Class as a barrier to your marriage (Page 5)

You talk about the woman loving you, but you do not talk about you loving her?

Posted: at 19-05-2010 05:19 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i beliv in true luv so much.

Posted: at 19-05-2010 06:49 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Omatu: Can you tell me why Nigerian women always look for rich men, instead of them looking for ways of becoming rich like the men?.  I will not wait for you to answer, the answer is greediness and most dont have ambition to be successful on their own but through men, which Nigerian men dont do, Nigerian men believe in trying hard and being successful, most times it work, some times it does not come out good.  In the western world, lot of women are stinkingly rich, and not through their men, and they dont come out from rich family, and they share this richness with their husbands.  Niger women na wa o.  That is why an average Nigerian men dont respect a Nigerian women, as we know they are greedy and self centered. getting married to a lady from the western world, they stay with you  when you have and when not, they will only leave you when you are cheating with other women, which is very understandable.  Many of them who came out from rich families fought their families to marry their partners who are from not so rich family, and at the end the family accept because they realised they are so much in love.
Nigerian ladies will never get respect from Nigerian men, as our women only look at us as the bank to draw cash., which we are, but we are getting wiser by the day

Posted: at 19-05-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

@1ola - I am not sure the type of Nigerian women that you have met in your life.  The Nigerian women that I have met in my life are ambitious, hard working, successful, educated, loving, caring, etc.  Nigerian women do seek for a good provider, which is a spiritual requirement, so I will never fault them for that.

You may have met greedy women in the past, but that is not the case with me.  In the western world, the women are the ones that marry the man, but in Nigeria, the man is the one that marries the woman.  In Nigeria, the man caters for the wedding, in the western world, the girls family caters for the wedding.  Not all girls in the western world are stinking rich.  Some come from rich family, and some work their way up the ladder either by hard work or via bottom and body skills in the western world.  The western world girl stays with the Nigerian man because she can control him by sucking his dick hard, telling him what to do, giving him money, etc.  The man is the recipient of the pampering in the western world, while in Nigeria, the women are the recipients of the pampering.  The Nigerian man gets respect from the Nigerian woman, while the Nigerian man receives control by the western world girl.  Many of the western world girls that fight their families are not always lucky to be taken back by their families until they leave the Nigerian man.  The western world family may give up sometimes if there are grand children.  They will try and take the children and raise the children themselves to ensure that they do not turn out like you the Nigerian man.  The children born by the western world woman rarely return back to Nigeria.  The children born by a Nigerian woman will definitely return back to Nigeria to visit, etc.  You may never respect Nigerian ladies, but there are a lot of Nigerian men that love Nigerian women and will do everything in their power to return home to marry a Nigerian girl.  At the end, the Nigerian woman will always remain the best, and the good Nigerian men know that.  The closest girl to a Nigerian woman may be some of the women from the Caribbean.

Here is back at you.  Waiting for your response.
 

Posted: at 19-05-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

who is pregnant?
 

Posted: at 20-05-2010 03:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

A lot of naija guys are marrying outside of naija because they need their papers from the western women.    Nigerian men perish in foreign prisons because many times they do not have good legal representation and they do not bother to study the law in order to protect and help themselves.  Most of Nigerian men marrying outside of  naija and marrying western women do not get to have their children.  The children become lost to naija as well as to the man.

Nigerian men that are slated for deportation can actually stop it if they have the proper representation that is required.  The truthful representer of Nigerian people does not have to be a trained legal lawyer.  All you need is intelligence to help those slated for deportation before they are deported.

Sow your seeds where you can harvest them.
 

Posted: at 20-05-2010 06:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i like this babe

Posted: at 20-05-2010 11:03 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 21-05-2010 03:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Sirs, u must permit my chronic electronic verbosity. I cant help it. More so that this is matter is of a little importance. Ha ah aha hah. Pardon my seriousness. Ha ha aa hahhaha.

Money! What is money? Is money an instrument of measurement? If it is, what are the things money measures? How precise are the readings arrived at after measurement with the so-called instrument called money?

Is money a reliable instrument to be employed in the measurement of an entity's morality?
Is money a reliable instrument to be employed in the measurement of an entity's wisdom?
Is money a reliable instrument to be employed in the measurement of an entity's resilience?
Is money a reliable instrument to be employed in the measurement of an entity's temperament?

Would one be a fool if one refuses to gauge an entity's morality, temperament, intelligent quotient, compatibility, discipline, humility, creativity, the 'ephemeral visual acceptability' and other spiritual parameters? Would one be a fool?

Money is important. Money is important. Money is important.

Am an e-talkative. I feel like talking today. Friends and Strangers, lets peruse the stats below. Imagine it is the documented measurements of a potential mate.

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Money = 95%.
Humility = 40%.
Intelligence Quotient = 30%
Visual Acceptability = 50%
Wisdom = 30%
Kindness = 50%
Morality = 50%
Discipline = 70%
Maturity = 40%
Communication Skill = 40%


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Notice the 95% money. Would that blind you? Now it is on virtual paper. It sure doesn't look like it can blind u, right?
Depending on you, it can. The Rolls, the gold, the fancy cloths, the talk, etc, they can entrance and meta-morph u into a first class mugu. Now that is class. Ha ah aha hahah.  Money can eclipse the other important factors.

Do u see that the only thing the above subject scores an A in, is that, which is easily lost and can be acquired? Do u know what it takes to learn how to listen to somebody else? Do u know what it takes to be kind? Do u know what it takes to have high moral values? Ha ha ah ahahahahh ahah.

Right now, Some millionaires are on their way down. Some are on their way up.

Now, for those of u who take class seriously, I say to u, "U are very foolish". Very foolish. I am sure some white chicks refused to date Obama or probably turned his down cause he was black. Ha ah ah aahhah.

My advice to women - (especially) -  is, it is alright to measure the Money. However, do not let it eclipse the true man. Most money-unconscious men become money-conscious after marriage. It is like some men become completely different cause their paradigm of money changes.

=+Look out for discipline.

=+Look out for honesty.[believe u me, u dont want ur kids being insulted in school cause their dad got picked up by the EFCC. U may think it is still en-vogue to steal and flaunt Nigeria's money. It is slowly changing. A time may come in this country were people may shy from family's that have individuals that looted our money. A time may come when being married to some politicians off-spring may be a drawback. This is life. There are no promises.]

=+Look out for Compatibility.

=+Look out for Communicability.

=+Look out for all the good things that money cant buy.


@Friends and @Strangers, me electronic flippancy has become. What it has become, I dont know. However, it was self-educating for me and self-reminding for me to write this few words. Pardon my susceptibility to unreservedly express my opinion. Forgive me, sirs.

I must thank u for being a reader.
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U can be bill-gates daughter. U can have more class than the Queen of England. U can be as popular as Oprah Winfrey. If u don't like reading and u don't like learning, u are not the one. If u think just cause u are fine and daddy has money and u graduated from Harvard so it is alright to quit reading and learning and self-improvement, sorry, move to the next. Whats that Beyonce's song that u like so much? O00ooooOOh. h ehe he ehe. To the left, to the left? To the left. If I give u a chance, u will drag me into mediocrity and become the death of me. I want u to be the life of me not the death of me. He he eheheheh.

Should, I post this? Somebody out there loves reading. I guess.

Posted: at 21-05-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

@Agabs, well done to a certain extent only.  Read the whole thing, still not your gal

Posted: at 21-05-2010 10:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac