A case for pregnancy before marriage? (Page 4)

Too be honest, I dont think it is a bad idea, there are many barren woman out, Have u all heard of the std chlamidia that makes women barren.

That is how a man will marry a woman and ten years hv pass no issues.

I will not say more, but it is a very good idea,

 Men get tested to if u hv low sperm,
Women get tested to see if your tube is block or infected.

Then start thinking of adopttion or IVF

Posted: at 14-03-2010 02:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

That is a fair point made, wot if the child dies after marriage and the woman has a long delay in gettin pregnant again.

There is a misconception that if a woman can't get pregnant, she's the one with medical problems in the marriage.

Different strokes for different folks. Personally, i dont think any woman should be degraded and made to think a guy only wants to marry her to become a baby making machine. If a man needs me to get pregnant in order to prove my love and commitment to him or his family that says a lot.

 I can understand a couple wanting to get pregnant before marriage because their parents are against the relationship.

Posted: at 14-03-2010 03:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

SO FAMILIES ARE SO STUPID

Posted: at 14-03-2010 05:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Passin

Posted: at 14-03-2010 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Every relationship is unique. Thanks for sharing.

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Posted: at 14-03-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Your tribe Know you personally

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Posted: at 14-03-2010 06:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

not all the familie have that idea of getting pregnant before wedding , as pointed out , and the issue of child bearing is in the hand of GOD ,no any human being can boast of his or her capacity or capability of getting a child at will ,except but for the mercy of the lord

Posted: at 14-03-2010 08:39 PM (14 years ago) | Grande Master

hellz no....that would be a marriage based on pressure, and to show if u have the ability to have a child...rather than a marriage based on the two of u...that is so gross.....so Nigeria has gone this far...eee ekwa?

Posted: at 14-03-2010 09:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

....and if she does not get pregnant, what will happen?

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Posted: at 15-03-2010 09:37 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Uhmm lets face the truth here, we are under so many pressures from here and there, religious says NO, Morality says NO, societal expectation says NO but think .... Can anyone stand the pressure of childlessness after Marriage. To me, if the couples had made up their minds, its far far far "advisable" to get pregnant before marriage to avert some unnecessary pressure.  I know a quite number of people that because of "what people would say" abort several times just to have the so called "flat-tummy/clean-slate" marriages but end up spending nights in vigils and so on all in the name of having a child .. so like someone had said earlier .. its different strokes .. but to me, I am a living and proud evidence of it .. hey! that's me so its individual decision.

Posted: at 15-03-2010 11:23 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie