) (m) ehhemm he go get some penalty ooo
no penalty for away match oooooo Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hit and run follow... Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:26 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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prince316 at 5-02-2010 05:46 PM (15 years ago) (m) hit and run follow...
tell them d guy need need am... well if she wan do funy tin, she is free cos i still dey single and i no dey play away match Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:46 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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to make any silly decision you will regret later......Men self
You know you're the best when people you don't know hate you Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:48 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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prince316 at 5-02-2010 05:52 PM (15 years ago) (m) to make any silly decision you will regret later......Men self
wathing men do?  ? Posted: at 5-02-2010 05:52 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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erikaakpan at 5-02-2010 07:07 PM (15 years ago) (f) poster, wat is the nasty thing u wanna do? and since the guy lied to you, then u should be suspicious of him. if there is absolutely nothin going on between him and the other girl, he would not have lied about not knowin that girls number... if he cant come out and be honest to u before u go on with the wedding, the trust between u and him will be destroyed
Flirtation: Attention without intention. Posted: at 5-02-2010 07:07 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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