A case for pregnancy before marriage?

Date: 10-03-2010 10:29 pm (14 years ago) | Author: J. Omowonuola O.
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- at 10-03-2010 10:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures


Posted: at 10-03-2010 10:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Dguy at 11-03-2010 12:03 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

First time am hearing of this, used to think pre-marital pregnancy is an "abomination" - well according to religioys values

Posted: at 11-03-2010 12:03 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 11-03-2010 12:07 AM (14 years ago)
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never heard of it....
Posted: at 11-03-2010 12:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 11-03-2010 12:14 AM (14 years ago)
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Shawara!
Posted: at 11-03-2010 12:14 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 09:44 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 11-03-2010 12:14 AM
Shawara!



hehehehe.... ban gane ba?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 09:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wallas at 11-03-2010 09:48 AM (14 years ago)
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does yo shawa woteva answers the question?
Posted: at 11-03-2010 09:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 10:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 11-03-2010 12:03 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

First time am hearing of this, used to think pre-marital pregnancy is an "abomination" - well according to religioys values



I know the bible condemns premarital sex/pregnancy nonetheless, for some people, it is a realistic way of ensuring that their marriage is blessed with children.  This is even more so in the light of the infertility problems that members of both sexes are usually confronted with this days.



Posted: at 11-03-2010 10:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyez at 11-03-2010 10:31 AM (14 years ago)
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so what if the lady can't get pregnant, they'll divorce before the marriage?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 10:31 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Miss_precious at 11-03-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

heard of it..seen it...even practiced in my family...too bad

Posted: at 11-03-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- belindajustins at 11-03-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago)
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I don't agree to pregnancy out of wedlock
Posted: at 11-03-2010 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 11-03-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago)
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different strokse for different folks
Posted: at 11-03-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Miss_precious on 11-03-2010 10:35 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

heard of it..seen it...even practiced in my family...too bad



I think it's a stupid ideology too. However,  is it a sensible thing to do?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fabmic at 11-03-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 11-03-2010 12:03 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

First time am hearing of this, used to think pre-marital pregnancy is an "abomination" - well according to religioys values
my first time of hearing such.
Posted: at 11-03-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: fabmic on 11-03-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: dguy on 11-03-2010 12:03 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

First time am hearing of this, used to think pre-marital pregnancy is an "abomination" - well according to religioys values
my first time of hearing such.


Ok. So, what is your take as regards the topic?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 11-03-2010 01:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 11-03-2010 11:33 AM
Quote from: Miss_precious on 11-03-2010 10:35 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

heard of it..seen it...even practiced in my family...too bad



I think it's a stupid ideology too. However,  is it a sensible thing to do?

xplain please
Posted: at 11-03-2010 01:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: docreala on 11-03-2010 01:22 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 11-03-2010 11:33 AM
Quote from: Miss_precious on 11-03-2010 10:35 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 10-03-2010 10:29 PM
Nigerian society/families put pressures on ladies to get pregnant before wedlock, supposedly to avert a childless marriage.
Is it sensible for ladies to bow to those pressures

heard of it..seen it...even practiced in my family...too bad



I think it's a stupid ideology too. However,  is it a sensible thing to do?

xplain please



What am asking in essence is, should male/female fertility be tested by way of pregnancy or hospital fertility test before marriage?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 11-03-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago)
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ok,the hospital aint bad @ all
Posted: at 11-03-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 04:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: docreala on 11-03-2010 02:10 PM
ok,the hospital aint bad @ all


Are you  sure you as a man would go for fertility test?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 11-03-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago)
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hey! no probs @ all is for a gud reason. but am legit no doubt
Posted: at 11-03-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 11-03-2010 04:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: docreala on 11-03-2010 04:30 PM
hey! no probs @ all is for a gud reason. but am legit no doubt


Legit, as in?

Posted: at 11-03-2010 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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