Friends After Breakup - Is That Good?

Date: 09-06-2010 7:06 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Riley Proxy
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- at 9-06-2010 07:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Recently, I read a forum post by a gal saying that though he had broken up, he wantd to be friends with his galfriend who had already got a new partner. wat do you think? Is this a good idea? D galfriend rejected the offer and one tends to agree with her.

A person enjoys many privileges during a relationship. We expect our partner to do many things for us and vice versa. After breaking up, these commitments are lost. If you become a friend with your ex partner, every small incident will remind you of the past. If like the girl mentioned above, your partner has gone into a new relationship, you may get into many awkward situations. Better to break up and forget the friendship part. Bury (asin put something in hole or d past behind) the whole thing and move on. Think about it.



Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Mr-World at 9-06-2010 07:15 PM (13 years ago)
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being friends depends on the situation that led to the break up

Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aliaaz at 9-06-2010 07:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mr-World on  9-06-2010 07:15 PM
being friends depends on the situation that led to the break up

okay fine.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 9-06-2010 07:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Well,some say that if you're mature enough, u can handle a friendship with your ex,but honestly...it would be pretty
difficult! Especially when there is still love from one side, it can be painful!

Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Mr-World at 9-06-2010 07:57 PM (13 years ago)
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it will be easy DEPENDING ON THE MATTER THAT LET TO SEPARATION

Posted: at 9-06-2010 07:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aliaaz at 9-06-2010 09:41 PM (13 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 9-06-2010 09:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 10-06-2010 12:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mr-World on  9-06-2010 07:15 PM
being friends depends on the situation that led to the break up
Posted: at 10-06-2010 12:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Micheall at 10-06-2010 07:26 AM (13 years ago)
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Mr world said it all
Posted: at 10-06-2010 07:26 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- slimromeo at 10-06-2010 08:50 AM (13 years ago)
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no friends after breakup, though it depends on what caused the breakup. Maybe mutual concent., then one decides to take a walk.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 08:50 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- arose at 10-06-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago)
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it is better to stay seperated then comin back as friends, cos u may not b able to keep memory of the past from flashin ur mind.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Agatex at 10-06-2010 10:26 AM (13 years ago)
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you can if you want and it depends on what lead to the breakup, for me i try to be just a hello, hi friend after breaking up no serious attachment to the friendship......
Posted: at 10-06-2010 10:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sesgylove at 10-06-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago)
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it better to just stay apart abi "wich type of friend wey cat wan do with rat if no be to chop am" anyway it dpends ooo
Posted: at 10-06-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 10-06-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago)
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I don't do friends after break-up o. That's just the beginning of confusion. I could do acquaintances; we talk like once in a year (probably in an sms). More than that, U don dey find Ur trouble; Esp when I'm in a new relationship.

Akoto e ge mlanyi ogo nenche'n.

Bush rat no dey forget him former house.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- princedafe at 10-06-2010 12:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 10-06-2010 11:23 AM
I don't do friends after break-up o. That's just the beginning of confusion. I could do acquaintances; we talk like once in a year (probably in an sms). More than that, U don dey find Ur trouble; Esp when I'm in a new relationship.

Akoto e ge mlanyi ogo nenche'n.

Bush rat no dey forget him former house.

I agree with 100% !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 10-06-2010 12:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aliaaz at 10-06-2010 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 10-06-2010 11:23 AM
I don't do friends after break-up o. That's just the beginning of confusion. I could do acquaintances; we talk like once in a year (probably in an sms). More than that, U don dey find Ur trouble; Esp when I'm in a new relationship.

Akoto e ge mlanyi ogo nenche'n.

Bush rat no dey forget him former house.

Tanks u do well.

Posted: at 10-06-2010 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aliaaz at 10-06-2010 01:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sesgylove on 10-06-2010 10:40 AM
it better to just stay apart abi "wich type of friend wey cat wan do with rat if no be to chop am" anyway it dpends ooo

no shakin..

Posted: at 10-06-2010 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- faithaina at 10-06-2010 01:38 PM (13 years ago)
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it depends on what cause d break up.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aliaaz at 10-06-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: faithaina on 10-06-2010 01:38 PM
it depends on what cause d break up.

ok Gho$t...have heard u guyz.

Posted: at 10-06-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- May8 at 10-06-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Everytin depends on d cause of d breakup.4 example myself nd my ex r vry gud frnds we even play lik we used 2 bt i jst try 2 avoid stayn alone wit him.
Posted: at 10-06-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eve991 at 10-06-2010 04:50 PM (13 years ago)
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hmm tht 1 dey hard oh,
anyfin more than hi nd whatsup go lead to where una start..lol

Posted: at 10-06-2010 04:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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