@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey... cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you! So you mean no guy understood what you meant? Sorry for the laughs at the start of the post----I found it stinkingly funny! Cos both couples will journey into a WORLD called MUGU WORLD. It seems that some ppl have taken it otherwise! Like I was arguing the love of a guy for his mom or something! It's not about that at all! If a guy doesn't love his mother, then what a girl should expect from such a man? Pheew!Complicated! Hahaha----you will never stop amusing me without knowing you are this funny Am I funny? True, I didn't knew it  Sure! I know you don't cos i can read from your mind what you think Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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GOOD NIGHT my dear Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you! So you mean no guy understood what you meant? Sorry for the laughs at the start of the post----I found it stinkingly funny! Cos both couples will journey into a WORLD called MUGU WORLD. It seems that some ppl have taken it otherwise! Like I was arguing the love of a guy for his mom or something! It's not about that at all! If a guy doesn't love his mother, then what a girl should expect from such a man? Pheew!Complicated! Hahaha----you will never stop amusing me without knowing you are this funny Am I funny? True, I didn't knew it  Sure! I know you don't cos i can read from your mind what you think Mind reader! You're dangerous! Thanks God I don't have anything to be ashamed of,there
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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GOOD NIGHT my dear
Good night, my smart friend!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hehe---Am I that Smart? I never knew until now---I got to log out cos I am fagged OUT and also ver very FAMISHED Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hehe---Am I that Smart? I never knew until now---I got to log out cos I am fagged OUT and also ver very FAMISHED
We learn new things every day! Even about ourselves! Go and feed yourself! Stay blessed!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Same to you----My Dearest friend/love Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Same to you----My Dearest friend/love
Stay blessed, and never be a mama's boy!
Live and let live! Posted: at 29-06-2010 07:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Mr-World at 29-06-2010 09:02 PM (14 years ago) (m) am fond of my mum and she`s fond of me, so does that make me a mommy`s boy?
TALK AM LISTENING!!! Posted: at 29-06-2010 09:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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am fond of my mum and she`s fond of me, so does that make me a mommy`s boy?
No! Only if you need her approval even for your fornication program with your wife
Live and let live! Posted: at 29-06-2010 09:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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mazi at 29-06-2010 10:42 PM (14 years ago) (m) Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
same way guys deal with daddy's girl Posted: at 29-06-2010 10:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
same way guys deal with daddy's girlIt's really different from that,trust me
Live and let live! Posted: at 29-06-2010 10:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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mazi at 29-06-2010 10:49 PM (14 years ago) (m) Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
same way guys deal with daddy's girlIt's really different from that,trust me so lets hear/read d difference Posted: at 29-06-2010 10:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
same way guys deal with daddy's girlIt's really different from that,trust me so lets hear/read d differenceThe number of girls who remain attached to their daddy even after they get married, it's really low comparing with mama's boys. How many guys did u hear complaining that theirs wives are running to their father before making any move, comparing with those guys with are doing that?
Live and let live! Posted: at 29-06-2010 10:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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mazi at 29-06-2010 11:01 PM (14 years ago) (m) Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
same way guys deal with daddy's girlIt's really different from that,trust me so lets hear/read d differenceThe number of girls who remain attached to their daddy even after they get married, it's really low comparing with mama's boys. How many guys did u hear complaining that theirs wives are running to their father before making any move, comparing with those guys with are doing that? i never see mama's boy b4 but i ve known and still know plenty daddy's girls Posted: at 29-06-2010 11:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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akjasper at 30-06-2010 01:18 AM (14 years ago) (m) Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
For the ladies . Posted: at 30-06-2010 01:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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diplomatik at 30-06-2010 03:12 AM (14 years ago) (f) Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
For the ladies . yes momma's boy
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  Posted: at 30-06-2010 03:12 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship with a mama's boy? You know, that kind of guy who forgot to cut the umbilical cord! And how you deal with you being number two to him?
same way guys deal with daddy's girlIt's really different from that,trust me so lets hear/read d differenceThe number of girls who remain attached to their daddy even after they get married, it's really low comparing with mama's boys. How many guys did u hear complaining that theirs wives are running to their father before making any move, comparing with those guys with are doing that? i never see mama's boy b4 but i ve known and still know plenty daddy's girlsYou must be kidding! It's full of guys who don't know how to cut the umbilical cord, not even when they are married, and with children! Do you how annoying can that be? An adult who is not able to stand for his own? That's ridiculous!
Live and let live! Posted: at 30-06-2010 08:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Mr-World at 4-07-2010 06:01 AM (14 years ago) (m) am fond of my mum and she`s fond of me, so does that make me a mommy`s boy?
No! Only if you need her approval even for your fornication program with your wife ok but sorry, Mr World ain`t married yet and not gonna marry in the next 7 years
TALK AM LISTENING!!! Posted: at 4-07-2010 06:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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am fond of my mum and she`s fond of me, so does that make me a mommy`s boy?
No! Only if you need her approval even for your fornication program with your wife ok but sorry, Mr World ain`t married yet and not gonna marry in the next 7 years That's ok,because mama's boy could give his girlfriend hard days too,not only when he's married
Live and let live! Posted: at 4-07-2010 06:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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