misshelly at 27-06-2010 12:55 AM (14 years ago) (f)
@ ceejay: can u please explain than cuz i didn't get what u were tryin to say @ pals, i had advice her to stay emotionally away to make the break up less painful, what that a good advice?
Posted: at 27-06-2010 12:55 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
ceejay58 at 27-06-2010 01:14 AM (14 years ago) (m)
have u tried talking to ur friend about this guy b/4? what was her reaction if u have?..
i 4 one feels it would do her a world of good if u can get her to see what she is about walking into b/4 it gets too late.
but if she wouldn't listen then it's her cross.... moreover there maybe sumfin she might have seen in the guy that gives her the confidence that she can handle the marriage.
guess it's kind of complicated here..
Posted: at 27-06-2010 01:14 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
misshelly at 27-06-2010 01:44 AM (14 years ago) (f)
yep, we had a querel in the begining cuz of this and she went telling her fam, that i don't want her happiness, but we have work things out now, but i don't really know how to help her anymore, cuz he is her first love
Posted: at 27-06-2010 01:44 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
ceejay58 at 27-06-2010 02:04 AM (14 years ago) (m)
oopppsss... her first love? how old is she anyways?
well it's very understandable - i mean the way she feels- this bn her first love u know?
but like i said b/4, it's her cross.. all u can do as a caring friend is to say ur mind and rest ur case. the final decision lies with her... i ve always felt that the best way to tackling things like these is to learn from the mistake of others. but at same time anyone who wouldn't wanna learn from other people's experiences should be allow to also swim thru the sea of life. all we can do is to positively hope and pray they make it thru....
and u ve also got to know when and where to draw the lines.... so they wont begin to see u as an enemy of progress.... this is Africa and Niaja in particular u know?
Posted: at 27-06-2010 02:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
misshelly at 28-06-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ceejay58 on 27-06-2010 02:04 AM
oopppsss... her first love? how old is she anyways?
well it's very understandable - i mean the way she feels- this bn her first love u know?
but like i said b/4, it's her cross.. all u can do as a caring friend is to say ur mind and rest ur case. the final decision lies with her... i ve always felt that the best way to tackling things like these is to learn from the mistake of others. but at same time anyone who wouldn't wanna learn from other people's experiences should be allow to also swim thru the sea of life. all we can do is to positively hope and pray they make it thru....
and u ve also got to know when and where to draw the lines.... so they wont begin to see u as an enemy of progress.... this is Africa and Niaja in particular u know?
she had boyfriends, but had just one love from childhood, for more follow my topic; childhood sweetheart, thank for your understanding and advice
Posted: at 28-06-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
solojaro at 28-06-2010 11:01 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: waco on 25-06-2010 09:11 AM
Well u either stay, enjoyed his stolen wealth and live in fear of unknown daily or U simply quit and have ur peace!
May be you are still enjoying the stolen wealth, or he is phyuking you very well, otherwise I see no reason why you should still be there. or may be you are waiting for the day you regrect being with him.so why not follow this advice as waco has told you and leave in peace. after all there are so many guys who can do better than him out there.
Posted: at 28-06-2010 11:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
misshelly at 28-06-2010 10:20 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: solojaro on 28-06-2010 11:01 AM
Quote from: waco on 25-06-2010 09:11 AM
Well u either stay, enjoyed his stolen wealth and live in fear of unknown daily or U simply quit and have ur peace!
May be you are still enjoying the stolen wealth, or he is phyuking you very well, otherwise I see no reason why you should still be there. or may be you are waiting for the day you regrect being with him.so why not follow this advice as waco has told you and leave in peace. after all there are so many guys who can do better than him out there.
must every thing be about sex, money with guyz? There are things like compatibility, real feelings, trust, and character, ok; maybe in this case, the choice of caharacter is bad, everything is not just about sex and how hard and faster it is
Posted: at 28-06-2010 10:20 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
If i happen to find myself involved with a guy i later discovered to be a 419, i will simply call it quits on the day i discover. It doesn't even matter whether he loves me or not. Infact, he would be lucky if i did not hand him over to the police.
FAKE PROFILES DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT, UNLESS PEOPLE HIDE BEHIND THEM TO SPIT VENOM. SHOW THE BOLDNESS OF A LION NEXT TIME......USE YOUR ORIGINAL PROFILE!!
Posted: at 28-06-2010 10:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
solojaro at 29-06-2010 08:03 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: wunzie on 28-06-2010 10:39 PM
If i happen to find myself involved with a guy i later discovered to be a 419, i will simply call it quits on the day i discover. It doesn't even matter whether he loves me or not. Infact, he would be lucky if i did not hand him over to the police.
poster, you hear! any 419 can never be the love of my life.
Posted: at 29-06-2010 08:03 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dupsy2smile at 29-06-2010 09:35 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Have u asked ur friend hw she wud feel if d guy in question dumps her, since u said he's a professional player? Though it hurts 2 decide 2 end a rlnship wit sum1 u stil luv, bt hurts d more if d oda prsn ends it, even u dnt luv him dat much. Also, wat if d guy is arrested, and imprsoned 4 years, wud she luv 2 be married 2 an ex-convict? What if he's 2 spend d rest of his life in prison? My dear, its nt worth it! If she marries him, I bet she'l wet her pillow 4 d rest of her life!
Posted: at 29-06-2010 09:35 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
u better stay away i mean vry far from tht guy and dt relationship be4 its too late for both of u especially u d girl becos u will suffer for wht u dnt no abt.i advice u stay away n look 4 somebody else gud guys r still out there lookin for guy girls who knows u might be lucky to get one of those gud guys.so try n see hw it works
Posted: at 29-06-2010 05:59 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
diplomatik at 30-06-2010 03:45 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: misshelly on 25-06-2010 09:03 AM
Gurlz if you know the love of your life is a 419 and don't really love you how will you break up with him?
Guyz if you know the guy your sister,aunty, nice, female relative is madly inlove with is a prof in de PP (professional player) game and above all his work is not right what will you do? and not forgetting she is honestly and totally in love with him
Best friend if you see your best friend now finally seteling down with one guy she truely love , but you all both known he is not good for him, he is toying with her emotion and duplicate lies like never before, he is in the profession of 419, but your gurl friend has come a long way with this guy, and if she leaves him, it will leave a negative mark in her life, how would you go about it?
Pals this is a matter of true love gone wrong, and everybody is in serious confussion, please serious and honest reaction
say whattt...just let him go man...no special effects...just drop that like bad goods
if he loved her thats a complete different story..i'll stand by my man 419 or not ...but since he don't then what the heck, up and leave jor.. no mind my mouth easier said than done
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 30-06-2010 03:45 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
misshelly at 30-06-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dupsy2smile on 29-06-2010 09:35 AM
Have u asked ur friend hw she wud feel if d guy in question dumps her, since u said he's a professional player? Though it hurts 2 decide 2 end a rlnship wit sum1 u stil luv, bt hurts d more if d oda prsn ends it, even u dnt luv him dat much. Also, wat if d guy is arrested, and imprsoned 4 years, wud she luv 2 be married 2 an ex-convict? What if he's 2 spend d rest of his life in prison? My dear, its nt worth it! If she marries him, I bet she'l wet her pillow 4 d rest of her life!
i think she will do something hurtful to her self if he dump her, but i have never dare to even suggest that, cuz, i and every one can see she really love him. i was the one bold enough to confront her and i knew how that went, i can understand the her feelings but i don't just understand or know how to help her through the heart break if it happens, she know that he is no good for her, but letting go is the prob.she is titanicly in love with him,
Posted: at 30-06-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
misshelly at 30-06-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: tessybj on 29-06-2010 05:59 PM
u better stay away i mean vry far from tht guy and dt relationship be4 its too late for both of u especially u d girl becos u will suffer for wht u dnt no abt.i advice u stay away n look 4 somebody else gud guys r still out there lookin for guy girls who knows u might be lucky to get one of those gud guys.so try n see hw it works
that would be a good advice coming from a good family member, but not from a good friends, i think there the family member close to her should come in, but that is a no go area, trying to get a good fam. to give her this advice. and u know European none like to put his or nose where they are not invited
Posted: at 30-06-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
misshelly at 30-06-2010 02:09 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: diplomatik on 30-06-2010 03:45 AM
Quote from: misshelly on 25-06-2010 09:03 AM
Gurlz if you know the love of your life is a 419 and don't really love you how will you break up with him?
Guyz if you know the guy your sister,aunty, nice, female relative is madly inlove with is a prof in de PP (professional player) game and above all his work is not right what will you do? and not forgetting she is honestly and totally in love with him
Best friend if you see your best friend now finally seteling down with one guy she truely love , but you all both known he is not good for him, he is toying with her emotion and duplicate lies like never before, he is in the profession of 419, but your gurl friend has come a long way with this guy, and if she leaves him, it will leave a negative mark in her life, how would you go about it?
Pals this is a matter of true love gone wrong, and everybody is in serious confussion, please serious and honest reaction
say whattt...just let him go man...no special effects...just drop that like bad goods
if he loved her thats a complete different story..i'll stand by my man 419 or not ...but since he don't then what the heck, up and leave jor.. no mind my mouth easier said than done
LOL, Anyway, u 've said it all, is easier said than done, but is now the other way round, she is the one truly in love i think he is not truly in love with her
Posted: at 30-06-2010 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
eagleseyez at 30-06-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) (m)
U know its unusual for a nigerian girl to quit a relationship wth a 419er they dont care where the money comes from they just want a taste of wealth
But since ur friend is quite different and she knows its dangerous for her to remain in the relationship then she should take to her heels before she gets implicated
Posted: at 30-06-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
waco thanks anyway, i am just frustrated with the situation, that's why i need more advice fro totally strangers not emotionally realted to her
I know it will hard to give up but let her put herself in the shoe of a newly wedded couple and the man die after two days of their wedding she will not kill herself she will find a nice guy better than that one and love him more
Posted: at 30-06-2010 02:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
livingmodel at 30-06-2010 03:22 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Tell ur friend to sit her bf down and talk to him. if the advice falls in deaf ear,she will walk away from that relationship because "He who live by sword will go by sword". she shouldn't involved in stolen items. Beside he didn't love her.
Posted: at 30-06-2010 03:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
misshelly
TRENDING GISTS 
...but since he don't then what the heck, up and leave jor.. no mind my mouth easier said than done 
i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
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