Hmm my dear i get u...Let us not forget there r a lot of types of protection not only condoms...in a marriage life, or even if a woman is single the same way she suppose to protect herself...there r family planning...women has a lot type of protection which dey can use, as dey know usually men dont prefer to wear condom.....i can say till u r single and get bf even if u protect yaself against pregnancy never u allow ya bf to touch u without condom cause of the lot types of sicknesses...but when u r married, u can sit down and make a decision with ya husband together which protection is the best for u both.there r medicines u have to take daily or implant which is good for 3 years is deepens on u both planning.
My dear, we are talking mostly about Nigerian families, how many of these men would take their wives for such implants and why must it be just the woman's burden?.....Shouldnt our men be made to be responsible for their women (a part of them)?....Why would they just think of their own pleasure without considering their better-halves? .......We dont have to wait till we marry before we address this issue, becos it seems it is breaking families!......Women shouldnt be made to risk their lives becos they want to satisfy their men!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 22-06-2010 01:26 PM (13 years ago)  (f) If the man don't want to wear a condom ...let the woman wear it.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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This is another method,I think after sex they woman should getup immediately so the semen can flow out.it takes 30mins or more for semen to travel to her ovum or ovaries.
That is not even up to 45% effective.........she still have over 55% chance of getting pregnant......doesnt work!, think of something else!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 01:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) thats men my dear...dem like that, dey no mind only their satisfaction..thats why a woman has to be smart...even in naija there r possibilities for protection.and i can bet u...no married man go use condom with the wife...
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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If the man don't want to wear a condom ...let the woman wear it.
We know that the female condom is not as common as the male condom........so wont that still affect the men's "pleasure"? ( I am asking becos I dont know how it works)......and would the men allow their women wear it??........becos it seems they want 'skin-to-skin'...
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 22-06-2010 01:31 PM (13 years ago) (f) the only thing i can say this is 21 century women r mature and clever...we r responsible for our own health let us no whait for a man to protect cause dem usually selfish...we must protect our self as mature and independent women...
Since u know they are more clever and more mature than women nowadays...how about you ask them question..on how they space their children. Or how about we use their clever or method .
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "duron") duron at 22-06-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago) (m) FOR ME OOO, I DONT NEED COMDOMS TO SPACE MY KIDS... I DON DEY FOR THE GAME FOR LONG NOW, SO FOR ALL UNA WEY NO SABI, MAKE YOU DEY USE THE METHOD WEY GUY MEN'S DEY CALL COPTUS INTORUPTUS.. IS BETTER THAN CONDOM | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 01:40 PM (13 years ago) (f) i just tell u my own knowledge..guys and condom like water and fire even if dey mature and clever dey will still no like am max dey do it cause we force dem do it heheh
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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thats men my dear...dem like that, dey no mind only their satisfaction..thats why a woman has to be smart...even in naija there r possibilities for protection.and i can bet u...no married man go use condom with the wife...
Hmmm........I think we allow them get away with everything........If he can use it outside, then he use use it to protect me! two years ago one lady died while giving birth, she has taken in barely six months after the last child and she went through hell having the other child. All she needed was a long period of wait to recover well from the last child birth. Today, she is six feet down and the man she was trying to please is married to another woman!....A man that loves me would protect me!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 01:46 PM (13 years ago) (f) lemme tell u my own my dear my daughter was 3 months when i get my last pregnancy...it was very hard only 12 months between dem....after all these i decide to protect my own self...HOPEA...mu husby promise to use the technik u just sad....and see i got 4 pickin today....soooo
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Dejavu") Dejavu at 22-06-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) the above discuss have been rather too quick to crucify men for refusal to use condoms. the choice of child spacing method is largely informed by literacy not segxwality. women refuse condoms, same as some men will not take that option too. in a marriage, the parties involved are expected to be matured and conversant with the issues that surround sex & pregnancy. this knowledge will inform their choices at every given time. child spacing is good. if anyone ask me, it is designed for couples who cannot afford to take adequate pre & anti-natal cares. women can give birth to children every year if they well feed & catered for. The scene DP described is one of "Poorverty". May God not befit anyone here with such status. Amen anyone ? | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 01:48 PM (13 years ago) (f) u r right my lady A man that loves me would protect me!
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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lemme tell u my own my dear my daughter was 3 months when i get my last pregnancy...it was very hard only 12 months between dem....after all these i decide to protect my own self...HOPEA...mu husby promise to use the technik u just sad....and see i got 4 pickin today....soooo
LOL, you mean it didnt work?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 01:53 PM (13 years ago) (f) lemme tell u my own my dear my daughter was 3 months when i get my last pregnancy...it was very hard only 12 months between dem....after all these i decide to protect my own self...HOPEA...mu husby promise to use the technik u just sad....and see i got 4 pickin today....soooo
LOL, you mean it didnt work? exatly 
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Agatex") Agatex at 22-06-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) condoms with my wife? After all the no pleasure as a bachelor? no way. There're many birth control measures out there
Selfishness!........no one said you should use it all the time, but if your wife thinks it is her danger period and she could get pregnant, why wont you use the simple birth control measure called condom?.......you guys pay money and meet prostitutes out there and I hear they mostly demand you use condom, so why wont you do so if that means to protect your wife without negative side effects? yes the simplest and safest, why will she be the one taking the pills while you enjoy the bang? | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 22-06-2010 01:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) Birth control is not 100% effective.I think the woman should always keep track on her cycle and keep track of the days of her cycle so she can predict when is her ovulation and avoid sex during those days or if you do have sex during those time you should make sure your partner withdraws before ********...however,spacing a child is an important topic to discuess with your doctor about it... Meanwhile nowadays some women meet with their Dr and there is some like right some like that the doctor place inside her but it can still be remove if she decide to start having babies or to get pregnant.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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the above discuss have been rather too quick to crucify men for refusal to use condoms. the choice of child spacing method is largely informed by literacy not segxwality. women refuse condoms, same as some men will not take that option too.
in a marriage, the parties involved are expected to be matured and conversant with the issues that surround sex & pregnancy. this knowledge will inform their choices at every given time.
child spacing is good. if anyone ask me, it is designed for couples who cannot afford to take adequate pre & anti-natal cares. women can give birth to children every year if they well feed & catered for.
The scene DP described is one of "Poorverty". May God not befit anyone here with such status.
Amen anyone ?
I say a big AMEN to your prayer........ But remember I didnt know all these, that is why I am putting it forth here........Since women would bear the larger brunt if anything goes wrong, I think they would be willing to have their man use CD!...
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) men, women ,sex..must be always a trouble zone Respect and love echader be responsible for ya partner...and no be scared to talk about it...thats all
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 22-06-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) I know what to do if I want to space my children or whatever...
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 22-06-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 22-06-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) i trust u my lady:-)
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 22-06-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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