Mehhn... this is laughable
what is this thing wth mothers and daughter-inlaw
who's that woman that'll come up and tell me
to put her first before my mom?
U dnt hv to compare urself becos u can never
the mother and the same time the wife
Personally, no woman can be loved like my mom
Shikena!!!
Hm!I'm not arguing about how much a mother should be loved! A mother should be the most precious thing for everyone, but I'm referring to those guys who don't make a move without their mom's approval, and take their side against their lover,even if the mom is wrong
should be ex gratia...and the wife should not have a problem
wth that, Wives should learn to accept and love the mother-inlaw
like their own mother, that way their relationship will be smooth
dear i like ur comment on this... a woman shud rily luv momsy like her own...
Like tht d family is so sweet u know... | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "eagleseyez") eagleseyez at 28-06-2010 07:28 PM (14 years ago)  (m) me husband snatcher..thats ur hobbie now....where the hell is my dk...u can have cheating eagles    | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 28-06-2010 07:30 PM (14 years ago) (f) eagles is that u.....close ur mouth oo i almost didn't recognise u with ur cheating mask on 
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey... cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:31 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 28-06-2010 07:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) lol....lol...hahahahahaha mamas boy
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "eagleseyez") eagleseyez at 28-06-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) Mehhn... this is laughable
what is this thing wth mothers and daughter-inlaw
who's that woman that'll come up and tell me
to put her first before my mom?
U dnt hv to compare urself becos u can never
the mother and the same time the wife
Personally, no woman can be loved like my mom
Shikena!!!
Hm!I'm not arguing about how much a mother should be loved! A mother should be the most precious thing for everyone, but I'm referring to those guys who don't make a move without their mom's approval, and take their side against their lover,even if the mom is wrong
should be ex gratia...and the wife should not have a problem
wth that, Wives should learn to accept and love the mother-inlaw
like their own mother, that way their relationship will be smoothdear i like ur comment on this... a woman shud rily luv momsy like her own... Like tht d family is so sweet u know... Thanx baby...   | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it
this or that....
Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best... | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 28-06-2010 07:38 PM (14 years ago) (f) @ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it
this or that....
Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "eagleseyez") eagleseyez at 28-06-2010 07:40 PM (14 years ago) (m) @ bittersweet
I never said the mother can be right or wrong
i said their role to decision makin in the sons house
is ex gratia meanin its only a favour and not compelled by
legal right...it is not a must that they'll take her advice
Bur the woman in the house must see to it that a good relationship
is maintained btw the mother and her, if not..Kasala no go end!! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it
this or that....
Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet
I never said the mother can be right or wrong
i said their role to decision makin in the sons house
is ex gratia meanin its only a favour and not compelled by
legal right...it is not a must that they'll take her advice
Bur the woman in the house must see to it that a good relationship
is maintained btw the mother and her, if not..Kasala no go end!!
I think you didn't get the point here! I was referring at those moms who emotionally black mail their sons in their favor, without giving a damn that that can destroy their son's relationship! And it's not even about moms right now,but about those guys who can't take decisions by their own
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet, tht is where u make d mistake...its not giving up, it is not a fight... it is a conversation to lead u where u both happy | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 28-06-2010 07:49 PM (14 years ago) (f) @ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it
this or that....
Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises!
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@ bittersweet, tht is where u make d mistake...its not giving up, it is not a fight... it is a conversation to lead u where u both happy
I think that the point of this post has been lost on the way! A mama's boy will never listen to what you feel/want,if his mother is not agree with that! It's not even about compromising here,it's about if you could be able to be with a guy whose mom is ruling his life even at his 50's
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it
this or that....
Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing?
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 07:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 28-06-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) @ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it
this or that....
Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? ya, they are little things but i dnt play around wit my food girl  of course i wouldnt want him running to tell his mama everything but if we had a guideline of wat should be kept between us then he would understand and take my feelings into consideration. he's a man and he should know where to draw the boundaries
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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