Unreciprocated Love

Date: 09-06-2010 9:58 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Riley Proxy
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- at 9-06-2010 09:58 PM (13 years ago)
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You love him. You want him. You have tried to tell him, so many times, in different ways that you love him as much as you did in the beginning. Only he does not respond. And whenever he responds, he hurts you. Bcos you love him so much, and you value the close relation you shared, ur feel very sad that he has changed much. You ultimately feel very unhappy.  His selfishness will hurt you more, because once he was a decent person. Some where that decency must lurk. Now what should you do?’ The previous scene can be visualized by him, instead of her.

This is not a very common scenario, but quite common amongst couples, when one partner suddenly changes and stops responding to love. One partner decides to change the rules of the game and hurts the other partner. Makes him/her plead and then leaves him/her alone. If you are facing this situation, lets see what can be done.

The first step is acceptance that the other partner no longer loves you. It may sound unbelievable to you after many years of close relationship, but accept this truth. The second step is to stop hurting yourself. Don’t hurt yourself by revisiting what all you got for your love. The hurt will make you feel very sad. The third step is to look for someone who understands you right from day one. After separation, when you rejoin the dating scene, try to look for someone who will play on a level field with you. Till you get that person, focus on all your positive qualities and devote your time to do, what you could not because you were spending that time in loving your earlier partner.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 09:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Mr-World at 9-06-2010 10:08 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 9-06-2010 10:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 10-06-2010 12:22 AM (13 years ago)
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hhmmm....
Posted: at 10-06-2010 12:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- aliaaz at 10-06-2010 06:42 AM (13 years ago)
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good
Posted: at 10-06-2010 06:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- livingmodel at 10-06-2010 10:08 AM (13 years ago)
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Nice one poster
Posted: at 10-06-2010 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 11-06-2010 01:21 AM (13 years ago)
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passing..
Posted: at 11-06-2010 01:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 11-06-2010 08:22 AM (13 years ago)
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i dey come
Posted: at 11-06-2010 08:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-06-2010 08:51 AM (13 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 11-06-2010 08:51 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 11-06-2010 10:22 AM (13 years ago)
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to where
Posted: at 11-06-2010 10:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- faithaina at 11-06-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago)
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ok, good
Posted: at 11-06-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 11-06-2010 11:03 AM (13 years ago)
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Thanks, love doctor!
Posted: at 11-06-2010 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- aliaaz at 11-06-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 11-06-2010 11:03 AM
Thanks, love doctor!

Whew.
Posted: at 11-06-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ify4life at 11-06-2010 11:54 AM (13 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 11-06-2010 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Akpan01 at 11-06-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago)
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no time
Posted: at 11-06-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 11-06-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago)
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......
Posted: at 11-06-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 11-06-2010 05:18 PM (13 years ago)
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London fever
Posted: at 11-06-2010 05:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- rich_ekpo at 12-06-2010 12:09 AM (13 years ago)
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so what should i do now
Posted: at 12-06-2010 12:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ejovi at 12-06-2010 02:06 AM (13 years ago)
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Cool
Posted: at 12-06-2010 02:06 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ceejay58 at 12-06-2010 11:57 PM (13 years ago)
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passing again
Posted: at 12-06-2010 11:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Chyno at 13-06-2010 06:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Nice one 
Posted: at 13-06-2010 06:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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