Recently, I read a forum post by a gal saying that though he had broken up, he wantd to be friends with his galfriend who had already got a new partner. wat do you think? Is this a good idea? D galfriend rejected the offer and one tends to agree with her.
A person enjoys many privileges during a relationship. We expect our partner to do many things for us and vice versa. After breaking up, these commitments are lost. If you become a friend with your ex partner, every small incident will remind you of the past. If like the girl mentioned above, your partner has gone into a new relationship, you may get into many awkward situations. Better to break up and forget the friendship part. Bury (asin put something in hole or d past behind) the whole thing and move on. Think about it.
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;)
Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 9-06-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Well,some say that if you're mature enough, u can handle a friendship with your ex,but honestly...it would be pretty difficult! Especially when there is still love from one side, it can be painful!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
you can if you want and it depends on what lead to the breakup, for me i try to be just a hello, hi friend after breaking up no serious attachment to the friendship......
Posted: at 10-06-2010 10:26 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I don't do friends after break-up o. That's just the beginning of confusion. I could do acquaintances; we talk like once in a year (probably in an sms). More than that, U don dey find Ur trouble; Esp when I'm in a new relationship.
Akoto e ge mlanyi ogo nenche'n.
Bush rat no dey forget him former house.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 11:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
princedafe at 10-06-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onchedu on 10-06-2010 11:23 AM
I don't do friends after break-up o. That's just the beginning of confusion. I could do acquaintances; we talk like once in a year (probably in an sms). More than that, U don dey find Ur trouble; Esp when I'm in a new relationship.
Akoto e ge mlanyi ogo nenche'n.
Bush rat no dey forget him former house.
I agree with 100% !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 10-06-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I don't do friends after break-up o. That's just the beginning of confusion. I could do acquaintances; we talk like once in a year (probably in an sms). More than that, U don dey find Ur trouble; Esp when I'm in a new relationship.
Akoto e ge mlanyi ogo nenche'n.
Bush rat no dey forget him former house.
Tanks u do well.
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;)
Posted: at 10-06-2010 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Everytin depends on d cause of d breakup.4 example myself nd my ex r vry gud frnds we even play lik we used 2 bt i jst try 2 avoid stayn alone wit him.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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onchedu
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